Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

My wife is currently on a Carribbean vacation (cruise) with her mom. I sent her on this as a token of wanting to help her in the marriage.

She has been crying to me each night since the weather is terrible with rain and clouds...she is NOT having a good time!!!

She threatened to come home, but I stopped her...

Now, she demands another vacation when she gets home so she can unwind and relax from this stressful time...

She also demands that I go with her, but there is no way to get out of work for me...

How do I appease this situation? I don't like it when she is angry with me!!!!

2007-02-07 06:09:24 · 17 answers · asked by Ted Arcidi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 06:08:26 · 23 answers · asked by Willis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 06:08:21 · 24 answers · asked by Ms.Renee 2 in Singles & Dating

We only have 2 classes together and we sit on different sides of the room. Hes on the b-ball team (one of the team captains). I'm a Jr and hes a senior. We say sometimes in the hallway but its nothing special. I would see him everywhere,lunch ,library,or even stuty hall. The thing is his ex-girlfriend has the same class with us. She sits right next to him too. And she has her own boy-friend but shes always around him.(ain't that a bicth). I just want to be one of his closest friends before he graduates. hes sweet.nice,polite and funny. and he has big head that everyone seems to point out but i still like him. how do i talk to him?Help

2007-02-07 06:07:35 · 4 answers · asked by ruth m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What did you do? Why did you do it? Were you hoping they'd notice your attentions and ask you out or what? What happened?

2007-02-07 06:07:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after 10 years and a divorce and a reconciliation, it may be over, but one last ditch effort of counseling may save it who knows

2007-02-07 06:06:55 · 16 answers · asked by badboy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is the ring really that important?? I mean sure it protocol but what i want to know how many people have had successful "ring less" proposals?? (serious answers plz)

2007-02-07 06:06:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i often see women using this as justification for not paying their way on dates in the begining of a relationship

they will say "if i asked for the date i would pay for the date"

heres the fallacy with their arguments

women, virtually NEVER ask for dates, especially early on in the dating sequence, so who always pays?

2007-02-07 06:06:23 · 10 answers · asked by MagicalPussy V 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friends boyfriend is still in love with his ex and shes single....

2007-02-07 06:06:09 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 06:05:22 · 8 answers · asked by tyra 1 in Family

2007-02-07 06:05:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anashuya 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband quit his job exactly one year ago to pursue his own business. We were having financial difficulties at the time he quit his job, but I supported him and we pushed on. I truly believed he tried his best to get the business started, but a year later, my credit score is completely ruined, bills are backed up, and I'm truly scared about our financial situation. I'm working two jobs and I have just given him an ultimatum. If in six months, our situation hasn't improved drastically, then I'm leaving him. My question is, am I being fair to him, am I being too lenient?

2007-02-07 06:04:48 · 40 answers · asked by Garrrr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 06:04:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't get it. I'm smart, funny, athletic, a good cook, I am a healthy 205 lbs., I have a very good personality. What do I do?

2007-02-07 06:03:23 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm throwing a couples bridal shower for my sister-in-law in April and I'm kind of stuck on what to give out for prizes/favors. For a girls only shower it's not that hard... pictures frames, candles, lotions, etc. But the co-ed aspect is making it a lot harder than I thought it would! I'd appreciate any suggestions for any part of the shower! Thanks. :)

2007-02-07 06:03:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

heres the deal:
im in the army and currently deployed in iraq so i wont be there for our first valentines....but i still wanna do something special that she'll remember forever any ideas on a romantic gift i can send her since i have to be away from her on that special day?

2007-02-07 06:03:06 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy I like and i heard he likes me to so when I got ready to call him tell him how I feel I recieved a message from my best friend saying that they are going together should I tell I like her i like him or just leave it alone ( but i really wanted to talk to him so plz give some advice)

2007-02-07 06:02:38 · 3 answers · asked by katie 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 06:01:59 · 3 answers · asked by Brittany B 1 in Weddings

Do ex's usually come back? I'm just curious and wanting to know other's take on this...any personal experiences? An ex is an ex for a reason, but why is it that they come back after awhile, even after THEY've dumped you? I'm in a situation like this now...my ex gf left me, but this has happened before, (my ex left, but came back, etc), but this time I believe my ex has moved on for good. I admit, I was hurt, cuz in the end I thought we'd work out...I had high hopes. Everytime I asked my ex if she really wanted me to leave her be, she'd be like yes, then the next day no...etc. But now, she's told me she's trying to have a faithful relationship with her new gf (even though she cheated on her w/ me), and feels like I'm gonna ruin that for her. I've accepted it, but still text here and there. It's only been 2 days since I last text...she doesn't contact me anymore, I contact her. What I'm wondering is, if I let it go and ignore, do ex's usually come back on their own term? why?

2007-02-07 06:01:55 · 22 answers · asked by Brekn'dwn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have both hit puberty, she thinks I'm hot, and I like her

2007-02-07 06:01:39 · 12 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that works with me ad he is a complete cutie-he talks with me alot and the only time i see him is 2 days at work-well i go to a community college and i just found out he goes there-funny i see everyone i dont want to see but him-i know his major and where he might have a class so should i try to see him without him noticing me?

2007-02-07 06:01:04 · 15 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

Do English women look for certain qualities, attributes, or physical features in a man more so than other nationalities of women? If so, what do you think these things are?

2007-02-07 06:00:44 · 13 answers · asked by Jumpin' Jack Flash 1 in Singles & Dating

A High school girl about to graduate

2007-02-07 05:59:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 05:59:53 · 24 answers · asked by S☺♥☼@♫ 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been friends with her for 3 years now. and yes, we were friends with benefits. several months ago we had a "falling out" i told her that i do not want to talk to her anymore. she stopped calling as frequently and i thought she had finally moved on and lo and behold last week she calls me "private" and starts rambling about how great her new guy is, blah, blah... in my opionin she was calling me to try to make me jealous and in actual fact is really in love with me otherwise, if the new guy was so great, why is she still calling? what do you guys think? remember, i told her never to call me again long before this as i said the friendship was over... let me know your thoughts.. is she just crazy, or possesive or just .....

2007-02-07 05:59:13 · 11 answers · asked by the doc 1 in Singles & Dating

People change constantly - different views, tastes, even friends than a few years ago. If you marry someone, how do you know you will feel the same way in 25 years' time? Clearly many people don't, although they probably don't think that when they first get married.

Do people marry for security? If so, is there any part of law that can't be dealt with outside marriage? Marriage makes financial situations more secure in the event of a death, or if the relationship does not last - costly divorce and childeren aside. Can financial security be guaranteed outside marriage? When buying a mortgage together, can it be ensured that both persons are responsible for payment? If you have children, can it be guaranteed that if one leaves, s/he continues to pay child support/provide care? Can you legally define someone unrelated as your next-of-kin?

Perhaps you should only marry if you are in a financially weak situation, otherwise, what's the point? But I'm open-minded on this - any other views?

2007-02-07 05:58:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so what do you think about this?

2007-02-07 05:57:53 · 7 answers · asked by maria 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hot chick...no smoking hot chick @ work totally wants me but i have a girlfriend. she im's me all day telling me what she would do to me if i let her. What do i do?

2007-02-07 05:57:53 · 6 answers · asked by russgipson 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was invited to a friends place , I had a good time , now I want to write to him that I had a good time , for somereason i just cannot compose this email , suggestions please

2007-02-07 05:57:28 · 13 answers · asked by adf a 1 in Singles & Dating

help

2007-02-07 05:57:17 · 11 answers · asked by gatoroak 1 in Singles & Dating