she has a bf and i found out that he goes out and has sex with a whole bunch of girls and my friend dosent know about i think if i tell her shell think and lying and jelous what should i do and hes is the father of a friend of mines child
2007-02-07 06:17:04 · 17 answers · asked by cutiepie17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you can really do anything without jeapordizing your relationship with her. She has to figure it out herself, or she'll never learn. You could always have your friend with the baby talk to her, about his past....
2007-02-07 06:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that the best thing for you to do is to tell her before she find out in a way that she really dont want to and then the fire would be on you because you knew and you did not tell her and if she dont believe you she would have to find out in a way she dont want to.
2007-02-07 14:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by NellyPooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER! I would want to know, if she doesn't believe you then that's her own loss. But she's going to find out eventually, and then she will realize you were right all along. Does she know about the child? Because that's sort of living proof.
2007-02-07 14:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell Her!! But only if your source is reliable. Assuming it is you could be saving her from a life of pain -or death-ya know VD, HIV.
She may be angry with you at first but once she sees that you are trying to help her she will be grateful.
2007-02-07 14:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Taners 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRITE her an letter BUT dont tell her who u r. TELL her your just a person that thinks she is getting the short end of the stick. DONT SIGN your name. USE DIFFERENT PAPER TOO. THEN act as tho you know nothing.
2007-02-07 14:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and if she dosnt listen leave it at that. the only thing you can do is pick up the pieces later when she finds out.
2007-02-07 14:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you can provide hard proof. I mean Hard proof. And not that you "Heard that's what he does". Then stay out of it. Best to let her find out herself. If you do however have the evidence then present it to her.
2007-02-07 14:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by ariesespo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her everything. if she gets mad at you dont worry. you are saving her from that loser. hope everybody is protecting themselves while they are having sex. they could be spreading some stuff to each other. she will come back around when she realizes that you are being her friend and trying to help
2007-02-07 14:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by rain9439 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know for sure then tell her, you'd be helping her emotionally long term, and who knows what STDs he could have/give her from all those other girls
2007-02-07 14:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by thinkin2myself 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will I would tell her a bout the kids. She needs to now about his kids. and if she don't belive you. sow her that he haves kids. Then that is up to her if she wont to be with him are not.
2007-02-07 14:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋