Do ex's usually come back? I'm just curious and wanting to know other's take on this...any personal experiences? An ex is an ex for a reason, but why is it that they come back after awhile, even after THEY've dumped you? I'm in a situation like this now...my ex gf left me, but this has happened before, (my ex left, but came back, etc), but this time I believe my ex has moved on for good. I admit, I was hurt, cuz in the end I thought we'd work out...I had high hopes. Everytime I asked my ex if she really wanted me to leave her be, she'd be like yes, then the next day no...etc. But now, she's told me she's trying to have a faithful relationship with her new gf (even though she cheated on her w/ me), and feels like I'm gonna ruin that for her. I've accepted it, but still text here and there. It's only been 2 days since I last text...she doesn't contact me anymore, I contact her. What I'm wondering is, if I let it go and ignore, do ex's usually come back on their own term? why?
2007-02-07 06:01:55 · 22 answers · asked by Brekn'dwn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let it go, they always come back "after" they realized what they had and lost especially if things didn't work out for them with the new partner, when they get lonley and have no one else that's when they want to come back because they know you still want to be with them or you still love them. I was in the same situation where my ex wanted me back and I chose to move on and it was well worth it, the ex..... still single after 2 years!!! lol
Good luck honey!
2007-02-07 06:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/djSqQ
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 23:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No let her go... ex's are ex's for a reason and I always say that, so I smiled that it was in your question. If she cheated on you, you are better than that, you might still love her, but you should move on. Apparently she has... Stop contacting her or even trying for anything with her. If she really loves you or wants to be with you again, she'll come back to you. But you should just move on and don't sit at home waiting for her to come back. Good luck!
2007-02-07 06:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jyse 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-01-26 13:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kacy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is human, and everyone has emotional needs. An ex is like an open door for desperation. Clearly, that door shuting is hard on you, becuase 1) She seems to have moved on and you havent; and 2)No more open door. If she comes back, all I ask is make sure it's not while she's still attatched and that she truely has feelings for you. I know its hard, but be a strong woman and move on!!
2007-02-07 06:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by Cloudyheartgurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess they take the exas a safe thing they know. I mean she knows what was wrong in ur relationship, how to manage things, in a new realtionship u are completely lost, u cant bet about anything how it would go, if would last what to expect. With an ex you know all that. But i guess i dont really understand it either, my ex bf is getting married and he is always texting me, or sending me mails. Also he never likes the boys i do like and insults them.
2007-02-07 06:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my very own experience:if it`s over,it`s better for you to move on even it may take some time. I ignored this advice and 2 years ago I got back with my ex-boyfriend.I had regrets and wanted to give a second chance.We lived happily for maybe another year and this december we broke up.My past bad "feelings" about him came true and I realized we shouldn`t have been togheter again...When it`s over,it`s over with a reason,even if it may seem unclear at the beginning! So I think,doesn`t really matter if it was mainly your fault or his fault,if it`s over,get over it and move on!
2007-02-07 06:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by NuclearKitty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-24 05:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Do not continue to let her use you for sex. An ex will come back for fringe and benefits (sex, money and to waste your time) without the other stuff like love, commitment, or respect. Get yourself an new friend and stop taking the calls. I know its hard, but she does not respect you. Deal with someone who will love you.
2007-02-07 06:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by TNT 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, exs do come back. Not when you want them back tho. When they come back you've already moved on and you don't want them back. Here my experience. So 3 years ago my ex broke up with me because I "cheated" and he believed other people over me. He ended up moving and I was sad and depressed. He did horrible things to me and called me a whore. I still wanted him back. He even stood me up. He said he would love to meet up with me and he didn't show up. It was hurtful. Anyways 2 years later he contacted me and said he regrets ever breaking up with me. And he kept hitting me up on facebook. I eventually blocked him because I had another be. And I was over him. So yes they do come back but when they no longer matter
2016-12-01 19:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by Karen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋