I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club(http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianlove)...... and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.
2007-02-11 00:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your husband about this, and try and work something out.
2007-02-11 00:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man your husband is not doing a great job. Eventualy you even turned to love a different gender. Thats bad man, I feel bad for your husband.
My advice is just be friends with the lesbian, dont leave your family. You will see whats going to happen after. You are in some desires now, that desire will eventualy end. So its up to you, you will lose your family and your lesbian if you go so fast about it. I thought I met my soulmate before, my friends also thought they mate there soulmate as well. But now I am SINGLE =( and my friend is single. So take it easy for a while. Go on a vacation on around a week or month from your family and the lesbian. Something will come up to you and you will know which one to chose.
2007-02-11 00:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Salaama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can decidde what is right for you but having chats and one or two meetings with some one is not going to ensure you a lasting relationship with the other person either.now you need to consider what breaking up and jumping right into another relationship will do to your small children they will already be shaken and this will not help them.if your marriage is that bad and you are that unhappy then get out if you can not work it out but there were reasons that you loved this man and you need to try to remember them.if you still want to go stay single and give your kids time to adjust to their world being changed.dont make rash decesions as this is life altering for more than you.whatever you decide will impact those children.
2007-02-11 00:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and see a counselor and see if you are really a lesbian. do not do anything in the heat of the moment. Your new found relationship is exciting and can be overwhelming, after the passion is gone you might feel otherwise. Cool down and dont do anythingh rash, talk to a counsellor.
2007-02-11 00:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel u my dear, am in the same situation as u right now, so i would say follow ur heart and find a way for u to be happy; stop for a moment and think about what u want.
2007-02-11 00:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by sexybabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, i think its too late already... think of ur sons... do u think they are gonna accept it, knowing that their mom had actually made a big mistake that is marrying their father? and including the fact that they ARE the products of ur own 'mistake'? just think about it... sometimes, sacrifices are necessity for others happiness... anyway, im not in the right place to judge u... u must have been through a very difficult times... just be patient and asks for God's help...
2007-02-11 00:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go and ask jerry springer, that's where all the experts are.
2007-02-11 00:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋