Why is it that when a man doesnt want to be with you any more he still stays with you, but just treats u like crap? Why doesnt he just end it for good? Why do they waste so much time???
2007-02-08 02:54:28 · 8 answers · asked by amor_mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people aren't 100 percent honest about everything but it seems like they like to have women on the side in case something doesn't work out with someone else. It's not a waste of time for him. It seems like he just likes to mess with your head and I'd dump him.
2007-02-08 02:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge all men by one. Why do you keep putting the anger and blame on someone else. If the relationship is so bad, WHY do YOU stay? Relationships are a two sided things. I you wish to be honest and you feel as you say; own up to your part of the relationship and end it. Honest begins with you not someone else. Stop trying to make him live up to your expectations of an ideal mate, he can't. Maybe no one can.
2007-02-08 11:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by whitehairblueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question! Maybe guys don't like to quit, especially when it's as important as a relationship. 'Once a quitter, always a quitter.'
I think that it's a problem in our society to give up easily, as if to be bothered by 'it' all. Have patience and communicate. BTW, I do not agree with the 'treating you like crap thing'.
Ciao!
2007-02-08 11:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by down2earth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women have trained them not to hurt their feelings because men don't want to deal with the fight that comes with being honest. Women need to learn to get a spine and toughen up and just accept the truth of things.
2007-02-08 10:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably fear of hurting the other person, or just having fear of ending. but u cant generalize that all men are not honest, cuz believe it or not theres still a few of us that believe honesty & trust is one of the main keys to a sucessful relationship.
2007-02-08 10:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want u to know why and make u want to do the honors so that he can go to his buddies and lie about who broke it off with who "popularity points"
2007-02-08 10:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by web gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mens are like that only.
u can't do anything in that
im me n u r very pretty
2007-02-08 10:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could just be there for the sex but most men are liers
2007-02-08 10:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by spawnof_thedevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋