Then she came the "stoler" , who became hurt by her friend and found my friend to heal her soul. She goes so close with her, hold her hand, almost like she wants to say "hey she's mine, only mine ! " . She talks to me, accept to be my friend but everything seems so fake. I don't like her , she is so weak ! For some weeks ago I walked away from them. I didn't sat on the same bench as them, I never smiled at my close friend and never spoke to her. She could see there was something wrong with me my closest friend, and followed. I'm a loyal person, and it hurt me to see that she's the same. She walked with me down to the classroom and left the "stoler" , whom became sad and hung around with another friend. This happens every time something shows we are close, and when she get apprichiated by my friend it's over. Hey we are like sixteen ! I like to be alone, and after this I have become more so. I want to dump them and meet friends far far away, but then I feel so stupid.
2007-02-08 03:55:52 · 9 answers · asked by x•°meadow°•-|- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its okay i had a friend she did the same thing. i was more into the be by myself person and she took me in when i moved. we hung out a school a lot and then in high school she started talking to these other people and dicided that she liked them more. she left me after 5 yrs. i felt bad but later i made more friends, i made friends with this new girl and she was far better than my last one. she did bad in school and flunked that's how stupid she was. she wanted to stay behind with her friends, any way it was cool because later we wher insepretable. don't worry you'll find new friends. even if it's from another state they seem to be more loyal well i think. make friends, i know your board but it'll pass and so will she, maybe shell come back you never know. just don't let her play u as a fool.
2007-02-08 04:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by marilyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say I know how you feel...my situation was a little different though. I had a guy best friend in high school and an arch enemy, a girl I absolutely hated; our senior year they started dating and she MADE him stop talking to me. I was pissed, upset, and hurt for the longest time but I realized that HE was the jerk because it was his choice to listen to her and to end our friendship. If he had really been my best friend he would have stood up for our friendship but he didn't. He joined the army and went to Iraq so I somewhat made peace with my arch enemy (his wife) so that I could at least find out how he was while he was in Iraq. I felt so ignorant for letting the whole situation bother me for so long, there are plenty of other people that will be a true friend to you. You'll be lucky to leave high school with one true friend...just move on, especially if you are only 16! There will be plenty more "best friends" that come along!
2007-02-08 04:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by OU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person is truly your best friend, they would not dump you for someone else, even if the person is in need. They would ask you to help them.
I think that you have put more into the friendship than she has. Obviously it is a bit one-sided. If she is switching sides then I think it is time for you to look for a new friend, someone who respects you and who you can trust to be there for you.
Sometimes bad behaviour is aften a gift in disguise, as it shows us who these people really are and we can rid ourselves of them early in life to go onto something better.
This might just be the case here.
She is not a good friend and you have to let go and move on.
Do not feel stupid about your choice, a friendship must be two sided and equal in respect, love and generosity.... her friendship was not.
I don't think you have lost anything here... now you really know who she is.....you can remove her from your life.... a gift in disguise.......
2007-02-08 04:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you at all for being irritated. It's not fair that this other girl is bringing her drama into your friendship not to mention emotionally exhausting. You need to talk to your friend about how you're feeling. If she's a true friend, she'll hear what you're saying and make the right choice. If not, I suggest you find somebody who isn't prone to have dramatic, needy people cling to them. Many blessings.
2007-02-08 04:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend how you feel, or kick the other girls butt! or tell her off, or you can find somebody else to hang with, then maybe your best friend will
realise what is going on herself and come back to you.
2007-02-08 04:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by katana b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must defend yourself or take back your stolen friend
2007-02-08 04:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by glamourous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope things get better
2007-02-08 04:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy valentine's day
2007-02-08 04:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong
2007-02-08 04:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋