There is no contact but you know the person somehow . You would never actually do anything . Only over the internet . Do we count that as cheating?
2007-02-08 03:03:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes this definitley is cheating and unfaithful... The Bible says that if you upon someone to lust efter them you have already committed adultery with that person in your heart so to me this is the same thing and you cannot tell me that this would only always be just over the internet it usually leads to more down the road and if you get turned on and masturbate while watching them this is definitly cheating as you are fantasizing actually having sex with them and in your mind and heart you wish you were there with them. Am i right on this or not?
2007-02-08 03:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am sorry to say my opinion is that it is definitely cheating. Obviously you are not interacting physically with the person, but in your mind you are, which might as well be the same thing. If you are lusting after than person as you watch them masturbate then you are focusing on someone other than your partner and therefore physically lusting after someone else.
I know most guys love to believe otherwise, because we are naturally drawn to nudity and sex, but that doesn't make giving into that right. It is an addiction that I feel does take away from the loving and passionate relationship a couple can experience together. For me it is about the passion and not just the sex.
It is up to you to determine what your heart tells you, though I think that even by having asked the question that somewhere inside you something was already telling you it was wrong or you would not have asked. Just make sure to do whatever is best for your relationship. You and your partner have to determine together what will work and what won't. No matter how much outside advice you get, that will always be the case.
2007-02-08 04:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
the ladies are of age, so as it truly is not even and difficulty. the authentic difficulty is what this guy is doing cybersexing with females at the same time as he have a spouse interior a similar residing house. and she or he places up with this shyt? If she needs to stay married to this guy, see a counselor quickly. yet when she's fed up with this, purely leave. He for sure would not supply a flying fcuk about her emotions if he's doing it interior a similar residing house with her.
2016-12-03 21:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by matis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would it be wrong? Watching someone catch a fish without a license is that wrong? Watching is not wrong. Masturbation is not wrong.
2015-04-04 10:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would you feel if she did that? of course it is wrong. If I sat here and asked you to do that, I would consider myself having cheated on my hubby. I have a motto in life, if you don't feel comfertable telling your spouse something, then you are doing something wrong against your spouse!
2007-02-08 03:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by proud mommy and wife 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What game are you playing?
I know it's not against the rules of Monopoly, or Chess or any card game?
Of course it's not cheating.
2007-02-08 03:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes if you know the person. Ask yourself if the tables were turned, how would you feel about it if it were your spouse.
2007-02-08 03:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse/Significant Other thinks its cheating or would think it is cheating if they knew about it, then it is cheating.
2007-02-08 03:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-06-25 15:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no different to watching porn
2007-02-08 05:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋