weird situation...this girl and i are in the military i'm best friends with her and we go camping with some friends some of witch being superiors we are all really drunk she starts making out with the "superior" and i break it up thinking they are just drunk and will regret it later on its def. frouned apon in the military....well weeks go by after this weekend i have grown a crush on her but also suspect them of being together she is seeing him but keeping it a secret from me "i dont know why at all" i finally ask her about it to see if they are or not she tells me no then finally i catch them making out and the truth comes out sould i be mad?? i'm def. jealous
2007-02-08 02:28:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you are the only one who knows if you can be mad or not, but it is obvious that she only thinks of you as a friend and not anything else. So even though you may have a crush on her she might not be feeling the same for you and you need to either tell her how you are feeling and tell her that maybe it was just out of trying to be protective of her and maybe it will pass, or get over it.
2007-02-08 02:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut bait,Dude. If you want to look at this girl, do so in your rear view mirror.Life with a person you can't trust is Hell. Limit your losses. Go into damage repair mode, (healing & forgiveness) & get on with your life.
2007-02-08 10:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rudy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could be mad at the fact that she lied to you to protect her relationship or consider the fact that she did it to protect your feelings. I wouldnt get involved with that in can only become a series of lies, pain, and confusion.
2007-02-08 10:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mike B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no right to be mad BESIDES the point that she lied to you. your jealousy and ur feelings for her give u no right to be mad because those are things that no one (besides you) can control. the only wrong she has done is lie and it was probably to protect her back.
2007-02-08 10:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by tfe1025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her you need a woman who cares only for you.you are worth more then that
2007-02-08 10:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh. wow...lot of info there. tell her you like her ask her out. if she says no. OK maybe she isnt ready or is dating him. wait a while. them try again.
2007-02-08 10:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋