ex of three years dumped me almost a month ago. trying to win him back. you think it's too creepy to call him and ask i he wants me to grab food for him since he's really busy for the whole week.
he really hates me right now for some reason. i never cheated on him, never lied, i think he could have gotten tired of our arguments in relationship.
2007-02-08 03:05:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Here's the scenario, Babygirl.
The REAL reason why he's being mean to you right now is YOU know TOO much about him after dating 3 years. When guys get out of a relationship after that amount of time, it's easier to start over as the new person doesn't know ALL their faults/inhibitions. This means that the guy can put on a performance - good for the ego.
To whereas with you, you know WHO he is - which he is putting up a wall in order to separate from you emotionally.
If you love him, support him and he'll be right back, but you have to also be strong and let him know that you'll be there - not for a jump-off, but for emotional support.
Good luck!
2007-02-08 03:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend had the same problem with me. You should call him and ask him about how he feels about your guys relationship right now. If he doesn't want to get back together then i say you should let it go and move on. My girlfriend and i made up and we are in a very comitted relationship right now. TALK TO HIM!
2007-02-08 11:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by date doctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two had been having arguments that he disliked that badly, don't even bother unless both of you are willing to see a counselor to find out what was really going on.
2007-02-08 11:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to know from some friends what is wrong with him with u. then if there no reason; so u have two choices one use ur CHARM or forget about him and sure u will find someone who will appreciate u (which is better)
2007-02-08 11:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by White Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's weird. he obviously had a reason to dump you, so don't try to fight it. If he changes his mind, he'll let you know.
Remember, you can't argue your way out of 'dumped'.
2007-02-08 11:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and move on. Quit being the stalker chick.
2007-02-08 11:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally that's a sweet gesture but i think in this situation its best to leave well enough alone.
2007-02-08 11:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by LawDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a f*cking psyco!!! leave him alone, move on..........or RAPE him j/k
2007-02-08 11:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by Becka C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋