I posted something like this abit ago..I guess i wasnt very clear.
Everytime my bf and I have intercourse we always have to work it in, and it hurts, not like a stinging pain or sharp pain, just a working it in pain (dont know how else to explain it) ...yes I am all lubed up and wet. My gyno says I'm perfectly fine and told me to stop squeezing my legs. So I did, but that didnt help...Is it possible he is just too big for me? If so, will I ever get used to it because I plan on being with him!
2007-02-08 02:48:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is possible you're just tense. Have some wine, ask him to give you a massage with some good smelling lotion or oil...
You might even try to start stretching daily, and maybe even beforehand. Any stretch that stretches your hips: butterfly, splits, lay on your back and pull one leg up toward your head, etc. Then after your relaxing drink and massage, when you guys get started, lay on your back, relax, and loosley wrap your legs around his waist. I've even heard that taking some antihistamine or something (research this) might help cause it relaxes you (though i wouldn't combine that with wine).
Another possiblity is the size factor, but if he is gentle and y'all are persistent, that will go away - without being too graphic, your body will eventually make room for him. be patient.
2007-02-08 02:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an interesting line of questions going there. I find this condition interesting, though without actually knowing what size your boyfriend is my guess is that he isn't too big.
I wish you best of luck anyhow
2007-02-08 12:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably to big for you right now but you will eventually get accustomed to it. I have with my bf and once the pain stops it is pure exstacy
2007-02-08 10:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax, have a little foreplay and enjoy the moment. when you anticipate the pain, you tense up causing your body to tighten up therefore causing more pain. just relax, enjoy being with your partner.
2007-02-08 10:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by deeshair 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax more and it wont hurt as much it could be that you anticipate the pain that makes your body tense up
2007-02-08 10:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That happened with me the first couple of months with my bf and i was afraid to have sex with him but i am now the master and having alot of fun. Good LUCK
2007-02-08 10:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if it was you but i have told another person that i think as much as you think you are relaxed your probably not get a massage from your partner b4 sex meditate if you into that sort of thing just really relax
2007-02-08 10:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by jacquelinemeddows 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is too big...i have actually had this problem before but we always worked it out.
2007-02-08 10:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by jim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it'll take a while for you to get used to it. but you will someday give birth to a watermelon, so his D isn't anywhere near that size.
you can stretch out it just takes time.
Maybe get a big dildo and practice??
2007-02-08 10:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to insert his play thing 1 inch north! Maybe he fooled you by telling you the stinky hole was how you have sex, but he was lying!!! That is for exit only!! Hope this helps ****:)
2007-02-08 10:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by MRJERK715 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋