Ok, I have an ex, we broke up over two months ago and she is referring to me as a stalker because I emailed her a few times asking her to talk about what's gone wrong. She never wants to talk about anything. She's stubborn. Well, the other day, I created a chatroom. In this chatroom you can see who visited your chatroom recently. Low and behold at 12:30 a.m. she visited my chatroom. She didnt come in but she came there to see it. Now, I'm asking this, WHY IF SHE DIDN'T STILL CARE ABOUT ME, would she be visiting my chatroom? If I'm a stalker, why is she visiting my chatroom? She didn't have to come to that location but she did. I guess she didn't think I would know but it leaves names of people who were there. Any help would be appreciated.
2007-02-08 02:24:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think at this point you need to write her off. She may still care about you, OR she may be calling you a stalker cause she is one too. Either way, there isn't trust there, and that's essential to a good relationship. Send one more email to tell her you're sorry that you made her uncomfortable with the emails and since she doesn't want to discuss it further, you wish her well in life.
From there on, if you get email from her or see her in a chat room, learn to ignore her. If this makes it easier, roll your eyes at the thought of her (not at her face of course) and realize that she wasn't mature enough for a real relationship with you. You'll find someone new in time, in the meantime, be happy with yourself for being strong and true.
2007-02-08 02:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Than not a stalker for visiting, but if you have to ask what went wrong than that's part of the problem. To me, you know when the relationship is breaking down because things are not the same. Good luck trying to figure her out.
2007-02-08 02:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by tank1show 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be just checking up on you because she wanted to make sure your happy and well... She may have had enough of a situation in which you where in and just dosent want to talk for a while because she finds it easier just to let things cool down abit, i would say that you should just try move on she is been stubborn and messing you about and the name calling? i mean comon im sure you can do better than this!!
2007-02-08 02:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by **//PRINCESS 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude, i'm not even dating you and I want to dump you.
i doubt she is stalking you, just because she entered a chat room you created. if she appeared at your workplace smeared in faeces to dowse your car in petrol, set it alight. then yes, she MAY be stalking you, if she left a horses head on your doorstep as well, then YES, she's definitely stalking you.
but who cares? you're a man, and she's a woman? what is she really going to do? you've dated her, so you would think that you would have good judgement not to get hooked up with a bunny boiler.
it sounds like you aren't over it and still want her.
be a man about it, delete her number, email etc from your phone, computer, pda. don't mix with mutual friends for 6-12 months. and ignore, ignore, ignore.
move On!
2007-02-08 02:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and move on. She might have been checking your chat room to see if you were mentioning her on it. She might be trying to get you in trouble? Start a fight? Just leave it alone and forget about her. Why would you want to pursue someone like that anyways? There are other fish in the sea, now go fishing!
2007-02-08 02:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by pearl28 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is your ex leave it that way and move on.The fact that she visited your chat room does'nt mean that she still cares about you but maybe she wanted to see if you were in there talking about her since she think's that you are a stalker.I suggest you leave her alone and move on.
2007-02-08 02:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she wants you to leave her alone, and you don't, you are a stalker. Stop thinking about her and don't try to contact her anymore.
2007-02-08 02:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
She wanted to see if you were talking trash about her. She is not interested in you. Leave her alone and stop obsessing about what she is doing and why.
2007-02-08 02:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL SHE'S NOT TALKING BECAUSE SHE HAS SOME ONE. SECOND OF ALL ITS REALLY NOT A BIG DEAL ABOUT HER ENTERING YOUR CHAT SHE PROBABLY WAS JUST BORED. LEAVE IT ALONE AND GONE BOUT YOUR BUSINESS. THIS DON'T MAKE ANYTHING SPECIAL BECAUSE OF HER VIEWING YOUR CHAT ITS NATION WIDE! SORRY
2007-02-08 02:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by sweetlips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably really likes you still and wants to get back but as you said she is really stubborn so she probably wont admit her feelings jus become friends an see how tht leads am sure u 2 will be reunited soon
2007-02-08 02:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋