My fiance and i have been together for 2 years now and September of this year will make 3. We spend a lot of time together and never seem to get tired of each others company. But lately i've noticed him looking at other girls out of the corner of his eye. He has naturally sneaky eyes since they are so little and i've always thought that he looks at everyone like that but i find it weird that im just now seeing this. Is it just that since im pregnant im craving more attention and making wrongful accusations out of my own selfishness? Or could there be something going on? I know that he loves me probably more than i love him but you never know... please help.
2007-02-08 03:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Poison berry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him whats up.
But its probably cause you guys have been together for a while. He may start to have a wondering eye. But if you love him and if you know he loves you, just know he's loyal to you.
2007-02-08 04:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by .:xXx:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is hard to give advice on. I think you need to talk to him. If you trust him let him know how you feel and how he is making you feel. If he IS looking at women in your presence ask him not to, we all know men have wandering eyes just to look. It is common. You might be a little sensitive and feel vulnerable because you are pregnant and feel not so attractive to him therefore feel like he is doing other things. Also, you should talk to your doctor. There is nothing wrong with asking for advice from your family (assuming they are not going to judge) friends or co-workers. Chances are they have been there before.
Good luck on the pregnancy! And you and your man.
2007-02-08 12:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry most guys do this, their eyes wonder and check out other girls. Its what they do but it doesn't mean anything, you guys have been together for 2 and a half years your having his baby and your engaged, theres nothing to worry about. Its only because you've noticed it that its bothering you try to not let it get to you.
2007-02-08 12:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL men look. Stop being self conscious about it. In fact, why don't you get involved and point girls out to him? That will let him know that you notice and you have a great attitude. He'll think you are a gem rather than someone who annoys him with low self esteem.
2007-02-08 12:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just noticing it now since you are pregnant. Alot of men look around and it's just that .. looking. I wouldn't worry about it unless it becomes more than looking.
2007-02-08 12:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋