there is this guy that works with me ad he is a complete cutie-he talks with me alot and the only time i see him is 2 days at work-well i go to a community college and i just found out he goes there-funny i see everyone i dont want to see but him-i know his major and where he might have a class so should i try to see him without him noticing me?
2007-02-07 06:01:04 · 15 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-07 06:08:15 · update #1
you should hide in the back seat of his car and then while he is driving pop up and say "HEY WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE?"
he'll probably crash..
but then you'll get a chance to talk to him..
2007-02-07 06:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes stalking is a must because guys really dig on creepy girls.
NO! under no circumstances is stalking an option.
Most guys, I have found, prefer a more direct aprproach. If you want something go get it. What's the worst answer you get? No?
Guys for the most part feel like females hold the cards to what is going to happen. If you think about it, that's pretty much right.
This isn't always the case, but more times than not, men and women alike will agree.
2007-02-07 14:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Miss D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure stalking him would freak him out, as it is freaking me out that you are contemplating it. Why don't you just mention to him the next time you see him at work that you thought you saw him around campus. Ask if he goes there. Suggest you meet up for lunch or coffee in between classes. Use the fact that he goes to the same school to your advantage. Don't make it a huge disadvantage and don't set yourself up for a restaining order.
2007-02-07 14:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalk? No sweetie, just ask him. What class do you have at .... Since you guys already talk he won't think you are being weird for trying to get to know him. When school comes up in a subject say Oh you go there? Me too! That's amazing!
2007-02-07 14:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Eazy Duz It 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, acting like a pyscho is certainly a great way to get his attention; Stalking is always wrong. If you are that interested in him, why not walk up to him and strike up a conversation? Acting interesting and intelligent is a much better way to attract someone.
2007-02-07 14:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's childish. If you like him, go talk to him. Talk, not stalk.
Why would you want to spy on him without him seeing you? Doesn't that really mean that you hope that he DOES see you and notice you? Why play the games? Why can't you just start making it a point to try talking to him?
2007-02-07 14:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK Stalking and trying to get noticed is two different things..if your going to stalk him i say get some help! If your going to try and get noticed by him on campus i say go for it why not..
2007-02-07 14:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound good to me,don't you think it's a bit too much stalking him?I'm sure you can find other ways of making him notice you. . .
2007-02-07 14:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stalk . have you ever been stalked ? im sure iff some stalked you u wouldnt like it . but u shouldd really tell him how you feell// orr askkh im were he does to skool and stuff andd bring t up that u go their too ..and then tak it from thier
2007-02-07 14:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by xhetal09x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it wouldn't hurt to see him as long as he doesn't know you're there. But you want him to know you're there right? Then forget stalking; grow some balls and talk to this guy!!
2007-02-07 14:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, You should go up to him and let him know your interested. If he shoots you down it wasn't even worth stalking him.
2007-02-07 14:11:53 · answer #11 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋