example: he's hungry and little bit stressed. We meet up for a dinner in a pub and he says his flatmate is coming. I object in a cute way that i wanted him for myself for couple of hours. He snaps at me that what's a big deal and Tom needs to eat too.
I end up playing a peacemaker and he says let's forget about it . yet I am really bothered by him dealing with problems like that ... It is like he wants to scare me so he doesn't have to deal with it.
what would you do to make a statement that this behaviour bother me.- constructively so gets the point... he just says he found it annoying .....and that he doesn't do so often...
2007-02-08 04:00:54 · 13 answers · asked by petr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stab him in the eye, and see how he likes them apples!
2007-02-08 04:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by soccertainer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man is stressed if hungry. If it is only food when snaps nothing you can do I would stay away then let him calm down. If other times there is something in the back of his head he wants but i cannot.' (or drugs involved.) All you can prob do is sit back say straight up authoritatively not cute, 'somethings wrong don't have to tell me' i.e. tell me? 'but pls if your going to snap just say when you will so I'll be quiet I don't like being shouted at.' This way he'll feel guilty see you like his mother (the g8ter power) and the truth may come out. Gee Wizz wish my g/friend was as nice as you.
2007-02-08 12:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by A . Z . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time your guy snaps at you, don't take it lying down. if this keeps going on ,you'll soon be his slave of sorts.(yuk). you are an angel trying to be a peace maker and keep the harmony but not at this cost. its bothering you and you must take a stand.
get him to give you more importance. more over show him that you can get other guys.
tell him 'i think we need to take a break and don't give him
a reason, tell him 'i think im loosing my individuality and i need to find some peace within myself''- just go for that. that should put him straight and make him respect you more. don't be too emotionally dependent on him either. -
2007-02-08 12:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has some issues with being told what to do, i'd get rid of him for an upgrade, there are plenty of much better men out there who know how to treat a woman with a bit of respect.
2007-02-08 12:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by agius1520 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM no really he clearly feels no love for you or he would insist on nights spent alone it sounds to me like he is a control freak and you are wasting your time, there are plenty more fish in the sea and just watch his face drop when you walk into the pub on the arm of that special someone who really does love you? he,ll be crying in his ale and blaming poorTom.
good luck xx
2007-02-08 13:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by julie e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will snap sometimes, we all do. He's only human like all of us, none of us is immune to a foul temper nor any of us perfect. As long as you are mainly happy with most (nobody's 100% happy) of the aspects of your relationship then I suggest you continue - as long as you are mainly happy.
Probably best left alone while he's like that, it won't last.
2007-02-08 13:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Happy Hobbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he really loved u than if u sit down w/ him like over dinner and just say i don't really like it when u snap @ me and if he denies it than say well u really loved me than u would stop it bugs me it hurts me feelings and u need to stop or this relationship will!! and if u say somethin like that than im sure it will work cause i was in that same position and it worked 4 me!!! GOOD LUCK!! :)
2007-02-08 12:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by emioly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to hush up. everyone snaps about stupid stuff. could be going through stressful time etc.
try not to worry about it. if it keeps happening all the time talk to him. if you are both happy etc then you can work it out. try not to worry about it. just enjoy yourself
2007-02-08 14:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd b*tch slap the sh*t out of him and tell him if he gets outta line again the right is gonna match the left. If you beat em private they respect you in public.
2007-02-08 12:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has an anger issue. my boyfriend snaps too sometimes. but i just tell him "geez, you dont have to snap at me!" and he apologizes. its not usually over something so little though...
talk to him. if he keeps it up, get out! it could get worse!
2007-02-08 12:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋