Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

I have been seeing this guy for 6 months and Valentine's Day is upon us. I recently found out through conversation with him that he doesn't "celebrate" this holiday...even when he was married. Unlike him, I do. I have always gotten and given something on this particular holiday. At first I was a little upset knowing that I wasn't going to receive anything but then realized that's just who he is...it has nothing to do with me. But should I still get him something?

2007-02-08 02:54:45 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 02:54:39 · 7 answers · asked by Crystal O 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that when a man doesnt want to be with you any more he still stays with you, but just treats u like crap? Why doesnt he just end it for good? Why do they waste so much time???

2007-02-08 02:54:28 · 8 answers · asked by amor_mama 1 in Singles & Dating

Who would be the hardest person to be without in your life?

2007-02-08 02:53:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We would not be talking about the stress in his life, the strain of being a working father, the pressure of a demanding career, psychological evaluations, and basically making excuses for his behavior?

Wouldn't we would be calling him a stalking, obsessed, dangerous control freak who was prepared to abandon his family for another woman and do who-knows-what to the competition?

We'd probably be locking him up for good, not saying things like "oh you've never walked in her shoes", or "driven in her diaper", I suppose....

2007-02-08 02:53:29 · 6 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 02:53:22 · 10 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

In a relationshop betweena guy and a girl

2007-02-08 02:53:15 · 8 answers · asked by redhead_235 1 in Singles & Dating

ok- I'm 25 and all my life people told me "Oh- honey- don't waste your life by getting married/having kids young. Wait until you're ready- do all the things you wanna do- get your education.....etc." So I get my education- I'm intelligent and independant and happily single. Well now- the same people who told me to take my time and get my education are now on me like "Whats wrong with you? When are you getting married? You won't be young forever!!! You're 25 - you should be married by now!" Ok- so why the hell did I need to get my education when they didn't even want me to use it in the first place!? It's like "Ok honey- your 25- put down those damn books and focus on finging you a man and having kids!!" Whats the deal? You can only be accpeted as a single independent educated woman up until the age of 25 and after that you are just a spinster?

2007-02-08 02:52:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is it something else money love or just his jimmy

2007-02-08 02:51:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well i liked this guy for a few months and he knew that i liked him, he would tell me that he loved me and stuff like that. but he treated me awful. like he would talk to me one day, best in the world, but the next he would act like he hated me and didnt want to talk. but now we really dont speak with each other. but i have been talkin to his best friend a lot lately, and i am fallin for him, do you think that is a bad idea.......

youguyscanfeelfreetoimme

2007-02-08 02:51:39 · 26 answers · asked by pretty_grl_321 1 in Singles & Dating

How much weight is there behind the old 'eye contact' thing. Do you girls deliberately keep looking when you like a lad or is it sometimes because he keeps looking at you. I've always done pretty well for myself as far the girls go but last 6 months or so i've really noticed the eye contact thing more.

Basically if your gettin' the eyes is it, in your opinion, usually worth a go? Also, what about if its quite blatant but she's with another man. This happened the other day and i thought she was beautiful too.

2007-02-08 02:50:17 · 29 answers · asked by jonny 1 in Singles & Dating

We had common interests and in each other.

2007-02-08 02:49:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 02:48:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've have been together for about five months. We would have sex semi-regularly in the first couple months, but after that we stopped because he said he didn't like how condoms felt. I got on birth control a few weeks ago and he's still afraid I might get pregnant. I brought this up before and asked why he doesn't want to have sex and questioned if he was still attracted to me and he got very upset. He told me he's just trying to look out for the both of us and not get me pregnant, and if he wasn't attracted to me he wouldn't even be with me. He's always home with me every night, so I highly doubt it's cheating. I would know if something like that was going on.

2007-02-08 02:48:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he called it off with me when i was 11 weeks pregnant ... and that was on thanksgiving.. Bec of my anger problems well im on meds now for my anger problems.. And dont worry my ob gave them to me so they wont hurt my child.. i still love and im still trying to get him back bec i lov him that much I miss him so bad... how do i get over him will it be harder to get over him bec im caring his child.... that he does not want anything to with my baby r baby .. we were so happy together and yes he wanted this baby with me bec i made sure befour we tryed to get pregnant... and no it was not just for sex either bec we did that way befour we tried to have a baby with each other.... so what should i do i want him bck still and i cant get over him.... i luv him

2007-02-08 02:48:25 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me, after a 2 1/2 year relationship, on Sunday night, stayed the night, then left Monday morning with his stuff. He said that he was unhappy but scared he'd never find someone that will love him as much as I love him, and said he'll always love me. He said that he doesn't think I can make him happy, but I know I can since I've been so busy caught up with college and work, I haven't set a lot of time aside, and know I can make him happy if I set "us" time aside. I'm confused because I never knew he was unhappy, it was just an all of a sudden thing. We've talked on the phone since then, and I asked him if he would just think about it, he said that he just needs some time. What are the chances of us getting back together? I'm hurting so bad inside because I need him back in my life!

2007-02-08 02:48:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I posted something like this abit ago..I guess i wasnt very clear.
Everytime my bf and I have intercourse we always have to work it in, and it hurts, not like a stinging pain or sharp pain, just a working it in pain (dont know how else to explain it) ...yes I am all lubed up and wet. My gyno says I'm perfectly fine and told me to stop squeezing my legs. So I did, but that didnt help...Is it possible he is just too big for me? If so, will I ever get used to it because I plan on being with him!

2007-02-08 02:48:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has a hunting bow that he doesn't use. A teenage neighbor said that he wanted to buy it, and my husband went ahead and let him get it before he even paid for it. I kept telling him that he should give the bow to the teen until it was paid for, because I didn't think the kid would pay for it. Well I was right, she kid finally came up like a month later and said he couldn't afford it, so my husband got it back, luckely in the same condition. Well, he has just done it again with a co-worker. He isn't friends with this guy, it's just someone he works with. The guy did give him $50 towards the asking price of $350, and my husband let him go ahead and take the bow. I told him again that he made a big mistake giving the bow to the guy before he paid for it, cause he could quit his job, break it, or who knows what, and my husband wouldn't get the rest of the money. He just says "Naw, cause I know where he works." That wouldn't hold up in small claims court! Did he make a bad choice?

2007-02-08 02:47:43 · 6 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Marriage & Divorce

The betrothal party is in one week. The wedding and reception is in 3 months. Thank-you, I am desperate to get it right.

2007-02-08 02:47:37 · 1 answers · asked by LAUGHING MAGPIE 6 in Weddings

i barely found out i am preg and i told the guy... he doesn't he tell me that he doesn't want any kids right now... he tells me theirs other options like abortion.... even though having a baby right now wasn't my plan i am totally against abortion. he tells me he can't be there sorry... i said " save your sorry's and explainations 4 ur kid because i won't be needing them at all" i never asked him2 b with me at all but i did ask him to be responsible for wut belongs to him... it takes two and the other responsible rathr than me is him.if he later wnts to or has a change of mind should i treat him with any remorse or consideration?? do you think that he will want to b responsible once he wakes up out of la la land? or if he will wake up and realize reality? what should i do?

2007-02-08 02:46:28 · 17 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys opinions are great so if you have an idea why please answer. women what do you think is going on, is he ashame or what.

2007-02-08 02:46:05 · 21 answers · asked by marilyn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i am in 8th grade and almost like everyone in my whole grade has had a boyfriend/girlfriend but i havent. im not sure if i am just to shy to ask anyone or no one is attracted to me. whats wrong?

2007-02-08 02:45:38 · 10 answers · asked by EMILYY SUP! 2 in Singles & Dating

Any protocol for passing on wedding bands when divorced, Ie is it bad Karma or somthing...plus how to share three rings between two girls...does engagment & eterninty equal a wedding band, or not????

2007-02-08 02:45:17 · 28 answers · asked by raqsbanat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 02:45:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

not puppy love, love, I am 20 and worried I will never fall in love sometimes.

2007-02-08 02:44:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a young work at a government job. I have a small office and it seems like the one of the other works at my job is scamming the system. Because of civil service laws she cant really be fired for any action she does. And she's done alot of different things Cursing out everyone inthe offce include the second in charge at my office. She doesnt get along with anyone here. She doesnt do any work and when something goes work with something she should have hanmdled she claims no one every told her that was part of her job.
Normally I dont pay attention to what other do and just do my work but when she doesnt do her work I'm always the one picking up the slack. Now everybody in the office is so use to depended on me to carry the office they let her just be a bump on a log.
The thing about it is that she still gets paid ok to do nothing while im busting my @ss to be a good employee. Maybe I should just slack like her and no care cause I cant be fired anyway.
What do you think?

2007-02-08 02:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by TD 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-08 02:44:11 · 18 answers · asked by ABHI LASH 1 in Friends

Have any of you ever connected with someone on here?

2007-02-08 02:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To lead a relationship, follow or walk side-by-side?

2007-02-08 02:43:28 · 5 answers · asked by happyblonde 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

education, great job, looks, friends, family -- are still DESPERATE to have a man??? I'm not putting down the male-female relationship; I've been married for many years. But, shouldn't we be okay even if we don't happen to have found a mate?

2007-02-08 02:42:55 · 12 answers · asked by Terri J 7 in Singles & Dating