Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

BBBBBuuuuuuuuttt we have being broken up for 2 months and i promised her to get her some when we were going out..but now she doesnt even want to talk to me and my question is should i keep my promise or forget about it?????

2007-02-07 06:38:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so here's the deal, The dance at our school is coming up
and my boyfriend wants me to go to his, but It's the same day as
the one at MY school. I really wanted to go to my dance to be with my friends, and stay the night with my bud, Cassie. But, I'm really insucure and I'm scared my boyfriend will cheat on me. I know my
friends are really mad that I even considered ditching them but I dont see my boyfriend that much. My school won't let me invite
him, so what should I do?? Please Help!

2007-02-07 06:37:16 · 9 answers · asked by racingurl_15 1 in Singles & Dating

i have had a crush on this guy for over a year.. but he wasnt available so i started to get over him...after i transfered schools we stoped talking for about two months... we recently started talking again he asked me to go to prom with him , we went on a date , and we talk on the phone alot more often...and when i flirt with other guys i feel like im cheating on him...so confused do you think he is becoming more than just a friend...ive never felt this way about anyone before.

2007-02-07 06:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ Fashionista 3 in Singles & Dating

My brother who is 35 years old was over last night and we had a few beers. I could tell something was bothering him, so after some time, he confided in me and asked not to say anything to our family yet, and is in desperate need of my approval, due to my job (5-O). He says hes in love with this woman and has asked her to marry him and she said "yes", and I do know this woman, and so do many of my co-workers, and she is a prostitute, and has been arrested several times. Granted she is a good looking woman, but her long criminal history is very questionable. He said that she is willing to give up her job, and be a good wife, and be supportive, and be a good mom and does love him with all her heart. He says he wants to have babies with her, and actually confided he used to be a client, but now they are in love. Of course I was shocked, and I cannot go with my first instince, but he seems to be truly in love, neither of them have any kids (so she claims), don't know? Any suggestions??

2007-02-07 06:36:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Isn't ATTEMPTED MURDER is a bit overboard?
She has a bebe (sp?) gun? Geez.

2007-02-07 06:36:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I've been seeing a lot of questions over the last week about where is the best place to approach girls, but now I'm confused.

From the answers I've seen, most people don't think a club or bar is a good place to meet people if you are looking for a relationship. So then they suggest something like try a church, the gym, or a public place like a grocery store.

But then in other questions I've seen, girls almost all said that if they were approached by a guy at the gym or a grocery store, they would be turned off by it and find the guy pretty creepy.

So I guess my question is, is a bar or club really the only place where a guy can approach a girl without freaking the girl out? Even though everyone says that it is not the place to go looking for a relationship.

2007-02-07 06:35:24 · 12 answers · asked by boredatwork 2 in Singles & Dating

I just started my new job in Dec. I work with all men. There is this one guy who I really like. He is not the best looking guy in the world but he is so sweet. He is living with the mother of his child right now but miserable. He comes into the office daily to talk about his problems. He says he is only with her so she doesn't move away and take his son. I really like him. What should I do?

2007-02-07 06:34:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has been through two "occurences" where she started to catch feelings for some guy she started talking to online. She ended up talking to both of them on the phone, and the first one she was talking dirty to on the phone and tried to leave me for this guy 3 months before our wedding! And it turns out that he is on my states sex offender list! It has been cut off each time, but now it is getting to the point where I dont want her to talk to guys at all online. Especially since she told me numerous times it wouldnt happen again. Am I wrong?

2007-02-07 06:33:43 · 34 answers · asked by williamjohnwelch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend cheated on my 7 months ago and I forgave him but we fight all the time because I don't trust him.

2007-02-07 06:33:39 · 51 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 06:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked out this girl, we talked for hours and she just wants to b friends. she likes me and had a crush on me but doesnt want to b in a relationship. we are still hanging out and she is still affectionate towards me. im going to ask again but probably in a couple of months or when she gives me a clue. any ideas how i can win her heart? cant understand u girls. arg!

2007-02-07 06:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by Cloud Strife 1 in Singles & Dating

i think that they are really on top form now as they have sorted my money straight out this time unlike the last 13.they say that they can take the absent parents home of them and all sorts now!have you heard about that?and what do you think about the csa?

2007-02-07 06:32:44 · 3 answers · asked by bigbaps 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This past Christmas, my wife of 7 years informed me that she had been having an affiar for about six months. On top of that she also went and bought a house with out me knowing about it. She then informed me that she wanted a divorce, but did not want me to take our two sons away from her. She told me on Christmas, because her "lover" was forcing the issue. She wanted to wait till after the holidays, but if she didn't tell me, her "lover" was going to tell me first. After I calmed her down on the phone and we sat down to talk, we got to the root of the problem and what caused this to happen. For the length of our marriage, she has dreamed of owning her own home. Our Finances would not allow this. We worked on it, but constantly something would come up to drain our money away. Usually helping out a family member of hers or mine. Well, she was visiting old friends from school and over time she developed feelings for an old friend of hers. And the rest is history.

2007-02-07 06:32:29 · 7 answers · asked by Joshua S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What if tomorrow never came- would they really know you love them.

2007-02-07 06:32:19 · 6 answers · asked by Denise W 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

well hes a sick perv and when i come over for a date and hes not home yet when leave and tell him i call him when im halfway out the door he tries to molest me and i told my bf and the wife and they dont beleieve me what do i do

2007-02-07 06:32:03 · 12 answers · asked by cutiepie17 1 in Singles & Dating

i love the smell of men!! it turns me on more than their body...especially when they jsut get out of the shower...

cologne is icing on the cake! some people tink i am weird...

2007-02-07 06:31:46 · 11 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

When I was 5 years old my Dad started sexually molesting me. When I was 11 years old my Mom caught him, yelled at him, asked me if it happened before, and said to tell her if it happened again. It was never mentioned again. And yes, it continued.

My brother who is 7 years older than me forcefully raped me several times when he was in his teens. He physically abused me, and severely mentally abused me continually telling me how stupid, ugly, and worthless I was among other things.

My brother who is 17 years older than me sexually molested me after he was married with children. I was 11.

My Dad was confronted many years ago and the family has picked up and gone on with healed relationships. (He molested many family members)

My question, am I abliged to have a decent relationship with my siblings? My parents are dead. I'm 52. There are 8 siblings. I'm having a hard time with my feelings toward some of them, and I really don't want to have any relationship w/them. Am I wrong?

2007-02-07 06:31:02 · 1 answers · asked by lostjane 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I could use some advice on fair fighting with my spouse! We have two totally different fighting methods and we need to come to come point to fight nice and fair. My approach is whatever we are fighting about lets just talk about it and go on with our day. His approach is when we are fighting is to walk away so he can calm down. But I am having difficulty letting that happen because when we fight he has a short fuse and has already blown up and have called names and said some pretty mean things. So at that point I'm still calm but I am still not leaving him alone because I dont want him to think that he can do those things and walk over me and think its ok. So, how can I compromise or just walk away? What the right and fair thing to do?

2007-02-07 06:30:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

say you are currently in a relationship, and while you are out with your significant other you meet your "soul mate". Would you leave your current relationship? If so, what would you tell him/her?

2007-02-07 06:29:34 · 28 answers · asked by down2earth 2 in Singles & Dating

Looking for something cheap but not cheap looking..... little different then just folding paper over- looks to casual for my wedding. My theme is fall and the perfect pears. I found little pears card holders that are 12 for $24 but I need about 16 of them... and they only come is dozens and I don't feel like spending 50 bucks on table number holders. Anyone have any ideas?
Thanks!!

2007-02-07 06:29:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

okay, me and my girl have been talkin about doin it, with me goin in the "back door" and she says, her friends tell her it hurts but she really wants to try it, is there anything to use to make me go in easier and with less pain for her?

2007-02-07 06:28:08 · 37 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

french kissing her "Oh that's good your a beautiful goddess mmmm", or is that unacceptable?

2007-02-07 06:27:36 · 19 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Singles & Dating

He also likes to make them mad each other fight over him.
His wife knows, about the other women. he was like this high
School, We are just friends, I was his first love. I had to move
away, and I got one letter from him saying, he was getting married. So did not write anymore. I want him to be happy,
after 24 years he still wants to use me. even tells me thats not
what he is doing. that he is not like that. Will he ever be happy?
No we are not having sex, just friends.

2007-02-07 06:27:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 06:26:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thios happens to a friend of mine, he love that girl for many years now. the girl had rejected him. she never had a boyfriend. and told my friend that he's desperate for love. but my friend was so chicken that he fear he may jeapordise their friendship if he tells her, he still like her.
what should he do?
how can you tell that the girl is interested in him?

2007-02-07 06:26:05 · 5 answers · asked by continue waiting? 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i am like freaking out ........ i am breaking out like never before!! and i am afride it will last until my wedding day!! does anyone know anything i can use that will make these ugly things go away in a month!! i know it seems like a long time but most stuff only dries your skin out and i need it to remove these things!! Thanx !!

2007-02-07 06:25:14 · 14 answers · asked by HaZeLeYeZ 2 in Weddings

I live in Missouri if that helps but it doen't have to be near Missouri.

2007-02-07 06:25:02 · 16 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

I have a younger brother. I'm the oldest of 4, he's the youngest. He was a tough kid, always challenging everything and evrybody. Fastforward... He tried college. In 8 years that he spent while my parents were supporting him financialy, he wasn't able to complete a stupid degree. They kicked him out. He's held numerous jobs, the longest lasting about 2 months. He quits everything after 1-2 weeks. He lives with my parents. He is leached on to them.

It hurts to see him waste his life away like this. He has potential seriously. He's good with music and languages but I have a feeling he's anti-social.

I talked to him. I think he has problem w/alcohol which he denied and accused me of being crazy. We had the worst argument I've ever had w/ anybody in my life. He blames everybody but himself.

I also suggested geting a psychiatric help. He thought I was "stupid." He is so negative, I'm 90% sure he suffers from depression.

I could go on and on...
How do I help him? I do want to help him!

2007-02-07 06:24:48 · 15 answers · asked by Livinka 2 in Family

I'm an astronaut in love with another astronaut, but this skank is in my way. What should I do?? I need an answer ASAP. Thanks!!!

2007-02-07 06:24:16 · 1 answers · asked by sophia 4 in Singles & Dating

My heart is broken after 3 years of bending over backwards for this man he gave me a $300.00 braclet for christmas then 3 days later he broke up with me and the reason" he wasn't in lve with me'' now i want to break his heart. any suggestions?

2007-02-07 06:24:11 · 24 answers · asked by Dawn S 2 in Singles & Dating