how can i get over my baby daddy we were going out for 10 months and then he called it off with me?

Question

he called it off with me when i was 11 weeks pregnant ... and that was on thanksgiving.. Bec of my anger problems well im on meds now for my anger problems.. And dont worry my ob gave them to me so they wont hurt my child.. i still love and im still trying to get him back bec i lov him that much I miss him so bad... how do i get over him will it be harder to get over him bec im caring his child.... that he does not want anything to with my baby r baby .. we were so happy together and yes he wanted this baby with me bec i made sure befour we tryed to get pregnant... and no it was not just for sex either bec we did that way befour we tried to have a baby with each other.... so what should i do i want him bck still and i cant get over him.... i luv him

we wer going to get married in jan but he called itoff with me before that happend bec of the anger problems i had but i dont have the anger problems anymore

i dont know if this is true or not but one of his family members told me that he does not want anything to do with this child dont know if i belive her bec she might b just saying that to get me mad or something

Answer 1

if hes going to break up with you whenyou were pregnant it sounds like you could do better than him. sounds like he may have had second thoughts cause he would of stuck with you and got you help for your problems instead of taking of and leaving you when you were pregnant

i know that its hard when your pregnant with a guys child to just get over him cause i broke up with my daughters fater when i was 20 weeks pregnant because he became abusive to me and treated me like crap so i left
it was hard but it was the best thing i did cause i have a happy healthy three year old he has never senn her but shes fine.
he made me believe that he wanted to be with me for the rest of my life before i fell pregnant it was what we both wanted but when i got pregnant he changed.

yes it will be hard cause its been four years since we broke up and i still have feelings for him and probably always will cause we had a child together but it gets easier and you will find someone that will love you and your child i have so goodluck

Answer 2

Let me make sure I get this straight. You have anger issues, your boyfriend left you because he's tired of arguing with you, and yet you and this man planned to have a child together without getting married first?

Next time get the committment (marriage) before bringing a child into the world. Sounds like your ex has moved on. You need to get your life together and do the same.

Answer 3

is it safe to assume you are young? well i was a teen mom 12 years ago this month and had another baby just 3 days after my 21st birthday the first baby was not out of love but in time i tried to have a relationship with this guy we told each other we were in love and tried to make it work this was my first child and ALL i wanted was my childs father to love us and participate but with more time i found the situation to be horrible he ended up not talking to me because of rumors and then after i had the baby he was never much around he was young and dumb he simply had better things to do and eventually he became physically abusive to me that when i knew for sure he and i were through...with my second child i was with her father 2 years madly in love and thought everything was great but as soon as i got pregnant this fool started avoiding me and wanted nothing to do with me and claimed the baby wasnt his after i had the baby he started come around for about 3 months when i found out he had yet another girl pregnant i then told him to go be with his family and raise that baby since ours didnt matter to him and thats exactly what he did however for the next 5 years he still came around said he loved me and wanted to be with me but in all that time he really never cared for our child it was obvious and in the long run of that bull he ended up stealing my debit card and spending almost $800 out of my account once i found out i called the police, went to his house and confronted him and then NEVER spoke to him again...anyway this is the short version of my story but the point is DO NOT chace this man no matter how much you THINK you want him he will either do you right or do you wrong and we both see which he has chosen so move on no matter how hard because you will better benefit you and your child in the long run if you let him go now!!

Answer 4

Just tell him how you feel.... And maybe after the baby yall will get together. Because when he looks into that baby's eyes he will think it is beautiful and then he will realize that yall are meant to be together maybe he is just scared my boyfriend did that.