okay, me and my girl have been talkin about doin it, with me goin in the "back door" and she says, her friends tell her it hurts but she really wants to try it, is there anything to use to make me go in easier and with less pain for her?
2007-02-07 06:28:08 · 37 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make sure you use lubricant....ky will work best. and make sure she is really relaxed because if she isn't it will hurt that much more. you might want to try using other things up there first to "loosen" her up.
2007-02-07 06:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Douches the "back door" first with some available douching apparatus, can help relax the muscles a bit. Then there are also pain numbing creams, available over the counter. Then there are there are pain killers than can be taken orally before "back door" entrance to reduce pain. Position is also of importance for first-timers.
2007-02-07 06:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go buy KY Jelly at a local pharmacy store, or you you can buy this stuff called "AnalEase" online.
KY is a great lubricant & The AnalEase numbs the "hole" so there is no pain.
Also, finesse is the key to the back door...slow, very slow..if you do it right, it will be great for the both of you!
Good Luck
2007-02-07 06:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Vaseline, ky jelly
but your bottom was made to let out waste not take in and thus the elasticity is gonna get loose so fter a while you will start shitting up your self also you can get AIDS and worms so DONT do it ( SHE IS A DIRTY FREAK)
2007-02-07 06:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by really now! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm not an expert on this but petroleum jelly has always been mentioned in magazines like cosmopolitan and all. If its her first time then no doubt about it...its gonna hurt...even people who are used to it still feel it a bit...but as long as u both agree to it then i guess it should be all good!
2007-02-07 06:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by Fokai 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow now that is a question-
try ky jelly - go to a sex toy party, they have all sorts of stuff for before and after using the "back door"
she also needs to be totaly relaxed or it will hurt
2007-02-07 06:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by a l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow the advice of the other responders, but also go slow, very slow...it will allow for some comfort and increase the sensation.
2007-02-07 06:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seriously..Lots and lots of lubricant and go slow and easy. She will let you know if she feels pain and if she does STOP.
There is great info on the web about this just search anal+sex+how+to
2007-02-07 06:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It does/can hurt if not done properly. She has to be turned on and in that kind of mood, and you'll also need ample lubrication. Start slowly, until she tells you to continue. Go at HER speed, not yours.
2007-02-07 06:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have a few drinks first...
Lots of foreplay ..
Use LOTS of lube..
Start with finger / fingers..
Go very slow & easy...
Even the first time need not be painful if done right...
2007-02-07 06:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋