now or after she takes me away for the weekend on her boat?
She has reserved it from her father and it has a crew of 8 that will cater to our every need...so should I just gut it out and let her pamper me?
2007-02-08 03:55:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People have the wrong impression here, we agreed long ago to just use each other for sex...
2007-02-08 04:19:03 · update #1
Just bang her and send her on her way.
2007-02-08 04:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only interested in what she has to offer then by all mean go with her and then tell her it is over. If however you care about her and you realise that it will not work, tell her before you all go on the trip. There is so scorne like a that of a woman's.
But i thought the answer would be obvious to you. Then again you asked this question. Well, you know how i feel.
2007-02-08 04:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we say selfish? "How much can I possibly take from this relationship, while giving as little as possible?"
Be a man! Break up with her now and let her take her best friend on the trip instead, so she can spend the weekend pampering herself to get over her heartbreak. She needs it more than you do.
2007-02-08 03:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting would be the typical guy thing to do. Do you want to be the typical guy, or above and beyond? A person with morals and a conscience would tell her you feel it's over as soon as you had those feelings. Even if she has went to lengths to reserve the boat, telling her now is the respectable thing to do.
2007-02-08 04:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by autoadvice01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no...your a user if you do that...your really gonna hurt this girls feelings and why would you want to make someones life a living hell all because you wanted to get pampered....if you do that crama is gonna hit you hard...think about it...is a boat trip really worth you getting hurt in the long run? God doesnt like ugly and that is one word that would describe you once you use this girl...tell her its not much the same in the relationship she might still take you to try to change your mind...who knows
2007-02-08 04:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by chanel_mitchell06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to buy your affection. Do you really want to waste a weekend with someone you have no feelings for, just to be "pampered"? Do the right thing.
2007-02-08 03:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i mean, if you really don't want to be with her you shouldn't be with her. Although it was very nice of her to do all of that for you, either way it seems like you're going to look like the bad person. One for leaving her even though she'd gotten this all ready for you (and her.) , and two if you leave her after she'd done this for you. I'd leave her before hand, simply because you don't want to be with her - therefore you shouldn't be with her. (Plus you'll look more of a bad person leaving her afterward.) If anything, don't leave her afterward, at least leave her on this weekend when you're with her. (if you can't leave her before hand.) But that should only be the case in my opinion if you honestly can't find the time to talk to her face to face before hand. Just find her, tell her you both need to move on, and done.
2007-02-08 04:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by appomattox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' let her waste her time on you if you do not want to be with her. You can tell her up front how you feel and leave it up to her to decide if she still wants you to accompany her for the weekend or not. Don't use people for what they have, it makes you look shallow.
2007-02-08 03:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are unhappy and want out so bad then why even bother going? If you are just unhappy but would like to try to make it work then go and talk to her about the issues. Do not ever use someone. Its wrong.
2007-02-08 03:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat drink and be merry one more weekend-then steal some towels and maybe a bottle of good champagne, have sex with her of course-then Never call her back. Maybe have sex with her best friend too-just to make sure.
2007-02-08 04:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now!
Don't spend an intire weekend with a fake smile and fake pretences knowing what you are about to do.
2007-02-08 04:00:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋