Family & Relationships - 8 February 2007

I met this girl...I know we love eachother, but I was too worried to go and meet her because we met on the net and I was worried about peoples opinions. She said today that she's fed up and that it's done now, forget about it. I know what we have is special, this isn't some flash in the pan, no one effects me like she does...and she's told me the same. She's too amazing to let go...should I bite the bullet...travel to see her and just ask if she wants to meet? I just can't handle all the problems I've created anymore, this is too good a thing to let go.....

2007-02-08 04:02:03 · 13 answers · asked by CJ 1 in Singles & Dating

to go on vacation with me....I broke up with him a month or two ago just things werent there anymore. We didnt break up in bad terms. Do you think i should ask him to go and oh ya he has a new gf now...

2007-02-08 04:02:01 · 12 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Singles & Dating

iv bin with my partner for only 2 months, we get on brilliantly n with us it was love at first site!! hes everything iv ever dreamed of n he says the same, he says that he has never bin with anyone remotely like me n loves me with everything hes got. im in a bit of a perdicamont, i wouldnt want to move in with anyone untill wev bin together at least 1yr, but iv recently bin evicted and dont have a permenant place to live, should i ask him if i could move in with him? im confused n need help! wat do i do n wat do i say??

2007-02-08 04:01:27 · 30 answers · asked by katluvsu4eva2004 2 in Singles & Dating

what do u do when a girl needs a friend? because she needs some one to love on. that girl is me help.

2007-02-08 04:01:25 · 11 answers · asked by Baby girl 101 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with together with boyfriend for more than a year now. (1 year, 3 mos to be exact) On the 1st date, we did the deed -- in a motel. I asked him what it was all about (it was my first time to do it with someone i am not together with.. 2nd person i ever slept with), he told that it is a relationship. After a week, 2nd date again ended up in a motel. (Note that he does not live alone during this time) He sent me text messages within the week before our 2nd date. He told me he loves me a month after.
At present, he has met my family (I only met his dad). He has spent 2 new years eve with my family. We have gone through a lot. He tells me he loves everyday. (sex is part of our relationship --mostly everytime we see each other)

Is he for real? Is it really possible to find love even if you had sex on the first date? Are there any exceptions? I need your opinion on this.
(the guy is 10 yrs older)
(we've been friends for 4 years before we started dating)

2007-02-08 04:01:18 · 10 answers · asked by mikie c 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there's this really hot boy that i like and he like's me he is a couple years older than me.my friends dont like him.but when we are together iam happy.He dosent care what other people think,but i do ,so can someone help me.oh and he already has a kid,and has tried sleeping with me,but i told him no ,because i am not sure about things ,and because of things from the past.thanks

2007-02-08 04:01:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

example: he's hungry and little bit stressed. We meet up for a dinner in a pub and he says his flatmate is coming. I object in a cute way that i wanted him for myself for couple of hours. He snaps at me that what's a big deal and Tom needs to eat too.

I end up playing a peacemaker and he says let's forget about it . yet I am really bothered by him dealing with problems like that ... It is like he wants to scare me so he doesn't have to deal with it.

what would you do to make a statement that this behaviour bother me.- constructively so gets the point... he just says he found it annoying .....and that he doesn't do so often...

2007-02-08 04:00:54 · 13 answers · asked by petr 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm friends with a guy, though we're not that cloase and I fancy him. His best friends know but I've sworn them to secrecy. Apparently he's really inexperienced at relationships and according to them- if I tell him I like him, I'll scare him off. But in my opinion if I wait too long he might find someone else.
Everyone Iv'e told says we'd be great together but it's not their opinion that counts, it's his.
Any ideas on what I could do? Perhaps a way to catch his eye? I dn't know, thats why I'm asking! Thanks for your help!

2007-02-08 04:00:41 · 6 answers · asked by Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 04:00:15 · 2 answers · asked by bobby t 1 in Family

2007-02-08 03:59:42 · 19 answers · asked by Riddhi 1 in Friends

My husband went to Iraq for a year... but this is not about my husband this is about one of his friends that he went to Iraq with(we will call him darren). I am friends with his wife (we will call her Pam). Before Darren ever went to Iraq he cheated on his wife and I knew about it, but because my husband is friends with Darren, he asked me not to say anything to Pam. They then went to Iraq for a year and have been back for 3 months and Darren and Pam have so many problems. I just found out the other day that Darren said that he was going to stay with Pam until he finds someone better (and he is actively looking). She worships him and waited now two times that he has been to Iraq, and has stayed faithful to him. As her friend I feel I should tell her, but I have to also respect my husband's wishes. Is there anything that I can do with out directly telling her what he has done?

2007-02-08 03:59:39 · 29 answers · asked by GIRL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 03:59:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-08 03:59:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and i have been together for 2 years now and September of this year will make 3. We spend a lot of time together and never seem to get tired of each others company. But lately i've noticed him looking at other girls out of the corner of his eye. He has naturally sneaky eyes since they are so little and i've always thought that he looks at everyone like that but i find it weird that im just now seeing this. Is it just that since im pregnant im craving more attention and making wrongful accusations out of my own selfishness? Or could there be something going on? I know that he loves me probably more than i love him but you never know... please help.

2007-02-08 03:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Poison berry 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 03:58:50 · 23 answers · asked by Broadgonebiker 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26 years old....not yet married, 50lbs overweight, poor....and I have an 8 year old son. I am so confused on what to do. I wasnt planning on having kids with my fiancee until after we were married. I do want a family, but I dont want to get any bigger, and honestly we are having a hard time making ends meet now the way it is.......can anyone relate to me, and please give me some advice? I dont want to make the wrong choice, I am scared!

2007-02-08 03:58:35 · 14 answers · asked by travischrissy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-08 03:58:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Then she came the "stoler" , who became hurt by her friend and found my friend to heal her soul. She goes so close with her, hold her hand, almost like she wants to say "hey she's mine, only mine ! " . She talks to me, accept to be my friend but everything seems so fake. I don't like her , she is so weak ! For some weeks ago I walked away from them. I didn't sat on the same bench as them, I never smiled at my close friend and never spoke to her. She could see there was something wrong with me my closest friend, and followed. I'm a loyal person, and it hurt me to see that she's the same. She walked with me down to the classroom and left the "stoler" , whom became sad and hung around with another friend. This happens every time something shows we are close, and when she get apprichiated by my friend it's over. Hey we are like sixteen ! I like to be alone, and after this I have become more so. I want to dump them and meet friends far far away, but then I feel so stupid.

2007-02-08 03:55:52 · 9 answers · asked by x•°meadow°•-|- 1 in Friends

me and my husband just got married last december. we dont have kids and no properties either. we just want a divorce but not really expensive. how much does it really cost to have an uncontested divorce in just half hour?

2007-02-08 03:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by tweety_ivy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

now or after she takes me away for the weekend on her boat?
She has reserved it from her father and it has a crew of 8 that will cater to our every need...so should I just gut it out and let her pamper me?

2007-02-08 03:55:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do we live our lives ?

I think we were born to be happy , to enjoy the mystery of being.

No scientific theory can explain why we are happy at certain moment .

The core of happiness I think its mystery.

Somebody says I dont know why I am happy and when I am happy I feel sad, interesting!

I want really to know what was your happiest unforgettable moment in your life? true honest answers I WANT TO HEAR.

2007-02-08 03:54:46 · 5 answers · asked by earthlove 2 in Singles & Dating

I just realized this, 30 minutes ago, when I got too nervous to go up to a women in the streets of LA, before I got to work. She was so beautiful, but I was so nervous to approach her because I'm a stranger, and I didn't know what to say. I realized the key...and here it is:
Step 1: Glance at her with a smile on your face, and then look away.
Step 2: Ask a VERY RELEVANT question to the SETTING you are in. Example: see a HOT woman at a book store? Ask her "so, whatcha reading?". In the busy sidewalks of LA? So, what kind of work are you in?
Step 3: Ask her for her name. This is a personal thing, but not TOO personal. Now that you know her name, she can't just walk away.
Step 4: NUMB your mind to any type of rejection embarassment, etc. Use the 3 second rule (don't over think for more than 3 seconds), and then
Step 5: Ask her for lunch. Say: I have to get going pretty soon, but, I was wondering...you seem like a really sweet woman...wanna grab lunch sometime?

COMMENTS???

2007-02-08 03:54:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does ne1 know wat i can do to "finish" quicker? my boyfriend does everything he can...we've done everything you can think of and i still can't finish...ive only finished one time since we've ever done stuff...ne1 know anything?

2007-02-08 03:54:11 · 9 answers · asked by ƪ♥ᴀᴀᴙᴓɳ 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend likes to learn, and when she tells her fiance, he replys "I don't care." He thinks she takes the fun out of things by talking in depth about them. He is also hippocritical when they are argue. He lectures her when she gets worked up, but when he gets worked up there is no reasoning with him. I believe he has an issure with with not being in control, or feeling like he is inferior, and the way he reacts to an argument puts him back on top. My friend and her fiance are getting married in August and I'd really like to see the two of them work it out. Does anyone have any advice for me friend? How does she get her fiance to understand what he is doing to her and their relationship? How do you get him to be more mature and resolve a conflict rather than ignoring it?

2007-02-08 03:54:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, I believe the "friend zone" is a womans excuse to not hurt a mans feelings. I think that if a woman is friends with a man and finds him attractive she would go out with him foresure. But woman say "i just want to be friends" or "I dont want to ruin the friendship" because they don't find the male friend sexually attractive. I have had 2 girlfriends that where my friends first. Is this true ladies, is the friend zone just an easy excuse to not hurt a man's pride?? Cause why wouldn't you want to be with a man that you are good friends with?? Thanks!

2007-02-08 03:53:06 · 17 answers · asked by johnnynumbers 1 in Singles & Dating

So what do i do im really going to try to get over my ex even thou i really like him still. Butg his friend is also one of my good friends that ive known forever and he tells me that he likes me but he will give me space to get over my ex. I really appreciate that he will give me room but he says that he would wait as long as it took, so do i give this guy a chance even tou im not over my ex and i dont know if it would work??????

2007-02-08 03:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for about a month. We've gone on dates dates and we've spent the night together a few times. When we are together things are good and I feel like we have a connection but then we go days sometimes almost a week w/o any communication. Last night I sent him an email jokingly asking if he was dead since I hadn't heard from him in about 3 days. He sent me a message back telling me all the things that were keeping him so busy and now I feel kinda bad. We aren't officially a couple so maybe I'm asking for too much. We both have busy schedules but I feel like its not too much for him to send me a quick text message or an email when we can't see each other. What should I do?

2007-02-08 03:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this woman that works as a bar manager in my local pub... she seems to try and talk to me alot, she has even gave me a lift home the other night, and thats odd because she hasnt done that for any1 else.... im probably imagining things,but i think she may be attracted to me... how do i impress a woman!

2007-02-08 03:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-08 03:51:14 · 10 answers · asked by imacutie2 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been seeing this guy for a while now i know he likes me but on what level i'm not too certain he hasn't had a girlfriend in a while, but he was "dating" women. i obviously like him, i would like us to be together but i'm not sure of how to aproach him. what the best way???

2007-02-08 03:50:48 · 6 answers · asked by foxxylove20 1 in Singles & Dating