say you are currently in a relationship, and while you are out with your significant other you meet your "soul mate". Would you leave your current relationship? If so, what would you tell him/her?
2007-02-07 06:29:34 · 28 answers · asked by down2earth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well everyone has a soul mate but only the lucky ones find each other. But if i found mine i would tell my current bf that i really liked him and that i thought he was he one but instead he is more as a friend to me and that one day he will find his soul mate but i found mine before him. But also tell him not to give up because the person might just be infront of him.Just so happens that it is not me. Because if he really loved me he would let me go.
..................Jen..............
P.S.I hope that answers your question.
2007-02-07 06:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by **[[Jen]]** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you would have to extend this question in order for me to really give you my opinion, because from what you briefly stated there are many ways to tell you if its right or not. If you are in this relationship and you truely love him/her then no other person even if you think they are your soul mate should get in the way, but there are different types of relationships and it may depend on the level/amount of love/ what ever you have with this person that may make you feel like he/she is not the right one.
If you are in a serious committed relationship with this person you should never even think of someone else , unless you aren't happy, then you should let him/her know that and then leave to pursue what ever you want after you have ended the relationship. If you really think this significant other is your soul-mate and you aren't happy with this relationship talk to the person that you are in a relationship now with and tell them that you dont' feel like they are the correct person, let them know and make sure its at least mutual, please don't tell them that you are leaving them because you have found your soul-mate, that would be the worse case scenario!
Use your head, dont' just think with your heart, think as if you were the other person in the relationship, never think only for yourself, when you are in a relationship, its not only for you, but for two people. Good luck!
2007-02-07 14:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by por_ti_a_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I am married, so no, I wouldn't leave my mate. I made that commitment for life. But if I weren't married and my "significant other" and I didn't have children or any lifelong commitment to each other, yes, I guess if I fell in love with my "soul mate" I would leave the current "significant other" explaining to him what had happened. I wouldn't throw that opportunity away.
2007-02-07 14:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by lostjane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a true and honest asian girl. Lies and secrets will never do any good. Please do not hide it from her. Sit down and tell her and let her know that there isn't anything wrong with her. That she is a wonderful girl and she can have someone as great as her and that you cannot continue the relationship only because their is a girl that you met that could be your soulmate. and you want to pursue this dream of finding her. If you are a good man you should comfort her into not crying.(cuss i know she will cry) If she like you she should let you go and think nothing of it. This situation happen to me. The guy that i thought was my soulmates end up liking another girl while he is with me and not say anything until the last minute ,when i was going to finally say I love him. He left me for another girl that I know, but I was strong I did shed tears, but I know that everything happen for a reason. This situation tell me he is not my soulmate and that i can never trust another man that comes into my life until i am positive that he is true to me. so boy. do not keep it from her at all, like the guy that did that to me. If you care about a girl even if you are not inlove with her. tell the truth. it may hurt her. but at least your honest and you care for her enough to tell the truth. trust me if someone did that to you, that scar will remain in your heart, and the next relationship u have, that scar will effect the relationship because of your unhonesty and unfaithfulness toward her . whatever goes around comes around. be good and positive and your next relationship will go through happiness
2007-02-07 14:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Un4getableAsianGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you meet your "soul mate" while in a relationship, there must be something not right with the relationship you are in- be honest and end things...your signifigant other deserves to find someone who thinks they are their "soul mate", and obviously that is not you!
2007-02-07 14:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by lindz1118 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would weigh the decision for a while but if they were my soulmate I'm afraid soul mate would win out in the end. You wouldn't think of them that way if you had already found a soulmate. Make sense to you?
2007-02-07 14:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, honesty. well you can cut some things out like you found your soul mate. that might piss them off a little. hope that the person you think is your soul mate likes you also because then you will break up with your other and then what
2007-02-07 14:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by rain9439 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I all depends for your definition of soul mate.
I have an Idea for you:
Get a paper divide it in half (portrait)
In one side write the good things about your "soul mate", and the other side the bad.
Compare it, and make a decision.
Be careful with your heart, our heart is very tricky
2007-02-07 14:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by fontes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Real! How can you find your soul mate in one meeting? That's just plain crazy! So my answer would be, what?
2007-02-07 14:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you would say but I met my soulmate along time ago and just got together in 97 I am so happy right now and i would have to say that if you are thinking of leaving ,, just think about it and be sure then go for it...
2007-02-07 16:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋