iv bin with my partner for only 2 months, we get on brilliantly n with us it was love at first site!! hes everything iv ever dreamed of n he says the same, he says that he has never bin with anyone remotely like me n loves me with everything hes got. im in a bit of a perdicamont, i wouldnt want to move in with anyone untill wev bin together at least 1yr, but iv recently bin evicted and dont have a permenant place to live, should i ask him if i could move in with him? im confused n need help! wat do i do n wat do i say??
2007-02-08 04:01:27 · 30 answers · asked by katluvsu4eva2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your situation, and see if he offers to help you.
Dont rush it though.
2007-02-08 04:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit soon really. You would be best to tell him the situation and see what he says but I would be careful it's not too much pressure on the relationship. You might be better to have a look around for somewhere else to live as well just in case he doesn't think it's good idea. There'll be plenty of time to live together when you have been in the relationship a bit longer.
Consider all options.
2007-02-08 21:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it is too soon into your relationship to ask him if you could move in, even as a favour this would be out of line. You must find other temporary living arrangements and stop using this as an opportunity to move in with him. It is smart for a girl to show her independence especially at the beginning of a relationship or you risk him eventually lose respect for you. I do hope you take to heart what I have said. I wish you the best.
2007-02-08 04:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooo. That is a tough one. But I would mention to him that you got evicted and see what he has to say. If he offers and you want to I would. Otherwise I wouldn't ask to move in. That's fantastic that you guys are off to a good start. But two months is the honeymoon stage, things dramatically change when you move in together. Stick to your rule of being together for a year. Don't you have anyone else to stay with? Good luck
2007-02-08 04:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive only just moved in with my partner after four years! after two months you hardly know each other, living together puts a lot of strain on a relationship as you behave differently around one another to the way you do when you are living together. you should get to know him better and make your own arrangements in the meantime. dont pressure him and dont expect him to ask you, you are at an early stage in your relationship.
2007-02-08 04:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by peroxide.pixie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should discuss your situation with him and see where the conversation goes.
If you are both ready for it then you will find this out when you talk about it.
But if in doubt don't rush things. You really need to get to know a person (I mean really know them) before you live together.
It makes or breaks a relationship.
Approach him and say... look this is my situation and wait for his response, if its a good response then take don't be scared to ask.
2007-02-08 04:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by 2talkornot2talk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...does he know your situation? If he does and he hasn't asked you to move in with him yet then I wouldn't ask him! He obviously likes his space! He may feel threatened and put on the spot...it just may run him off! If I were you I would find a friend to stay with for awhile...maybe he will ask you to share his place later, after yall get to know each other better.
Good Luck!
2007-02-08 04:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by Munch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you boyfriend loves you and truly cares about your welfare , he will invite you to move in with him. Do not push him , you have only known each other a few months and you may not be in love enough to deal with each others habits, idocincricies that you and he will both see once you are roomates. I suggest finding a new place to live that does not require a lease, and see what happens with your new love.
2007-02-08 04:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by vivib 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait !!! Wait till the lust wears off..give more time. You are in the euphoria state of the relationship. Why rush things ? Move in with someone for the right reasons..not because you need a place to stay.
2007-02-08 04:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by whatelsewhatever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you have been evicted and need a place to stay, he should ask you to move in. If he doesn't ask you, then you should assume he is not ready for that yet and look for another place to live for now.
2007-02-08 04:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree..explain the situation to him....and he will either ask you to stay with him.....maybe temporarily or help you to find a place...
only being with someone for 2 months is a big rush on moving in..your still in the "honeymoon" stage and learning each other...
2007-02-08 04:05:14 · answer #11 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋