We met on Friday and ONLY talked everyday since then. He has visited my home once....so what is really going on? I'm pretty sure he isn't IN LOVE with me...how should i take it?
2007-02-08 03:05:20 · 16 answers · asked by Suga Mama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Set boundaries. It's clear that he hasn't invested enough time to love you, yet, which indicates that he's still emotionally immature to begin with.
You have to ask yourself, knowing this, are you willing to go further and help DEVELOP that emotional immaturity. If so, be prepared to hear alot of strange things prematurely, but you'll already have known that this was coming.
If not, time to tell him to just talk over the phone for now until you can get a better understanding of who he is.
Ask questions and demand answers.
Good luck!
2007-02-08 03:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the man and the circumstances.. my boyfriend and i started saying I love you after about a week.. which was shortly after we met face to face..and we've been together for over 2 yrs now..
i was very careful not to say it before that because we had only talked on the computer and on the phone and I didn't say it the first time we met i think, but i'm sure he knew and since its a hard thing for me to say in the first place it was a shock that it did come out so easily and so suddenly and it still does .. it was funny cause i don't think in the whole 20 yrs i was married that i told my husband i loved him more than once maybe twice and i regretted saying it then but no regrets now.. i tell my boyfriend i love him several times a day.. usualy several times at once.. :)
2007-02-08 11:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mouseling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we need to know the way it was said -- I can say I love you to my friends but it doesn't mean I am in love with them... Did he look into your eyes and say it meaningfully or was it as part of a conversation or as a reaction to something? Maybe you just need to have a talk with this guy about relationships and what exactly he is looking for and how he sees your relationship - that should clear things up for you.
2007-02-08 11:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by paloma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its does not mean he is crazy. Maybe he is just really into you, and sometimes we feel like we like somebody so much that it is love, when we all know in reality that after one week it could not be. Just tell him to slow down a bit. It might be infatuation and soon it will be gone (we hope) lol dont need any stalkers.
2007-02-08 11:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
proceed with caution. him falling for you this fast isn't completely out of the realm of possibility, but sometimes people who bring up those feelings this early are more in love with the idea of being in love than actually being in love with you. just try to take things slow with him, and see what happens. and by all means, do not tell him you love him until you sincerely mean it. good luck!
2007-02-08 11:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should run like hell! I'm sorry but you don't love someone in a week! You hardly know that person. He probably loves your personality, and what he has seen of you so far, but he's not emtionally in love with you....
2007-02-08 11:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation.
2007-02-08 11:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by wildflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is desperate. He barely knows you. He's only in love with the idea of love, not with you.
2007-02-08 11:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for your freakin life! The guy barely knows you and is telling you he loves you. Can you say stalker waiting to happen!?! Run!
2007-02-08 11:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by gi_jane_kicks_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "I love you" is the oldest line in the book. He's horny and wants sex, end of discussion.
2007-02-08 11:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋