I had a good thing going with a guy i met online and we were planning to meet on March 9 becasue he is busy now with work and is out of town alot. I haven't heard from him in 9 days, what should i do? He is someone who ws emailing me every day almost.
2007-02-08 03:36:48 · 16 answers · asked by ttc #1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Karmen - he has two jobs and is out of town all the time. when he emails he explans day by day what he is doing and who he is with. he has no other girls he tells me.
2007-02-08 03:42:51 · update #1
btw - he is not married. I have sources at work and I checked all that out.
2007-02-08 03:44:11 · update #2
I did not turn him off. He asked me questions about myself and I told him. He always answewrs my questions too. Nothing I said turned him off. He is just soooo busy. He has two jobs? What do you all have?
2007-02-08 06:05:42 · update #3
I'm guessing this guy you met is busy. I mean like it's not like he can jjst sit there all the time at his computer e-mailing you. I'm pretty sure he has a job and maybe even a family. If he doesn't reply you within the next two weeks he was probably just e-mailing you for fun during his free time.
2007-02-08 03:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Karmen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is, were you both planning on meeting each other or were you planning to meet him? Internet boyfriends - in my case- are something i just can't deal with. You can become anyone you want on the internet, wether you're a couch potato or a diva. (trust me, i know from personal experience). Let me give you the lowdown.
First, he may have done exactly that: created another version of himself online. Maybe he described himself as having rock-hard abs and religious gym visitor, when in real life his abs are replaced with a bag of chips in front of a television. Obviously that would be embarrassing to meet you in person. My problem, for a while, was that i had a low self esteem and i loved having my own life online because no one judged me for how i looked - they couldn't see me! Unless i had a webcam of course.
But there could be other possibilities. If he's really THAT busy of a guy, he probably can't email you every second of the day. You aren't his whole life. But i do find it kinda of odd that he hasn't even attempted.
My point is, don't try too hard. It doesn't sound like this guy's the whole deal. And even if he was, and he was that busy, he probably wouldn't have the most time to spend with you and have a real relationship. I would suggest taking a break from the internet, and keep going with your life as you normally would. You'll find that special someone eventually - maybe not online - but most people find the one they love when they're not even looking. Just think about it.
<3Rachael
2007-02-08 03:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you about what happen to a friend of mine. Same thing emails every day then when they planned on a time to finally meet all of a sudden no more emails. Then about three months later he started emailing again saying he had problems with computer. They starting emailing again everyday then planned the meeting each other again thing and hey guess what he stopped emailing. The thing is this person you are emailing is most likely not who he says he is. Everything is great tell you plan to meet. I am almost positive the same thing is happening to you he is most likely not the person you think. People lead completely made up lives on the computer. I am sorry.
2007-02-08 03:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Debra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought is...he isnt who you think he is. Meaning, things were going fine for you, til you both decided to meet in real life...now he is chickening out??? Sounds to me like he lied about a few things then. Im assuming u have sent him an email asking where he has been, and why he hasnt written to you..etc If he continues to not write, its either cuz he died, or he lied about something and would rather end the relationship, then face you and be caught in the lie. Move on...more fishies in the sea for ya!Good Luck!
2007-02-08 03:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Renee D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, either he is just too busy to email, you said something that made him change his mind, or he found someone else he finds more interesting. Other than that can't think of any other option - other than possibly he or another family member has been sick.
2007-02-08 03:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True, his computer may be broken. Give him a call.
Still some time left till march 9, give him a chance to get back in contact.
2007-02-08 03:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He must not of thought it was that serious.
On the other hand he could be having computer problems and can't get to his e-mail?!
2007-02-08 03:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some how, some way you turned him off. Its that simple. He will never tell you either. You can deny it if you want to. Your choice.
2007-02-08 05:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that he found another gurl and went out with her.. but we have also to say that maybe sth wrong happened to him.. just wait and u will know .. if u didnt have respond from him just go on with ur life and know another guy
2007-02-08 03:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his wife was away and now she has come home so he cant get to the computer..
2007-02-08 03:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by vms001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋