i have had a crush on this guy for over a year.. but he wasnt available so i started to get over him...after i transfered schools we stoped talking for about two months... we recently started talking again he asked me to go to prom with him , we went on a date , and we talk on the phone alot more often...and when i flirt with other guys i feel like im cheating on him...so confused do you think he is becoming more than just a friend...ive never felt this way about anyone before.
2007-02-07 06:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ Fashionista 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I NO HE ISNT MY BF YET PPL....IM ASKING DO YOU THINK ITS LEADING THERE
2007-02-07 06:46:14 · update #1
You're heart already knows what you're mind isn't telling you, yes he's becoming a more than a friend..... However, before you get too happy, please don't get ahead of yourself and start acting like his girlfriend unless the both of you have sat down and expressed a commitment to each other. That means exchanging the terms boyfriend and girlfriend. The last thing you need is to misinterpret where he stands. He could simply be dating you casually expecting you to the feel the same way, with no intention of going further right now. Since you're flirting with other guys, get on the details of what both of your intentions are. That way nobody can come back and say I only wanted to be your friend or I was hoping to be your partner. etc. Ask him if he's only interested in having fun with you, such as friends with benefits. If he is, then let him know that's cool and you'll be seeing other people too. Remember, discuss, discuss, discuss.
Edit to say with your addition:
His actions say to me he is definitely interested in you. There are two possibilities, he has been digging you all this time and was being true to the girl he was already with , or he could be using as a rebound so keep your eyes open! But from what I've read you've got a good thing going on, being asked to the prom is a BIG DEAL. And unless you have severe memory loss, no one ever forgets their prom date. That's a huge plus in your book girlfriend. But the same rules still apply above.
2007-02-07 06:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Bombay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not cheating by flirting. If you are an official couple you would know, but the guilty feeling over flirting with other guys leads me to say that you want it to be more than a friendship, because you obviously care a lot about the guy.
2007-02-07 14:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from what I can tell he is just a friend. I think you can call it serious and him boyfriend material after you both sit down an have a talk about you both becoming official boyfriend and girlfriend. Sometimes people can get confused or jus assume something more is happening when there really isn't. Best of Luck keep ur chin up. Remember communication is a plus!
2007-02-07 14:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by i_love_my_sparky_2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. I am the same situation. Hehe. Well...I'd definetly have to say a boyfriend which sounds retarted because they havent officially told us or asked us anything yet but the thing is, you talk on the phone more, you are going to prom w/ him, and you feel guilty about flirting, do you get it?! I mean they practically are our BFs. LOL. darn men!!! I hope this helps love! Good Luck! =]
2007-02-07 14:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by morena0kizzez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is he still unavailable? the first thing you need to do is decied where you want the relationship to go. if you want him as your man then you need to start making advances towards that. Try to take it slow though because alot of times when you are patient for something to happen, when it finally happens, it's the best. When you rush, that's when you usually develop all the problems.
good luck
2007-02-07 14:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Brownie_baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he has SAID you two are more than friends, then it's not cheating. Instead of sitting here wondering whether or not you are, you should be talking to him about it. Ask him straight out what's going on.
2007-02-07 14:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment he is still just a friend. Maybe you'll get together with him at the prom! Good luck!
2007-02-07 14:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably u r starting to look at him in a diffrent way!! u should ask him if he likes u as a girlfriend? and then if he says no then u shouldn't feel bad if u are flirting @ with other people!!
2007-02-07 14:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by J[o]a[N]n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like you guys are going steady. if you aren't going steady with him, you arent cheating on him. just ask him how he feels about the relationship. then just let it develop
2007-02-07 14:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by ♥vegetarian♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him how he feels, and where he thinks this relationship is going. He should have the answers.
2007-02-07 14:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ayeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋