I was in a relationship for 4 years and now that i am finally single all of my friends are in relationships. I love to go clubbin and do things the only problem is I dont have anyone to do it with!! My friends have to ask permission etc.. I really dont do to much but work, go home and to the gym, and when my friends are able to i go to a couple of clubs. hat do you suggest that i do to make myslef more "out there" to make new friends???
2007-02-08 02:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by CurlySue 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes you have to "fly" solo even if you think you'll look stupid. I have traveled to malls or even just to corner stores by myself and have gotten numbers. So think about it, have a day or to out by yourself. (Sounds boring,) I know but it could work.
2007-02-08 02:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by anonymiss82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While at the gym, exercise your mouth too. Talk with other people, if you connect with another gym regular you already have some common ground. And what the heck, both sexes are available. In your shoes I think I might even increase my gym time some, at least temporarily.
Church, volunteer work, local politics, the workplace (stay away from the opposite sex at work) and even the personals in the paper or on the web could lead to something good. BTW, is there a law against clubbing alone? You may want to try it a couple of times. I can't imagine you would be alone for any length of time.
Good luck, go get 'em.
2007-02-08 10:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is nothing wrong being single. Take the time out and date people. When you go clubbing with your friends that will be a good place to interact with other people. Afteral - I believe that you got it going on for you so therefore people are willing to ask you out - just go on a couple dates. Good luck
2007-02-08 10:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jamguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. Being single is not so fun if your other girlfriends are in relationship. You kinda feel left out and being the “third” wheel. You could take some courses in a nearby college, do volunteer or if you’re a spiritual person, you can always join up in your temple/church. It’s not so easy to make new friends.
2007-02-08 10:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try making friends at work. do you have cousins that are the same age or around the same age? siblings? try hanging out with them and make friends with their friends.
2007-02-08 10:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out by your self but dont be shy. talk to people and use your best judgement on people. if you dont like their personality wtach out. dont do anything u dont wanna do though
2007-02-08 10:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to keep these friends, you have to settle or your only other option is make new friends by going out by yourself.
2007-02-08 10:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋