Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

When you're married, what is the difference between secrets and privacy? For example going through your spouses email, cell phone, mail. etc.... If youre not wanting your spouse reading your email (or anything for that matter) is it because of privacy or secrets?

2007-02-07 06:23:54 · 17 answers · asked by thelilred_whocould 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im thinking about getting started on my wedding plans, my cousin (who i am pretty good friends with also) said she wants to be my maid of honor. im not the maid of honor in her wedding and i dont care, we're not as close as we used to be before this guy came along and thats fine, the problem is that my friend who ive been friends with for 18 yrs, is moving back to my area and i really want to make her the maid of honor, i know my cousin is a huge baby and will through a fit, i doubt that she would even settle as a bridesmaid, should i just say screw it, its my day and do what i want, or what????

2007-02-07 06:23:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What the hell is wrong with me!!!! I've been single now for a while after a divorce last year...I just can't seem to get close with a guy!! I've had loads of opportunities but I just can't seem to trust anyone! I have lots of friends and they're constantly telling my how gorgeous I am and how easy going I am but as soon as I get chatted up by a guy I close up!!! Am I a freak??
Any feedback welcome!!!!

2007-02-07 06:23:24 · 19 answers · asked by prettywoman 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 06:23:17 · 14 answers · asked by somanyquestions 1 in Weddings

There is this guy who is going to be hired at my job, so we haven't really had the opportunity to talk, just small office talk, but everytime I turned around he was lookin at me and he had a look in his eyes when he shook my hand and left. I don't know when I will see him again but it seemed like there ws some interest. I have his contact info but don't know if I should make a move. what should I do?

2007-02-07 06:21:44 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 06:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by hboosh 1 in Friends

No internet, or dating companies. And BTW is okay for a girl to ask out a guy? what do you think guys? IM 27 in ks.

2007-02-07 06:21:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it normal o it is a concernd

2007-02-07 06:21:33 · 6 answers · asked by yorky g 1 in Singles & Dating

I am happily involved with someone and we are engaged although we haven't even talked about an actual date to get married or anything.The first relationship I have ever had was age 19-23 and the guy was older and I was crazy in love with him.He cheated on me and a few months later I got back with him (i know i know) well after that things were good and he treated me great but yes he ended up cheating again with a girl that we were both friends with. He ended up breaking up with me over the phone and then she had the nerve to call me a few times to "help" me.Long story short, I was devastated for months and I haven't seen or talked to the guy in 3 years. The past few weeks I have had two dreams involving him. The first one I was just hanging out with his gorgeous new girlfriend that he wanted me to meet and the other one I was in a house with him and his family and friends but I don't remember much else. I haven't consciously thought of this guy in years so why am I dreaming about him?

2007-02-07 06:21:09 · 3 answers · asked by Amaya 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here is the story, growing up my parents never belived in me in doing anything, and when I grew up my parents always said I would never amount to anything, and that I would never graduate. Here's the thing, I said **** my parents back when I was 5 when they told me I couldn't do something, and I say **** them now, next semester I'm going to be awarded my first degree, maybe it took me somewhat longer than some people but I'm going to get it.

I was thinking that once I get my degree and get a job I would buy a new car, and say **** them right to their face or something, anyway I was curious to know what would have more of an effect from the son they had that would never amount to ****.

Btw, don't bother giving advice on seeing a counselor or what not, I don't want it, and you'll probably receive a violation because of it, just answer the question or don't bother posting anything. Not everyone has good relationships with their parents.

2007-02-07 06:19:37 · 38 answers · asked by D 4 in Family

My description 42 years, man, black hair, professional (MD), great practice and contracts, never married, and no children. Would you be able to share with me the following details: State where you live, your color of hair, your occupation or job, if single or divorce, how many children and do you belief in past lifes?

2007-02-07 06:19:33 · 5 answers · asked by Night Hawk 4 in Friends

can I be more like a man?
I dont want to cry, I dont want to hurt anymore.
I thought I could take away the emotional pain by hurting myself, but emotions and physical pains are so diffrent.

I just dont want to cry anymore
I dont want to be weak.
I want to be a man.

can someone please help me!?

2007-02-07 06:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

did u love me

2007-02-07 06:18:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a sex addiction and i have a hard time even trying to meet girls anymore. i try not to show my addiction. but i want a real relationship. one that will treat me right. no smart a** comments please

2007-02-07 06:17:51 · 13 answers · asked by n_jevne 2 in Singles & Dating

she has a bf and i found out that he goes out and has sex with a whole bunch of girls and my friend dosent know about i think if i tell her shell think and lying and jelous what should i do and hes is the father of a friend of mines child

2007-02-07 06:17:04 · 17 answers · asked by cutiepie17 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a senior in high school and today i was leaving school with my friend and where I'm park there is another car that pulls in in front of me but facing towards my car. The car was parked right on top of my car and i had damage to my car. I pulled my car back a bit and looked at it. It's not "that much damage" but the paint is chipped off the front of my car and there is a dent and a scratch. The other girls car was more damaged. She had more paint taken off from her car and a bigger dent on her car. It must have been this morning. I got to school early in the morning and her car wasn't there yet. Any way i drove my friend home and decided to drive back to school and tell my principal what happened considering i had her parking spot number...well when i got there the OTHER GIRL was there and told the principal i hit HER CAR and she wants me to pay for her damages towards HER CAR!! I DID NOT HIT HER CAR but my principal said i have no proof that i didn't hit her car!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-02-07 06:16:36 · 25 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a teenager turning 18 soon and I really like this guy that's over 20 years older than me. But he's so mature and sweet. But he's happily married to his wife and has 4 boys although they don't live here with him. We haven't done anything but I just like him so much and I can see a future with him.

2007-02-07 06:16:15 · 16 answers · asked by *~Nikki~* 2 in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to ask a boy out....how would you like to be asked out..? helppppp....plleeaassee...

2007-02-07 06:16:03 · 5 answers · asked by Lolliepop 2 in Singles & Dating

Can people become bored of their partner if they were in love with him/ her for a long time but still love them.

2007-02-07 06:14:42 · 5 answers · asked by MaoAce7 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, so is it wierd that my fiancee closes her eyes when we're kissing or is that a good thing? cuz when i tell her to look it my eyes when we're kissing she says it makes her feel wierd....whats goin on?

2007-02-07 06:14:36 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

my sister is going with an older guy and he treats her wrong but when im around he tries to act like nothing ever happended and tries to hit on me what should i tell my sis to do in this situation

2007-02-07 06:14:20 · 14 answers · asked by cutiepie17 1 in Family

I recently broke up with my boyfirned of 4 years. I realize where my mistake was with him in the relatinship which is why i ended it. I am now 5 1/2 months pregnant with his child (a boy) and he wants to be in his life. I honestly dont want someone like that to have any influence on my son's life. He's a compulsive liar, a drug dealer, he doesnt even care if he goes to jail or not. He talks to me like s*&t. We cant even be around each other without an arguement because he lies so much But he constantly tells me that he going to take care of his child. I never wanted to be the type of mother to keep a father from his child but i fell like this is the best move for my son's sake. Help!!

2007-02-07 06:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by tiffany j 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How come black guys are attracted more to women with big butts?Do u white guys like it too? Whats wrong with a small cute butt. I have a small cute butt, Ive noticed around here lately alot of guys like big asses. Dont they know those are the girls who will get fat as hell when they get older. What do u prefer and why?

2007-02-07 06:12:52 · 6 answers · asked by gurllucky7 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 06:12:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 06:11:49 · 29 answers · asked by peanutbulls 4 in Family

Hi; my ex and I broke up over a year ago; then we talk to each other but I have not gotten completely over him and he wants nothing with me but in all this time has been single, we stop talking to the other because he does or says things he should not if he wants nothing again with me only "friendship".

He lately treats me like we never dated and always, always no matter what he does hurtful the next day he talks to me like nothing, treats me like nothing.

I have told him I thought I was more important, had been special but no answer at all.

He treats me I think like those girls you can go out and do something for it to mean nothing.

He made fun of things he did and he should have either apologize or tell me he will not do that at my home; I told him go play games somewhere else.

All this and he still after several days; has called but I did not answer; I thought is was him. And now send mail asking if is still ok to call.

Why they do that?
Don't they hurt?
?...

2007-02-07 06:11:13 · 9 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Friends

oh yeah???...prove it....have fun...;0)

2007-02-07 06:11:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 17 and im in this play at my school in which my character's girlfriend is a girl that i'm into in real life. i'm gonna ask her out for this weekend and i was thinkin of saying..."(sarcastic voice) I was thinkin, you know, just to make sure we have the characters down and everything, I mean, I guess i don't really have any other choice , but I should probaby take you out to dinner this weekend. Whatta ya say?" ...soo is that too corny or do u think it could work

2007-02-07 06:11:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

um.. im 17, and im talking to a 30 yr old guy that has 2 kids (4 and 6). We have not done anything physical. He doesn't want anything to happen between us until im 18. But, my question is.. is it bad that im talking to him and perhaps might have a relationship with him in 2 months?

A little background on me.. im 17, be 18 in april (exactly 2 months from today), my father's a preacher, im a senior in high school.... hm... ya...

2007-02-07 06:09:56 · 18 answers · asked by nikkicomstock_69 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a long-distant relationship, or WAS. He hardly ever called me, I addressed the issue, but he told me that it was just how he is. I accepted it, until the calls became even more infrequent, until I didn't hear from him for two weeks, but I kept calling him every 3-4 days and he would answer. It occured to me that if I didn't call him, I would probably never hear from him. so I stopped calling, a week went by, and I thought, I'm putting an end to this, I called him only for him to tell me that he's at work and will call me later. 7 hours later, I decided to text him saying "You could have told me it's over, bin the stuff I left at your place, gud luck with univerisity". He didn't reply, and that was a week ago. Do you think I did the right thing?! He's on MSN, where he knows I go on most nights and hasn't blocked me, should I go online and let him see me or let him wonder where I am?!!

2007-02-07 06:09:51 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating