Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

I like to smell good for my fiance' I have all sorts of perfumes but what is the best smell that will drive him crazy and want to eat me alive?
I am open to any suggestions.

2007-02-08 03:40:33 · 21 answers · asked by _Chantel_ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 33 yrs old. My husband is 50 yrs old. My husband's son, my stepson, is 27 yrs old. I love my husband dearly and would never physically cheat on him by having intercourse with another man. However, I really enjoy thinking about being romantic with my stepson. He is single and lives beside us. He is so fine! I don't think about us having sex, but I like to think about him flirting with me and caressing me. I keep having these erotic dreams at night about him. He's not too bright, just very good-looking. Do you ever fantasize or have dreams about someone who you know is off limits to you?

2007-02-08 03:40:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Folks, I need some help, a lttle bit more about her,we met on a dating site and have got very close since then. We have a lot of affection, feelings, caring, respect for each other, its just that i want to use Valentine's Day to be the day to express my love for her. All i hear is Flowers, Choclates, soft toys as gifts, can you all please help me by suggesting some nice and unique gifts which I could present it to her.. by the way I will be shipping it to her.
Thank you so much guys, hope you all have a wonderfull Valentine..
I love her...

2007-02-08 03:39:05 · 3 answers · asked by kunalsc 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this person I really want to be able to find. It's my boyfriends mother. He hasn't seen her in nearly a year and he is afraid she might be putting herself in danger by doing drugs. She is near where we live it's just a matter of me trying to find her and see if she'll talk to me or even him. Even if she doesn't feel like she wants to go back home, just having her reassure him and his siblings that she's ok. What is a guarantee that I would know if it's her or not. And I'm spending money to try and do this because his mother is his world, and there is nothing more he would want and I think if I do that for him that he'll be extremely happy.

2007-02-08 03:38:57 · 1 answers · asked by girl_is_depeche 2 in Family

1) He keeps referring to how we are like an old married couple (we're 24 and 25)

2) When we attend other people's weddings he sayes things like 'when we get married...'

3) He and my dad have been talking on the phone occasionally (my dad rarely calls me!)

4) Often sayes 'you have no idea' in the context of how busy and hectic life is right now (positive way).

I know it may seem obvious that he is, but we have talked about marriage openly before, want to get married someday, but I just dont know when he is going to actually pop the question....

Thoughts? Anyone?

2007-02-08 03:38:52 · 20 answers · asked by merfadith2 2 in Weddings

He is VERY lazy, doesn't work, doesn't pay her rent, mooches off her, treats her very badly, yells at her and stays up all night playing on-line video gamesand then sleeps all day. He won't lift a finger around the house, but he expects her to do everything for him. She is at her witts end, she's tried to kick him out but he won't leave.
Does anyone have any information on how to kick him out or if there is any help out there to remove him. We reside in Wisconsin and haven't been able to find any info online about situations like this.

2007-02-08 03:37:56 · 23 answers · asked by user724 1 in Family

2007-02-08 03:37:55 · 33 answers · asked by Philippa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl i like but she always has a BF. When she breaks up with 1, she gets another 1. Im not even sure that she knows that i exist. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!

2007-02-08 03:37:27 · 15 answers · asked by Mac 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 33 yrs old. My husband is 50 yrs old. My husband's son, my stepson, is 27 yrs old. I love my husband dearly and would never physically cheat on him by having intercourse with another man. However, I really enjoy thinking about being romantic with my stepson. He is single and lives beside us. He is so fine! I don't think about us having sex, but I like to think about him flirting with me and caressing me. I keep having these erotic dreams at night about him. He's not too bright, just very good-looking. Do you ever fantasize or have dreams about someone who you know is off limits to you?

2007-02-08 03:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for like 4 months now... the thing is, he can never be there for me... when i'm sad or depressed or when i have no-one to go to a party with... he never takes me anywhere... just the park or a cafe... nowhere else... i really need him now, he's been gone for 3 days... i sent him a txt msg in which i wrote my exact feelings. :( i dunno how to make him love me more... we get along great, but there are some things he must do... as a bf. i don't feel loved...he doesn't spend enough time wit me but i don't wanna break up with him cuz i really love him... :( is there anything i can do? pls help... i'm really sad :(

2007-02-08 03:37:11 · 4 answers · asked by Flavia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a good thing going with a guy i met online and we were planning to meet on March 9 becasue he is busy now with work and is out of town alot. I haven't heard from him in 9 days, what should i do? He is someone who ws emailing me every day almost.

2007-02-08 03:36:48 · 16 answers · asked by ttc #1 2 in Singles & Dating

You ask your friend time and time again where is our relationship going, and after a year with never having a commitment or a title or the knowledge of you being the only one you decide to be honest and say to him since we never said that we were ever officially together nor have we ever said we were exclusive even though that's where I want to be. I started seeing another guy (not serious just company), but I am tired of the friend with benefits scene so do you want to do this or should we go our separate ways. Now I am being told that since I mentioned another guy he maybe upset, and say the hell with it. My question is since never having a commitment or a title or the knowledge of you being the only one why does it matter if I was with someone if he could never tell me where we were going or if we were even going to go any where at all, and it’s been about a year. I don't see why he would be upset. If he would just commit this would not be an issue.

2007-02-08 03:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out about 3 months ago that my boyfriend of almost three years has been maintaining an online relationship with a girl for almost two years. He had actually went on a date with her early in our relationship, which I found out about, and we have spent the last two years trying desparately to get past it. He assured me that he no longer had any contact with her and had no idea even where she was. However, thanks to myspace, I found out otherwise. Turns out, he has maintained what he calls a "friendship" with her all this time, and has even been on two non-physical dates with her since. (By the way, she didn't even know he had a girlfriend..he never mentioned me.)

Now, of course, he's a changed man and has been trying so hard to make things right between us. I just can't seem to get past it, though.

Any thoughts on this? How can I learn to forgive? And should I?

2007-02-08 03:35:26 · 15 answers · asked by Mel 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 29 yr female, i have been single for seven years. I have been dating but i can't seem to find the right person. I feel like my time is ticking, and i also feel like i am way too picky over men. Does anyone have any suggestions?????

2007-02-08 03:35:09 · 6 answers · asked by Beutifulred10 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend @ work who invited me few times to her house. there i met her friend (they live in the same house). i started being crazy about her. One day i asked my friend to go bowling together along with her BF and her friend.

She looked at me with a big smile and said 'Yeahhhhhh, above all my friend' and also said she'll see when we're all free altogether. but i didn't talk about it anymore.

So it's obvious she know that i like her friend. last week while taliking about cinema, i invited them all together. it was agreed. one day before going my friend told me that the ticket is too expensive and that she and her BF is not coming. leaving only me and her friend. I was happy. i got the opportunity.

that day i gave her a red rose, she was really happy. after the cinema i invited her to the pub and told her that i like her. but she didn't say anything. i asked when i can see her again she said next week at her birthday party.
so does she like me? what is she thinking

2007-02-08 03:35:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really fancy my boss. She is about 10 years older than me but very hot. I don't rally like my job and am not looking at it as a long term prospect so am definitly up for some hanky panky with the boss. How do I go about it?

2007-02-08 03:34:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you tell her in a non-verbal way that you are interested? what signs would mean yes? what would mean no? what would mean maybe?

2007-02-08 03:34:21 · 5 answers · asked by inquisitive 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone moved on from their first love, b/c you thought it wasn't right, but never were able to truly move on to the person you are with? Was it a mistake? Did anyone go back? Was anyone better after it?

2007-02-08 03:33:26 · 27 answers · asked by Need Answers 4 in Marriage & Divorce

About a year ago a married women approached me on more than a friendly basis. She fell in love with me and I fell in love with her. We have not slept together but over the year have become best friends. She is currently divorcing her husband. Over the year she has verbally expressed her feelings towards me and has always said that she would want to be with me and only me when she left her husband. I held on to these thoughts over the last year. In the next couple of months she will be separating from her husband and I have told her that I would be there for what ever support emotional or otherwise she required. Since this is definate that she is leaving her husband she still has said she cares about me but at this point in time cannot see us as a couple. She is a mess right now and I know I need to be there as a friend no matter what. I guess my question is and maybe some people who have recently gone through a divorce can help me. Where do I fit into this picture?

2007-02-08 03:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by lettinggo2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't really have money to spend right now since I spent most of it for Christmas gifts especially his. I want to do something nice and special without having to spend so much. I made him a coupon booklet such as one coupon says good for one full body massage, whatever pages were left I put some notes from me and little poems I found and also put pictures of myself since he doesn't have any of me but they are about 2 years old (I haven't changed much since then just the haircut and hair color). I don't think the coupon booklet is good enough though, what are some other ideas? This is my first Valentine's Day I've had a boyfriend and I have only been with him for 4 months. Please give me some ideas that don't cost so much money or maybe none at all. I want something creative and thoughtful. Like I said please HELP ME!!! lol Thanks soooooo much =)

2007-02-08 03:32:55 · 10 answers · asked by ashleyr0308 1 in Singles & Dating

I was abused physically, mentally, verbally, and emotionally as a child. I thought I had abolished all of my memories...that is until recently. Something has triggered my memories and I am having nightmares, and recurring images of the hell I went through as a kid. I will be 30 this year, and my parents still have a mental hold on me. The quilt trips, the attitude, the verbal hostility, and the pettiness are still present.....occurring whenever I say or do something that rubs them the wrong way.

I went to a therapist for the 1st time this week. I found I have PTSD & was advised to cut off communication w/ my parents for an undisclosed amount of time. She said to send them a letter....what do I write? They are both sick & I know this is going to hurt them....how can I do this gently? Without it costing me my good name (what I have anyway) for hurting my parents like this & being accused of being ungrateful and inconsiderate?

Please help me.....I need some good advice

2007-02-08 03:32:36 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs. Connors! 4 in Family

not that i would arrange it cause i am a non-violent type person. just is it wrong to hope that it happens?

2007-02-08 03:32:15 · 12 answers · asked by ilikethickchix 5 in Singles & Dating

the in laws r takin the kids this weekend, n i needd some great movie ideas for chill time, and some cheap or free romantic indoor activity ideas 4 me and my baby.

2007-02-08 03:32:12 · 2 answers · asked by mna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I do not like the noisy little bastages but my gf wants many, many childrens. What should I do? What should you do?

2007-02-08 03:31:57 · 23 answers · asked by Simpleton 1 in Singles & Dating

if a guy says that he is worried about you does that mean that he likes you??

he flirts with me alot and he hadnt seen me on the bus and he told me that he was worried about me because he hadnt seen me....does he like me?

2007-02-08 03:31:44 · 4 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 03:31:20 · 7 answers · asked by foxxylove20 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 03:30:12 · 8 answers · asked by kat 1 in Singles & Dating

He is 9 and in the past ten months his parents have separated, divorced, his father is now living with the other woman and we are moving into a smaller home. He was in counselling for awhile and although he still has issues with the divorce he seems to be doing okay. When I told him we were moving to a smaller house he got upset. He does not want to move. I understand he does not want to move but we are staying in the same neighbourhood. I try to explain to him that although the house is smaller we will be happy there and that our current home is too much work for me. However, the main reason I want to move is I am trying to move on and it is difficult living in the house with all the memories. I know I cannot tell him this. I know he is simply trying to gain some control in his life. But there also comes a time when I need to put me first. Any suggestions on how to deal with my son? I am trying to do my best with him but it is tough. I do not want him hurting.

2007-02-08 03:30:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my fiance have been together for 5 years, never had any problems, our only problem has been his mom, she has been a living nightmare since i first met her. he is the only child so she will not let him go.. even when he moved out she blamed me for everything, like i have mind control over him.anyway FASTFORWARD...last month he asked me to marry him, i tell my family all except my dad because he is never around.. and they are happy.. he on the other hand tells his mom, and she disonwned him from their familiy...last night my father calls i tell him... he says that he "might don't want me to do that" any ways i feel as if they should **** off and let me do what i want... on the other hand i wanted to leave go on a cruise somewhere exotic, and get married... with out nobody just me and my fiance... but do you think that is fair to the rest of my familiy?, i dont even think the rest of his family knows.what should i do about his mom, she really is becoming a problem.. tell her off?

2007-02-08 03:29:29 · 3 answers · asked by ms_jones87 1 in Weddings

My son is eleven in a couple of months and thinks its unfair that some of his friends - same age - are allowed out till eight. I can only assume their parent's care about them too much and probably don't want them in the house till then. I also told my son if it was light at eight he would also be allowed out till then.

2007-02-08 03:29:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family