Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

I've that you know that you've found true love when your partner knows all your weaknesses and can replace them with his..... id that true? I'm wondering because thats how me and my boyfriend were, but then as 3 years came along with us being together he started becoming abusive and he would use those weaknesses against me.... any help or thiughts??? Please

2007-02-08 02:30:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 02:29:43 · 10 answers · asked by dandy 3 in Weddings

I´m from America and my wife is from Spain. We are now married, living in Spain. Do you know how I met her? I met the love of my life on yahoo, chat. I want to know, how can I thank yahoo, and the users on answers too, for all the help they gave me, without getting my question banned?

2007-02-08 02:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by nassim420 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 02:28:17 · 12 answers · asked by dandy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

weird situation...this girl and i are in the military i'm best friends with her and we go camping with some friends some of witch being superiors we are all really drunk she starts making out with the "superior" and i break it up thinking they are just drunk and will regret it later on its def. frouned apon in the military....well weeks go by after this weekend i have grown a crush on her but also suspect them of being together she is seeing him but keeping it a secret from me "i dont know why at all" i finally ask her about it to see if they are or not she tells me no then finally i catch them making out and the truth comes out sould i be mad?? i'm def. jealous

2007-02-08 02:28:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am getting married, (not for the first time!), and I found a sample invitation on the web...It made it sound like the kids of the bride were hosting it..(I have a 13 and 10 year old)..Started out saying something about "our mom is marrying the man that makes her eyes light up and who loves her and us all very much" or something like that...then it goes on to state the details of the wedding..informal invite..but now that I need it, I can't find it anywhere!! Can anyone help me out??

2007-02-08 02:26:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I mean sometimes i doubt because how many people get divorced, I'm 20 and when I get married I want it to be forever, does that exist anymore?

2007-02-08 02:26:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can ya make a lad jealous and for them to want you i was datin him for 2 years we broke up 11 days ago an i want him bck everytime i say a lad has been on the phone he wants to know wat they wanted will this work or do i need to do more please help me please

2007-02-08 02:26:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This lad i know who is like gorgous says nice comments to me but i dont know what to say back... Any ideas on what you say that could help me? and what should i say to compliment him without sounding chessy or stupid?? Thanks for your help!!

2007-02-08 02:26:06 · 8 answers · asked by **//PRINCESS 1 in Singles & Dating

i know everyone likes someone if HE/SHE does not understands us wht shuld we do of those ppl?

2007-02-08 02:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by akshay 1 in Friends

Hi, I found out this week my wife had an affair, I know who the guy is and a lot of detail. My question is , do I confront him?

2007-02-08 02:24:32 · 37 answers · asked by Steve F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I have an ex, we broke up over two months ago and she is referring to me as a stalker because I emailed her a few times asking her to talk about what's gone wrong. She never wants to talk about anything. She's stubborn. Well, the other day, I created a chatroom. In this chatroom you can see who visited your chatroom recently. Low and behold at 12:30 a.m. she visited my chatroom. She didnt come in but she came there to see it. Now, I'm asking this, WHY IF SHE DIDN'T STILL CARE ABOUT ME, would she be visiting my chatroom? If I'm a stalker, why is she visiting my chatroom? She didn't have to come to that location but she did. I guess she didn't think I would know but it leaves names of people who were there. Any help would be appreciated.

2007-02-08 02:24:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that people can tell you that they like you, really care about you and would like to be with you but the timing just seems wrong? However, they don't want you to walk out of their lives. I know sometimes it's a matter of keeping your options open, but why? Why are some people so set on ruining what is potentially a good thing for something that may not even be half as good? Why do people always think the grass is greener on the otherside?
What's the deal with keeping your options open?

2007-02-08 02:24:04 · 5 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

if your gf/bf threatened to kill themself whta would you do to stop them and you wernt there to stop them they told you over the phone?

2007-02-08 02:23:47 · 6 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 02:23:01 · 18 answers · asked by Willie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 02:22:09 · 22 answers · asked by anonymiss82 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 02:21:25 · 5 answers · asked by camartin1979 2 in Weddings

Even though I didn't cause her marriage to break up, how come I come off worse than my husband?

2007-02-08 02:20:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 02:20:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Even if you havent met each other personally, and you were both raised in different cullture and you have different nationalities.

2007-02-08 02:19:34 · 30 answers · asked by -girlie054- 1 in Singles & Dating

God Bless and Be Safe :)
I am starting to lose hope!

2007-02-08 02:18:56 · 15 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for six years now. He was previously with someone and had 3 kiddos from the relationship. Since him and I got together we have been raising them. I know that she is supposed to always come around because of the kids, but unfortunately it is not like that. It seems to be that she only comes around when she breaks it off with one of her BF.. Which makes it seem that she is not coming around for the kids but instead for MY HUBBY? Although, I know he is not interested, but it makes me really angry how she can try and use her kids as an excuse! A mother is supposed to be there at all times! Not part time! What can or should I do!

2007-02-08 02:18:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been going out for about 2 months and i'm just not that into her, the trouble is i like her and don't want to hurt her feelings and its a bit harsh to break up at this time of year so should i do it before or after valentines day?

2007-02-08 02:17:37 · 48 answers · asked by jonny Atlantis 2 in Singles & Dating

I always thought a good relationship consisted of no secrets, being an open book, sharing everything, complete trust and disclosure. I tell my boyfriend of almost 3 years everything, he has my passwords to numerous things, I dont mind if he has it, I dont mind if he were to go into my email account..but he never wants to give me any of his passwords..except for once he gave it to me cuz one day he was unable to check his email and he was expecting somethin important and asked me to check for him, but then after a few months he randomely changed it and wont give it to me again..he says its just that he wants his privacy..which makes me think he is hiding something..Why would someone need privacy when they arent doing something "bad"?... Is it wrong of me to want his password? Is it ok to want "privacy" from ur significant other?
I dont know if he is the "bad one" in the relationship for not giving the password, or am I the "bad one" for wanting it so much?

Can it all be innocent?

2007-02-08 02:17:34 · 22 answers · asked by amor_mama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our marriage has been rocky, but we're trying to work it out with counseling and talking things out. We already have one child. I wanted 4 when we were first married, but he wanted 3, so I said ok, 3 is fine. But soon 3 turned into 2 and now he says our son is enough. He has already gone to his doctor and looked into it (without me knowing) and basically has done everything but get the appointment.
I told him I want more than one child, and he's known that for the 5 years we've been together, but I don't want to force him into something he's not happy with. I KNOW he's not ready for another child, neither am I, but completely ruling out children forever is unthinkable to me. I have goals I want to get out of the way before having #2, and it would be about 3-4 years before I'd be in a position where I wanted to start trying again, but he hates wearing condoms and I have bad reactions to birth control, so he thinks a vasectomy is best. Just get snipped and end it. What should I do?

2007-02-08 02:17:00 · 3 answers · asked by Miss Informed 5 in Family

2007-02-08 02:16:45 · 11 answers · asked by Iwan S 1 in Friends

I was in a relationship for 4 years and now that i am finally single all of my friends are in relationships. I love to go clubbin and do things the only problem is I dont have anyone to do it with!! My friends have to ask permission etc.. I really dont do to much but work, go home and to the gym, and when my friends are able to i go to a couple of clubs. hat do you suggest that i do to make myslef more "out there" to make new friends???

2007-02-08 02:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by CurlySue 3 in Friends

Hi friends i need some advice i am a christian and dont wanna sound like i am not in controll of my life.I have been married for 13 years but things have gone horribly wrong i find we cannot communicate any longer my wifes mother always helps us but she has ulteriour motives ,she is for ever trying to make it look like she is the boss maybe i allowed it to happen but it has driven my wife and i apart she would rather take all her mothers advice instead of mine 3 times she has told me to take my things and leave but i have nowhere to go i think i have now met someone who i can talk to but i lied to her about me being married i think she wants to take this much further please guys this is very seriuos i need a good answer thanx for listening

2007-02-08 02:15:25 · 16 answers · asked by THE BIG BOSS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well 1st of all this girl has kind of been flirting with me for the past few weeks... pretty..her name is mary..almost evry boy in class likes her... she has friends with her all the tym and mary nd them keep saying hi evry day..she keeps lookin at me dn looks away wn i look bck ... one day we wer in class nd one of her friends askd if i wanted to go to this place wd mary.. then she sed to mary.. go on get off wd hm... couple of days after mary askd m agen.. pretty funny this bit.. i was like .. ummm i dont kno.. she was giggling.. she said look at his face to her friend lol.. im not sure if shes takin it seriously or just messin bout with friends... pls help..

jamie... :P

2007-02-08 02:15:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 02:15:13 · 9 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Singles & Dating