my sister is going with an older guy and he treats her wrong but when im around he tries to act like nothing ever happended and tries to hit on me what should i tell my sis to do in this situation
2007-02-07 06:14:20 · 14 answers · asked by cutiepie17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell her too break up with him ..
2007-02-07 06:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by xhetal09x 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to find a way to tell her. I had a similar problem. I live with my cousin and her boyfriend has been hitting on me and he doesnt treat her how she deserves. I never really came out and told her everything so unfortunately they are still together.
If I were you I'd have a serious talk with her and even if she's still sceptical about your motives ask her to sort it out in front of him and get him to tell the truth if he starts to lie hit him with the truth. It's best to tell a friend so she can be there and side with you then it might just get through your sisters head what's going on.
Don't be afraid like me or it will just continue. Or even if he hits on you again storm out towards your sister and tell her you've had enough and jus confront it then. If you wait long she may just brush it off and think as it being in the past.
2007-02-07 14:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by *~Nikki~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. She needs to get rid of that scumbag, she can do SO much better! Got any brothers? Dad live in town? Have them give that guy a beat down! Any male family member will do.
2007-02-07 14:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. One lesson I've learned is you can't help who you love or who you're attracted to. You should try talking honestly with your sister, but you should also be prepared that she may not be ready to listen to you. If he's as bad as you say, I'm afraid she'll find out in other ways.
2007-02-07 14:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by retropink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister that he has been hitting on you. If she doesn't believe you, you could have one of your friends ( that he doesn't know) arrange a date with him, then take your sister to spy on him. Best to not tell your sister in advance because she may warn him.
2007-02-07 14:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by shendley04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that matters will only get worse and she needs to get out before there married and if he will hit on you and your her sister he would hit on anyone. WARN her
2007-02-07 14:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to try and convince her that she needs to leave this loser, because he will never change and he is just taking advantage of her. I hope she opens her eyes before its too late. I know many people get blinded by love, but I hope she wakes up...Good Luck...
2007-02-07 14:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her. Tell her everything. She may get mad at you but im sure that she will be thanking you in the long run. Save her from the jerk.
2007-02-07 14:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by rain9439 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that ***** would treat my sister, like that he would 20 bullets in his skull
ask a friend or relative to tell him how it is
if he refuse, beat his ***
2007-02-07 14:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that he hits on you, and she could get a better guy.
2007-02-07 14:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap him hard across the face when he disrespects you and her.
leave a mark. peace
2007-02-07 14:19:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋