So what do i do im really going to try to get over my ex even thou i really like him still. Butg his friend is also one of my good friends that ive known forever and he tells me that he likes me but he will give me space to get over my ex. I really appreciate that he will give me room but he says that he would wait as long as it took, so do i give this guy a chance even tou im not over my ex and i dont know if it would work??????
2007-02-08 03:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call me old school, but where i come from, my friend's ex is considered off limits but i guess that hasn't raised any red flags in your mind. without knowing any of the important details (for example, was the breakup good/bad? and how close of friends are the guys in question?). what you need to do is work on yourself first. you obviously need some time to accept the fact that your ex has moved on. spend some time becoming the best person you can be as a single lady. when you can be confident in yourself then all the other situations will seem pretty funny later on. your friend that's willing to wait seems like a cool cat. he doesn't deserve to be the rebound guy. if you pursue a relationship with him, be at peace with yourself first. good luck!
2007-02-08 04:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh goodness. That's a bit of a situation - i remember those teenage drama years. Technically i'm still a teenager but .. whatever. Here's what i'll tell you.
You're at an age where you'll face this stuff constantly. The exes, the who you like, who you don't like - this won't be the last time you face it. I hear it all the time.
I would give this guy a chance, even though you're still a bit hung up on your ex. 'Waiting' for him will do nothing - you never know what could happen. Maybe he'll break up with her, maybe he won't, but you could waste a perfectly good opportunity. I wouldn't 'go out' with this guy right away . . i'd hang out with him and see how all that works first - but give him a shot. And if you're still too hung up on your ex and not caring so much about this friend of his, i would let him go - because you're not into him, and because it wouldn't be fair on his side.
As i said, give it a shot, and if it doesn't work, then it doesn't. You don't have to find prince charming now - you've got so many years left to do that. Eventually the right guy will come along - he did for me. :-)
<3Rachael
2007-02-08 03:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knwo how you feel...sooo...
Give this guy a chance, he sounds really sweet. I mean, he'll give you time because he knows what youre going through. So you should wait a while to see fi you can get over your ex on your own. If that doesnt work, hook up with this guy, who knows, maybe he'll be a better boyfriend then your ex was!
2007-02-08 04:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by .:xXx:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will it's ok to have a crush on ur ex, but if u let it get in ur way of having a relationship with someone esle u making a big mistake u need to get over him because he have a gf now. and this boy like u and said he will give u room to get over ur ex wat do that tell u about him? it tell u that he care about u so u should give him a chance and see wat happen from there maybe it will work out and maybe it wont but u never know untill u take the chance go 4 it girl see wat happen.
2007-02-08 04:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by flygi6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is whether or not you are over your ex i do not think that it will be morally right to go out with his friend. I wouldn't do it. That could cause alot of trouble especially if he is not 100% over you as yet.
2007-02-08 03:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah iv beem in the same postion u still have feelings 4 ur ex.. and his freind tells u that he likes u !!! well what i did was i told his freind that it was too early for a new boyfreind and that if he really liked me that he would wait!!! after a while i got over my ex.. and went out w/his freind and now we r still 2 gether after a year !!! GOOD LUCK
2007-02-08 04:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by emioly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish one relationship before you start another. if you aren't over your ex, it's not fair to get into another relationship. so wait until you are over your ex before you get with the friend.
2007-02-08 03:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well juss dont try to destroy there relashion ship but i think you should tell your ex because i would juss to get it out in the open so that he knows and maybe in the future you guyz could date,
2007-02-08 03:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Justinee X3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day you will see this guy who has been waiting for you...and you will realize how much time you have wasted waiting for this other guy...and you will want nothing more than to be with guy #2.
hopefully you realize it though, before the other guy convinces himself he is wasting time. good luck!
2007-02-08 03:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋