I have been going thorugh a lot the past year bu tI have overcome everything, but I said sotehign to my boyfriend tonight that woud make him t hink that I went back to my 'old way'....i wasn't sober though when i said it....and thats what i am blaming it on.....but now everything just feels different its like words that cut like knives... when i said what i said i could hear myself thinking this is something you shouldnt be saying.... im kinda really mad at myself right now....
2007-02-11 00:31:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By your typing I think you are still on the bottle.
Stop getting drunk so you say stupid stuff. Apologise and if that is not enough then that's it. Maybe you need to keep off the booze until you can handle yourself. Drink is like poisonous snake that seeks to snare you. Your BF will either get on with it but you need to straighten your head.
You are mad with yourself that is a good thing because use that anger to resolve to do something about what you have done so that you do not ever repeat it. Maybe not getting drunk where you have not a lot of control of what you say.
If you are going to repeat yourself then expect same shame again and again. Nobody is to blame for what you choose to do.
Only you have the power to do something about yourself and it is your responsibility so MAKE THAT CHANGE! TODAY.
Drink causes arguements and saying things you wouldn't normally, if you continue to drink then expect no change and a lot more of how you are feeling right now.
I am not saying do not drink but it moderation, you stop before getting merry. You are aware of your limits.
It is only you who puts the alcholic drink to your lips so it is your responsibility with what you do with alcohol.
Stewing is self pity is losers way - take action so you never have to feel like this again.
2007-02-11 00:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can totally relate and know how you feel. I did the same thing when I lost the plot with my boyfriend once. I apologized to him later. He said he didn't blame me because he let me down big time in the first place, but I still felt bad. I don't know what your situation was, but try and apologize to him. Never fight while under the influence of alcohol. I hope you work things out. Good luck!
2007-02-11 08:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by hhfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and don't blame the booze. you said it and now deal with it. I hate people who blame drugs/alcohol for their behavior. but then I don't believe that alcoholism is a disease so its totally your fault. take the responsibility for your actions.
2007-02-11 08:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you need to resubmit the question when you sober up.
2007-02-11 08:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so? wat u wanna ask?
2007-02-11 08:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋