I do not like the noisy little bastages but my gf wants many, many childrens. What should I do? What should you do?
2007-02-08 03:31:57 · 23 answers · asked by Simpleton 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
run boy run....
2007-02-08 03:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a big, significant fundamental issue, and if there is no way you two can compromise, say, you will agree to one or two kids in the household and she agrees to give up her dream of producing a soccer team, then both of you have a future together.
If you cannot reach such a compromise, it's best to break up.
2007-02-08 11:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better break up now. It will not work out if she wants kids and you don't. One of two things will happen if you stay together. She will end up pregnant and you will resent the kid and her. Or..she won't get pregnant and resent you and bug you your whole life to have children. Get out now and find someone that shares your same views on having children.
2007-02-08 11:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't have to give up her dream of having children, and you shouldn't be forced to have kids if you don't want any. She will probably try to pressure you into doing it and then you will resent her. Sounds like it's time to break up. At least you're honest enough and responsible enough to think about wether or not you want children as opposed to those who just pop them out like its going out of style.
2007-02-08 11:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should a child every 9 months until you love children. NOT!
This is a major incompatibility. I would suggest seeing other people unless you want to work thorugh it. That would require counseling . . maybe just for you.
2007-02-08 11:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her go. If you do not want children and she does, the relationship is not fair to either one of you. If you do have children they will not be really wanted, and if she caves in to your wishes and never has children, she will always have that void that can never be satisfied.
2007-02-08 11:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Ti 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then why are you with her?! If you don't agree on something that is as important as having a family, then end it and let her find someone who wants a family like she does! Stop stringing her along! She deserves better! And you should find someone who does NOT want children!
2007-02-08 11:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Gramms 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break up with her and find someone that feels the same way you do. It is not fair to either of you to stay together when there is such a HUGE difference.
2007-02-08 11:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by lunasage 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Staying with someone in hopes of getting them to change=bad idea. Sorry, but you're gonna have to go your separate ways. You can't compromise on that one.
2007-02-08 11:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by nope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are wanting a long term relationship you better compromise or end the relationship now.
2007-02-08 11:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you two should break up -because that is a huge issue and since you don't agree - there's no point in continuing the relationship.
2007-02-08 11:35:50 · answer #11 · answered by lifesajoy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋