Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

ive been with this guy for almost 8 months, and i love him alot. but lately he jst cant seem to stay out of trouble at school. hes been grounded for almost 2 weeks before and that killed me, not being able to see him. and now that he just got ungrounded hes grades are dropping and im afraid his mom is soon to reground him again! not seeing him for another week would kill me! i really love him alot and through all of it i have been faithful, not cheating or anything to threatn the relationship. i know hw loves me toobut he says that i deserve more than a relationship over the phone ( thats the only way we keep in touch). i want to stay with him and make this work, so how can i convince him that it will, and possible try to explain how to keep it from happening again?!

2007-02-08 03:05:54 · 5 answers · asked by rckstar88 2 in Singles & Dating

I hate V day..
and his asked me to be with him on this day..
but I really hate V.day.
and hate wearing red especially on that day.although my fav color is red.lol
if I wear a black dress would it be wrong?

2007-02-08 03:05:37 · 18 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 03:05:31 · 6 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We met on Friday and ONLY talked everyday since then. He has visited my home once....so what is really going on? I'm pretty sure he isn't IN LOVE with me...how should i take it?

2007-02-08 03:05:20 · 16 answers · asked by Suga Mama 2 in Singles & Dating

ex of three years dumped me almost a month ago. trying to win him back. you think it's too creepy to call him and ask i he wants me to grab food for him since he's really busy for the whole week.
he really hates me right now for some reason. i never cheated on him, never lied, i think he could have gotten tired of our arguments in relationship.

2007-02-08 03:05:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why hasen't he told his children thier small 10 and 8 boy and girl. thier old enough to understand, so why is he waiting so long? is he ashamed of me or does he think it's just not important? he said that he told his mother, which was the most important, and that his kids did'nt need to know. what does that mean?what is he scared of, the only time they call is when they want money, he told them not to call before 8 which is when he gets home. why dosen't he want me to say hi, he says i might scare them and they won't call. He also told thier mother not to call here he said to call him at work, so what the heck. he has'nt been in mexico for 1yr and a half so i don't think he's cheating, but i still don't understand y?

2007-02-08 03:05:07 · 3 answers · asked by marilyn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

him unless we stay up all night, too. I cannot leave the house while he sleeps, which means I usually do not get to leave all week because by the time he wakes up he is leaving the house and I am stuck with the kids 24 hours a day. no, he doesn't work all night. I cannot get a sitter, he doesn't give me enough money.

Can anyone give me advice?

2007-02-08 03:04:45 · 19 answers · asked by proud mommy and wife 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well there's dis girl dat i used 2 trust a lot i would tell her everythin. When me n my bf broke up cuz we had problems she went out wit him wit out tellin me ne thing no body new. a week after they started goin out i found out. She broke up wit him cuz she didnt want me 2 b mad @ her. 2 weeks later me n him started goin out again. I still talk 2 her but da question is.... should i trust her?

2007-02-08 03:04:29 · 9 answers · asked by la loca 1 in Singles & Dating

O.K say you have a BEST friend. One day, you had a fight, a huge one but after all, it happened because of misunderstanding. Your best friend screamed "I don't wanna know you anymore" in your face in front of everyone. Now, you haven't talked for 5 months, but sometimes you just miss him SOOO much and somehow you can't get on with your life. Bear in mind that it was all about misunderstanding. Would you try to contact them again?

Thanks!

2007-02-08 03:03:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is no contact but you know the person somehow . You would never actually do anything . Only over the internet . Do we count that as cheating?

2007-02-08 03:03:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or are they faking it?

2007-02-08 03:03:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend has chosen very beautiful, but strapless dresses for her bridesmaids and is looking for shawls or wraps the bridesmaids can wear...something complimentary and simple that won't distract from the dress. Where should we look? I'm especially concerned with the right color and fabric that will match the dress.

2007-02-08 03:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by Cindy Lou 2 in Weddings

I have been on an online dating site for over a year and have met many people. I haven't gotten to a second date with any but one. I can understand why I can't find anyone because after all, I am what people consider a loser, I don't have a college education, don't make very much money, don't live in a nice place, have no car, and on and on. So maybe I'm not good enough to be loved, but these guys that I have met and the ones I haven't met have everything going for them, looks, education, good job, popular and a lot friends (they say). If they are so great, why are they still online? There are plenty of college educated women with good jobs online, it just seems odd that they haven't found each other. Also these guys never update their profiles. I met a guy a year ago that had just changed career fields, but his ad still mentions what he did previously.

2007-02-08 03:02:36 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

IN MY OPINION THIS DAY HAS BECOME WAY OVER COMMERCIALIZED NOT UNLIKE HALLOWEEN ST PATRICKS DAY. AS A MAN, I DON'T NEED A DESIGNATED DAY TO SHOW MY AFFECTIONS. WHAT IS SEXY, CREATIVE OR ROMANTIC ABOUT AN "ASSIGNED" DAY WITH A SHORT LIST OF "PREDETERMINED ACCEPTABLE" GIFTS? C'MON, ALL YOU WOMEN OUT THERE...SET ME STRAIGHT. TO ME VALENTINES DAY IS JUST AN OVER HYPED, OVER COMMERCIALIZED "HOLIDAY". TELL ME WHY I'M WRONG.

2007-02-08 03:02:12 · 7 answers · asked by gotmini02 1 in Singles & Dating

Well...I really feel so...
Where to find new friends? (I mean seriously...except myspace and other funny stuf).

Thanks alot!

2007-02-08 03:01:49 · 11 answers · asked by Bobi G 1 in Singles & Dating

my fience and i have no money at the moment seriously i don't think we will have anything to spend on valentines day. can some one please help me with an idea of what to do i hate to admit it but im unimaginative

2007-02-08 03:01:32 · 8 answers · asked by jacquelinemeddows 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does it mean when, a guy texts you loads everytime he is out in town to meet up but then, once you have met up, you dont hear from him for a while and he ignores your texts but then, after a while when you give up on him, he contacts you again like normal???

this has been going on for years!!!!even when i was with my ex this would happen. (i never met up with him when i was with my ex).

does he really like me???

me have a great time when we are together. he always wants to be with me and compliments me. he always makes conversation.

hes 29 and single.

i havent slept with him. i have been abit of a tease tho by staying over his place.

i really really like him!!



he knows i came out of a 7 year relationship 8 months ago. he knows i ended it. he did know my ex.

2007-02-08 03:01:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He was very shy when I first met him and when we talk we can talk for awhile. I have caught him looking at me several times and sometimes when I cacth him he looks away and others he keeps eye contact from across the room but doesnt say anything. Often he will walk past me and say nothing. He teases me playfully and remembers little things I say. I just dont understand him not speaking to me sometimes and yes he is definately single. Is he scared. I am 20 and he is 18, by the way?-

2007-02-08 03:01:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, my boyfried and I have been dating for a while now and I will admit that we both have had our ups and downs. Lying and whatnot, but thats was agreed to all be in the past. Smoking was an issue last December, and was promised to me that he would quit. I caught him lying to me about it several times, and he has promised me that it wouldnt happen again. i have realized that smoking is a hard habbit to stop, so I have givien him the benefit of the doubt, but what hurts is the lying. Earlier this week, I found a pack in his jaket, and was surprised to see them in there because he said that he would make a better effort to quit. well, I found yet another pack in his jacket today, and what Im really pissed about its that he lied to me about them. i have told him over and over that smoking isnt the issue now, its that you lie to me, but he doesnt seem to get it. I noticed that some money that was left on the table was missing, and he said he took it just in case he needed it he lied again

2007-02-08 03:01:18 · 2 answers · asked by Brittney 5 in Singles & Dating

,, me my self i never use one, for i see it takeing a job from from a person,,,it true it my save you time,an you may be in a rush, but have you thought ,how thing will be in ,the years to come when,our kids are looking for a job,

2007-02-08 03:01:03 · 4 answers · asked by ghostwalker077 6 in Family

my and my bf just want to know because we want to know if there will be and suprises and how we should proper.

many thanks for all the answers ^_^

2007-02-08 02:58:24 · 26 answers · asked by littlemogirl_016 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with my mother and 8 yr old sis. i'm not close 2 my mother and i have no interest to be close. my father and i lost contact when i was 9 and i got in touch with him almost 2 yrs now. along with finding my father i started communicating with my two aunts who are young by the way one is 6 yrs older than me and the other is 10. in the beginning one of them would call me constatnly and i mean everyday and i felt close to her but not too long ago i asked her to call me the next day and she told me that she was gonna 4get. seeing how she use to call so often hearing that really caught me off gaurd. regardless i phoned her a few days later and she never returned my call and that was 2 mnths ago so i decided to just keep my distance with he. the other one is really affectionate. she's the 1st person to tell me they love me so openly and she even got me to open up 2 her emotionally cause i've been telling her i love her like it's nothing before i couldn't even form the sentence but...

2007-02-08 02:58:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Two in particular call often and obviously still have feelings for him. One of them lives in the same city and "drops by" unexpectedly (never when I'm with him). He also doesn't answer their calls when I'm around. I've never been the type to tell someone they can't be friends with their exes, but it always come back to bite me. I actually caught a past one sleeping with his ex after he swore up and down they were just friends. I don't want to be the crazy jealous girlfriend.

2007-02-08 02:57:53 · 20 answers · asked by Gina A 2 in Singles & Dating

roses are red,
violets are blue.
i think i'm in love,
but not with you!

can i be any more blunt to my ex?

2007-02-08 02:57:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she's cool, funny, a bit quirky, and i have a budget of about £100, any ideas of what i could get her would be greatly appreciated! cheers! x

2007-02-08 02:56:54 · 11 answers · asked by Nat 1 in Friends

I don't know if she likes me.

She leaves tommorow and won't be back until like the 20th.

I wanted to send her at least a card. But if she won't get it until after Valentine does it have the same impact.

2007-02-08 02:56:17 · 5 answers · asked by The Teacher 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 02:55:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 02:55:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to do something amazing for my fiance for valentines day and frankly cologne is getting old as a gift. It will probable involve some kinky crazy sex but I need some ideas. We are pretty adventurous with our sex life but I want to do something over the top. I am open to anything but threesomes I want this relationship to last and that is not the way to go. I am going to marry him.

2007-02-08 02:55:20 · 7 answers · asked by _Chantel_ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has cheated on her husband numerous times. Like 3-4 times that he knows of. Why do you think he stays?
They have 3 children. And have seperated 2 or 3 times. But they always manage to get back together.

2007-02-08 02:55:02 · 32 answers · asked by SPANKY 1 in Marriage & Divorce