my and my bf just want to know because we want to know if there will be and suprises and how we should proper.
many thanks for all the answers ^_^
2007-02-08 02:58:24 · 26 answers · asked by littlemogirl_016 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
errrr sorry for my miss spelt word it prepare not prober lol sorry ^_^
2007-02-08 03:07:55 · update #1
Dont expect the earth to move becuase the first times not brilliant but it does get better. i dont know about what it will be like for your boyf. but for you it may hurt a liitle and you may bleed a little but dont worry about it its normal. Be sure you are ready and make sure you use protection i.e a condom you CAN get pregnant the first time you have sex and its the only thing that will protect you from stds. Have a look at this website for more information and advice. Good Luck!
2007-02-08 03:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoyed my first time. There wasnt any pain or any blood. I was nearly 17 and he was over 20 but a virgin too. There may be 'surprises' as you put them. He may not be able to get an erection due to nerves, or he may finish very quickly - again due to nerves. You may not feel much or again you might enjoy it. Its like anything, it takes time. You need to get to know your partner and take things slowly. USE CONTRACEPTION each and every time, or you may get a surprise in the form of a baby - dont think it can't happen to you, and it can happen EVEN IF you use contraception. Don't have sex under the age of 16 either, its illegal for a reason. Humans were made to enjoy sex so no doubt you will if you are ready.
2007-02-08 11:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask yourselves if you are ready. If you felt ready then you might not be asking this question. You'd just go with whatever felt right and that's how it should be.
You need to be sensible and consider pregnancy too. This is not a game and a mistake could seriously change your lives.
If you are under age then please wait. It's not worth it. The age limit is so that you are prepared mentally for that sort of thing. Under that age you may think you are ready but are you? It's a big step.
Above all else when you do it. Enjoy it and do what feels right. No pressure.
2007-02-08 11:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it happen without making it happen.
Have protection ready, get on the pill n get test it...take care of all the responsibility that comes with sex, then you can just relax, n let nature take it's course ; ) If you're ready n wants to, it'll just happen in the most natural way.
Remember to just have fun n enjoy being close - there is no proper way to make love - it just happens:D
2007-02-08 11:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by CHERRYBLOSSOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too hiped up, it is not all its cracked up to be. for the girl, the 1st time sucks. It usually hurts and is very emotional. For the guy, well they tend to not last that long. To make the experience a memorable one you have to create a mood. Candles, flowers and a very warm place to do it. Make sure to use protection like condoms and birth control. Go slow and make sure you are not hurting her too much. If it does make sure to stimulate her by other means like touching this will make intercourse more enjoyable.
2007-02-08 11:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to someone older than you about this. Do you have an older sister or cousin or even a cool auntie that could help you?
This is a really big step you are thinking of taking, you need to talk to someone you trust.
Remember - No Glove No Love.
2007-02-08 11:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by fairyprincesscorinne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just plan a special night together but make sure you are both ready. Use protection and relax thats all i can say - may be a liltle painful for you at first but it will get better evertime.
2007-02-08 14:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by glam123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, the word is prepare not proper.
Second, you are not ready if you are on here asking questions. Go get a book from the library, talk to your parents, etc.
2007-02-08 11:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I remember that it wasn't what I thought it would be, sex doesnt' become great till about 30, then you will know exactly what all the 18 year old guys are raving about
2007-02-08 11:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
such extactly as first time to play badmington. I was very exciting and thought of great fun to have as seen in TV. I turned out that I had not even able to touch the ball! It take me months to really 'have fun'
2007-02-08 11:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by kol long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋