2007-02-07 06:26:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a guy with a big caring heart to spend his money and time picking out things for you to enjoy....Money can't buy you love but it is a nice way to show some affection now and then. Obviously your on his mind a lot ..
2007-02-07 06:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can know something so deep. But if you think your boyfriend getting you stuff, I presume Material things means he loves you, then you are wrong. There are many reasons why a guy would get his g/f things, and it might not mean he loves you. Are you hinting that you need this or that or want this or that. He might feel guilty if he does not make you happy with the things you have voiced that you want or need. He might also think he needs to pay for your generosity (sexual favors) to him.
Ask him not to get you any more stuff and also no more sexual favors for awhile and see how he behaves. You will then know if he truly loves you. If he does love you, he will love you even if you two are not involved sexually together and you will feel loved even without gifts. Take care.. Good Luck.
2007-02-07 06:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes But Is Still Very Insecure and afraid that he'll loose you,
Reassure him that you want to be with him and you don't need to do all these things, besides, if he gets u stuff all the time it's no longer special at all when he gets you something, and a wedding ring potentially in the future will mean alot less aswell and that's very very bad.
I know it might be hard to resist cause it's very flattering and you get lots of free Sh!t, But for the relationship to grow, he needs to cut it down to just the hallmark endorsed occasions.
Good Luck 2 Yuz.
2007-02-07 06:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Spaghetti MY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, but the more likely option is that the "stuff" is a substitute for love out of guilt.
The real test is sacrifice of self...leaving a part of ourselves, our time, our talents, our caring, and our friendship, which caring cannot be counterfeited and whose value cannot be estimated. I can buy you all the things I want, but if it's with debt, it didn't cost me anything at all. However, sacrificing 50-yard-line tickets to the superbowl to get a friend whose car broke down and whose landlord threatens to evict so that he can care for his family represents the true selfless care requisite for the success of interpersonal relationships.
2007-02-07 06:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either he really loves you, (trying to hold you by using presents), or he just wants to get laid.
As long as you'll get all mushy and stuff and will sleep with him, he has gotten what he wanted. At that point he's gotten his money's worth.... Well unless he spent more than $200, for this amount he could have gotten a hooker. Well, unless you're to die for.
Either way. You're a girl. You should be able to tell if he loves you or he just wants to get laid.
2007-02-07 06:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people that only know how to show there love by giving gifts(stuff) and there some people that only know that getting gifts(stuff) is a way of only receiving love, You are a good person that knows that giving and receiving love is shown by how much you give of yourself and that is the best kind of love...If you really are into this man, teach him how to give of himself...!
2007-02-07 06:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only means for sure that he is really interested in you, he is a giver and can afford it.
Love? It's more than just stuff... but as you get to know him better, you will find out how he expresses his feelings, and giving stuff could be his way to express something the he doesn't know how other way to express.
2007-02-07 06:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be making a mistake that I have made of trying too hard - if the gifts lack spontaneity and thought then he is doing it because he feels obliged to. Why not say to him that whilst you really appreciate his gifts the whole time, he shouldn't feel obliged to always buy you things.
2007-02-07 06:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has nothing to do with "stuff", so there is no way for us to know if he loves you or not, based on the information provided.
2007-02-07 06:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sharon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's highly probable. Usually when we give a gift to a girl it is our way of saying precisely that. Sounds pretty good to me!
2007-02-07 06:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by mcpouches 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋