I have been on an online dating site for over a year and have met many people. I haven't gotten to a second date with any but one. I can understand why I can't find anyone because after all, I am what people consider a loser, I don't have a college education, don't make very much money, don't live in a nice place, have no car, and on and on. So maybe I'm not good enough to be loved, but these guys that I have met and the ones I haven't met have everything going for them, looks, education, good job, popular and a lot friends (they say). If they are so great, why are they still online? There are plenty of college educated women with good jobs online, it just seems odd that they haven't found each other. Also these guys never update their profiles. I met a guy a year ago that had just changed career fields, but his ad still mentions what he did previously.
2007-02-08 03:02:36 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are more then good enough to be LOVED!!!
You need to love your self first then finding another person loving you is easier to see and you can stand up for your self better if they dont love you.
even outside of dating sites its hard to find a good person to be with.
Once you love your self youll know what you want then you may have more second dates or you may have less first dates because youll see how crazy people are..
All i can tell you is Love your self!!! YOUR awesome and beautiful....
You are one of a kind and when you meet the guy of your he will be the luckiest guy out there!!!
2007-02-08 03:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by SARAH D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not been of my dating web site since November 2005, my husband has not been on since November 2005 they still list us as active, we do not pay them, site want you to think that there are tons of people. If you consider yourself a loser than others will think that you are one. Work towards things that you want a better job that will pay for a better place, College has nothing to do with it. YOU CAN DO IT!
2007-02-08 11:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you sound like a kool person to me, just stay happy with yourself...and your soooo NOT!!! a loser..cheers
2007-02-08 11:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
desparate?
2007-02-08 11:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋