How much weight is there behind the old 'eye contact' thing. Do you girls deliberately keep looking when you like a lad or is it sometimes because he keeps looking at you. I've always done pretty well for myself as far the girls go but last 6 months or so i've really noticed the eye contact thing more.
Basically if your gettin' the eyes is it, in your opinion, usually worth a go? Also, what about if its quite blatant but she's with another man. This happened the other day and i thought she was beautiful too.
2007-02-08 02:50:17 · 29 answers · asked by jonny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ha ha, i dont mean eye contact when i'm talking to someone, i mean when your in a bar or club.
to be honest i sort of knew it couldn't be a bad thing, just wondered how much of an important pulling tool it is to you ladies.
as for that girl the other day, it was hard to tell if it was her bf or not but either way theres alway next time ay!
2007-02-08 03:23:16 · update #1
i weight train and the last 6 months i've really come on. thats probably why i've noticed the attention more, just wondered if the eye contact thing was such a significant sign or not.
2007-02-08 03:38:00 · update #2
your probably right, i've probably got chocolate round my mouth or somethin!
2007-02-08 03:42:59 · update #3
We can still look even if were with someone, it never hurt anyone
Eye contact is the key, it took me a while to work it out.....
When you start feeling uncomfortable and would normally look away hold still for an extra couple of seconds
2007-02-08 02:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha eye contact is key in attracting someone of the opposite sex. Lock eyes with her for no more and no less than 3 seconds at a time (I swear this is the key).... it's enough to show interest and too little to show creepiness.... girls love it (and so do guys from what I have seen). My friend and I (he is a guy) try this one out for fun to see who can pick up the most through eye contact.. it really works! Do this a few times throughout the day/evening (whatever your setting) and if she is responsive she is so into you!! The other guy may be just a friend so give it a go!
2007-02-08 10:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the other man was her brother! Usually it's a good sign, depending on how it's done. if she looks away when you notice then she's just shy or didn't expect you to look. If she doesn't, she might just be teasing (not as common as you may think, honest) or fairly confident. A girl has to do *something* to let someone know she's interested and eye contact is quite a big one.
On the other hand, apparently I used to stare at people without realising....before I got contact lenses.
2007-02-08 10:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by finch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman gives you the eye and she's with another man, she's probably not worth your time. Have you changed your appearance in some way? If you're noticing more eye contact, it's because of something you've done--perhaps a different hair style. Maybe you've got a new attitude and it's showing in the way you carry yourself. Whatever it is, it's working!
2007-02-08 11:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The eye contact is a 100% sure sign she's interested and wants you to come over.
If she's with a guy however, she's just being a bit naughty! She fancies you and is being flirty but but if you made some sort of move you can guarantee she'd ignore you.
2007-02-08 10:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eye contact is how i let guys know that either i want them to approach me or i just think they're good looking. it all depends on what kind of look i give them. where would i be withoug eye contact? if the girl you made eye contact is with another man, he wasnt her bf or she's a little tease. the only way you have of knowing if they were "together" is by watching their behavior, or by approaching her at a moment that she was alone. either way, i think it was too complicated to even worry about it.
2007-02-08 10:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to think that if a women keeps eye contact with you, she could be interested and would like you to approach her. The other man she is with could just be a friend or brother, or she is looking to trade that one in for something else.
2007-02-08 10:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact is important, but it doesn't neccessarily mean she fancies you, just that she's polite enough to look you in the eye when talking to you. I'd never trust anyone who talked to me and didn't have prolonged eye contact.
2007-02-08 10:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ellie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'd say its a go. Because usually it means that the person giving you the eyes finds you attractive.
2007-02-08 11:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's with another man then you must be eye candy,if they do it on their own and you catch them more than twice I'd say make a move!
2007-02-08 10:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋