My heart is broken after 3 years of bending over backwards for this man he gave me a $300.00 braclet for christmas then 3 days later he broke up with me and the reason" he wasn't in lve with me'' now i want to break his heart. any suggestions?
2007-02-07 06:24:11 · 24 answers · asked by Dawn S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I jusst needed to hear that other people have been hurt the same way. I was married for 19 1/2 years and that one ended and I didn't want to trust another and I did. I got hurt again. At 42 do I try again?
2007-02-07 08:39:39 · update #1
Two wrongs don't make a right. Yeah your heart was broken because he split up with you but that doesn't mean the world has ended. Pick yourself up and move on to find someone that will love you. Maybe that could be the revenge that you seek to let him see that you have moved on. But chances are that if he didn't love you then it's not going to bother him anyway.
2007-02-07 06:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding a way to break his heart is really just a way to make you feel better and you have every right to find that- however try spending the same energy you are on hurting him into healing you... revenge is for the weak, strength comes from moving forward and finding happiness in yourself. If this ex is done with the relationship, there probably isn't anything you can do to hurt him anyway, other than moving on and showing him that it was his loss.
2007-02-07 14:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by lindz1118 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw. Sweetie. I am SO sorry. Well he was being truthful would you want a man to stay with you if he wasn't in love with you. I know it must hurt to hear this and I dont mean it in a bad way. Just move on without him, if you doing something to break his heart in the end he will think of you as a total ***** because you couldnt handle it the right way. Be mature about it, and if you ever see him say Hi. He may absolutely stunnned to see that you are doing much better than he expected and if he broke up with you to break your heart he is going to be totally mad that you dont even care he is gone. I hope this helps. So SORRY!!! =[
2007-02-07 14:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by morena0kizzez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband (we were together 14 years) left me the day before mother's day for another woman. The only thing you can do is live a great life because that will eat at him worse than anything. I am starting school soon, lost a bunch of weight, I have never looked or felt better and I have a great new guy. My life is going good and his is going to crap. He thinks his girlfriend is cheating on him and calls me to bellyache about her. I told him "If she will cheat with you che will cheat on you." So live your life make it great and when he calls to ask you back just tell him "Sorry I am not in love with you and NEVER would be again."
2007-02-07 14:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on with your life I'm sure your better than that don't do something you might regret for the rest of your life and when i say this i mean don't go sleeping around just to hurt him if he broke up with you then there has to be a reason either he wasn't getting what he wanted from you or there is someone else in the picture.take care and good luck....
2007-02-07 14:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by cyndi m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. The best way is to just dissapear from his world completly ( not forever unless you want) Make sure that he knows that you could care less(even if its the opposite)
Time makes the heart grow fonder... sometimes.
Don't try anything crazy because it will just push him away. Poeples true colors show after a break up. You don't want that.
2007-02-07 14:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and be happy that you no longer have to be with him. (he was never worth what you thought he was) Have a good and happy life and never look back. Meet someone else and have the life you deserve.
A good revenge is no revenge. Your indifference to him is better than bitterness. You gave him years of love that he threw away don't waste anything else on him. Easy to say, hard to do but soooo worth it.
2007-02-07 14:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hurt for you. I was married for 24yrs and 11 months to my 25 anniversary. We were going to renew our vowels on our 25th. but it didn't happen. I was told he wanted a divorce there was another woman. So dear be glad that you only have 3yrs invested in it, and not 23 then you really would want to hurt him. just be glad he is gone. there are more fish in the sea.Men like that aren't worth wasting your time on. Lots of luck to you and happy hunting.
2007-02-07 14:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about you go some bling for free!! just dont think about him when u look at the bracelet. If its too much to keep, give it to a friend or re-gift it or pawn it and get some $$$
2007-02-07 14:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sista, go with the brother, best friend anyone close to him. He iz goin' to regret breaking up with u. Plus key hiz car and warn hiz new gurl(if he got one). Tell her to watch out 4 expensive bracelets. If she see one tell her to dump hiz butt first chance she get. Betta yet tell all hiz gurls from now on.
2007-02-07 14:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by SeRi0uSly Honored...& Mature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋