If your boyfriend cheated on you would you give him another chance?

Question

My boyfriend cheated on my 7 months ago and I forgave him but we fight all the time because I don't trust him.

Answer 1

I have forgiven my now husband for cheating.

It is not about forgivness, it about learning to trust him again, which is really hard to do. You need to ask yourself if you are willing to work on the trust, if not, you may as well end it now because a relationship is built on trust!!

I had a real hard time trusting my husband again, but he worked hard to earn it back, so the 2nd part is is he willing to work at earning your trust back??

I hope this helped & good luck!

Answer 2

If you can't forget and let go of him cheating on you then it's not going to work. In order for you and him to contiune and you to forgive you have to forget aswell. It would be hard but if you truel want to give him another chance then let go of what he did and trust him again or don't. My brother and sister in law have both cheated on each other during their earlier years of marriage when my niece and nephew were babies but they stopped doing it and forgave each other and put it behind and now they are happy and been married for 10 years. They haven't brought those times up and moved on. I believe if two people can do this then they can look past one cheating and move on but if he were to keep doing it then you shouldn't take him back but always be the mature one and forgive.

Answer 3

Do all Americans agree with Pres Bush?
The answer is NO.

Even if he never cheats again, there will always be that lack of trust and unfortunately you can't seem to let go of it.
If you are unable to truly forgive and forget then move on.

If I was the guy (and I don't believe in second chances) I would move on myself rather then continually argue over it. Obviously you were hurt (as anyone would be) but if you can't learn to trust again, it will never work out.

Answer 4

I have done it in the past but it just ended up that he cheated on me again. You will probably never be able to forget it even though you forgave him. Since you won't forget it you will bring it up during fights and sometimes even just at random times and it just won't be good. If you don't trust him just end it now. It will only hurt worse in the end the longer you stay.

Answer 5

Depending on how the relationship was before he cheated. There is no excuse for this behavior and second chances is something I couldn't do because of the trust factor.

Answer 6

first thing first. cheating is wrong. So i would never, ever, possitive, will NOT give him another chance. Since the sign of cheating means that he is not comfortable being with you, or he finds other girls attactive, thats not love. Love in something that you would do anything for that person and give up your life to be with that person forever without any regrets.if if he cheats on you then he shouldn't deserve to be with you. You are better without him. you can find better guys then him.

Answer 7

All relationships are best on trust. If you feel you can no longer trust him you need to either give it a certain amount of time or move on. Depending on the situation we all deserve a second chance in my opinion.

Answer 8

No way. This early in the game and you will always wonder. That little niggling doubt will always be in the back of your mind. If he cheated on you now as a boyfriend how is he going to behave when you are married, 35 and the honeymoon is WAY over?

Answer 9

Depends on how much i love him. The man im with now, i would say yes, because i plan o n marrying this guy. But i would never trust him again. Its hard to trust again when it already has been broken

Answer 10

No I would not because once a cheater always a cheater.

And a relationship without trust will never work because you will constantly be fighting about what happened.