I have to admit if I was you I would have felt a little worried or concerned, but he is your husband and its great that he has confided in you and he is honest with you.
It may hurt to hear him say this, but nothing can be worse that not be able to talk to each other and lying to each other.
You should ask him more about the feelings he has, ask him if he ever feels the need to act on these feelings.
Until you know more about these feelings it is difficult to judge or make decisions about how this affects your relationship.
2007-02-08 03:48:39
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answered by 2talkornot2talk 2
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If a man feels that his identity (if not his body) is female, then I don't see how he can have a marriage with "another woman". My first boyfriend told me after 2.5 years that he felt that way. I found it impossible to deal with. Our relationship was already in deep trouble for various reasons and for over a year I'd only stayed with him out of misplaced feelings of guilt and duty. I should really have ended it at least a year earlier than I did, but finding that the rather wimpy overgrown toddler I'd been putting up with all that time didn't even think he was a MAN! Well it certainly didn't do anything to change my mind about not wanting to be with him. I think it might have helped me to feel less guilty about breaking things off, after all, he made no secret that he'd known about these feelings all his life, and had deliberately kept them secret from me "because I thought you might dump me"! I have to say I thought he was a selfish b****** for doing that. Two and a half years of being lied to. Not good.
2007-02-08 08:41:19
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answered by Specsy 4
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Oh man. I would "make" that he's exactly what he said, trapped in a man's body with woman feelings. The question is, can you deal with this? IF he likes men, then you have a big problem, because you're not a man and cannot compete. If he "feels" like a woman and likes women, then you have something to offer, but can you deal with that? This thing sucks all the way around.
2007-02-08 03:41:39
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answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4
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i'm youthful at 29, yet I agree that the libido is increasing quite over the perfect couple of years. i'm surely slightly afraid for it to shop going as I surely have continuously been a touch bit a gentle change type of man or woman, i wish he can shop up. I attributed it to the actual shown actuality that i do not have youthful ones and the toddler yearning has been happening as well so i presumed it became my body desiring the potential subsequently. i visit assert that sex does in basic terms shop getting extra effective and extra effective so if it retains getting extra effective with the more effective libido then possibly i'm extra excited than afraid.
2016-11-26 02:43:24
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answered by ? 4
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oh well I am a woman in a mans body and I would be pleased if Mr B said he felt like me. If he wants a woman in a mans body he should have one.
2007-02-08 04:18:26
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answered by : 6
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Maybe he's trying to tell you that he's able to see stuff from a female perspective as well as from that of his own gender... Love the way everyone here instantly has you divorcing the guy, and instead of asking him what he meant, you ask like the entire english speaking world...
2007-02-08 03:56:15
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answered by Anonymous
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First, I would raise an eyebrow because I would't be expecting my husband to say something like that. Then, I would want to know when he started feeling like this.
2007-02-08 03:56:21
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answered by Michelle T 2
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seriously, if he is confiding this, he may need some further counseling to assess if this is something he is struggling with or a passing comment/phase. You are probably not equipped to counsel him but he does need it. I would feel scared, unsure, and worried
2007-02-08 03:41:52
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answered by Cute Stuff 3
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Hi, I'd have a very long talk with him, show him lots of love and give him oodles of t.l.c. Ask what he wants to do about it and support in any way I could
cheers Morsel
2007-02-08 03:42:55
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answered by Morsel 3
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Thats how my dad came out to my mom when they were married. They are still best friends 18 years later.
2007-02-08 03:43:55
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answered by ERICKSMAMA 5
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