2007-02-07 06:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by hboosh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My daughter is one of those that sits alone. She has one good friend. She tries tooo hard to make friends and she does'nt realize that she is just aggravating other kids. All she wants is someone to talk to. PLEASE go over and talk to the girl that sits alone @ your school. Ask her if she wants to play, and ask your other friends if they would be nice to her. She can't be that bad. She might even turn out to be your best friend.
2007-02-09 09:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by melissacmpbll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was someone like that I once knew... She was so different and her family was poor so she wasn't "cool" and her attitude was horrible. She was a nice enough girl but when people messed with ehr she would get so upset..... I didn't personally have anything agfainst her but everyone else seemed to hate her. She had no friends and sat alone. Me and her sorta formed a quiet friendship. We were nice to each other. What's so wrong with this girl you know? If there really isn't anything wrong then DO THE RIGHT THING. Be her friend when noone else will. If your friends are true friends they'll back you up on it. Trust your gut...
Good Luck!
2007-02-07 16:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by elie101_forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, start paying attention in English class and learn how to spell and write a complete sentence. Second, if you want to be nice to this girl "everyone" hates only out of pity, don't. She will know you are not sincere and she will resent you more for it.
Think about how you would feel if you were in here place, alone and disliked for no specific reason. Would you like feeling that way? Would you like for someone, anyone to be genuinely kind to you and get to know you for the real person you are, not tease you because of what a bunch of mean-spirited kids say you are? Be kind to her because you WANT to be and ignore what everyone else says or does as a result. Be that kind of person, because you will be happier with yourself overall. She will, too.
2007-02-07 14:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by BlueEyes39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please,whatever you do,don't be mean to her.Give her a chance.I was picked on so bad as a child.I would go home everyday crying. Just because I didn't have the right clothes,or shoes,or look. What is on the outside isn't what's on the inside.I raised my boys to never make fun of anyone,no matter what.Why do you and your classmates hate her? What in this world could she have done to make you hate her! Put yourself in her shoes.Give her a chance,that might just end up being your best-friend forever.
2007-02-07 14:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by pd_didi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - terrible grammar. But, it is nice that you feel compassionate for that girl. You should let her know that. Life is too short not to act on your better instincts. This girl might end up being one of your best life-long friends. Do the right thing and be nice to her.
2007-02-07 14:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reach out to everyone. Being kind is the best way to be popular. You want people to remember you as a sweet kind person, don't you? Imagine how bad you would feel if you were that poor girl. No one deserves to be hated.
2007-02-07 14:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now that same girl just posted a question saying that a girl in her class writes like an idiot and she feels very bad about it.
I don't think she's talking about you, though.
2007-02-07 14:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making friends with her, then. I can't really tell whether you are part of the 'everyone' who hates her, or if you and your friends are a group that is not part of that 'everyone' ... but I do know that everyone 'needs a friend' and that since you already feel very bad about her then you need to go to her and 'introduce yourself' and see if she wants to be 'friends' with you ...
2007-02-07 14:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think about the golden rule: treat other how you would want to be treated. if you were in her situation, you would appriciate it if someone came and was your friend. i know it is easier said than done, but you sound like a good person and would regret it if you didn't do it. it is easier if you have a friend go with you though
2007-02-07 15:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by lovin' life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is crushing someones feelings worth it? Maybe if you didn't hate her, others could find good things about her to like... maybe she behaves poorly because of the way ya'll treat her. I say you feel bad because you are human, and it's not right to treat anyone that way.
2007-02-07 14:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Fa!thfuIIy H!s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋