Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

2007-02-04 03:38:31 · 13 answers · asked by taylor d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:38:05 · 5 answers · asked by daredevil 2 in Weddings

I dated my brothers best friend for a few years we lived together for the last few months of our relationship, I came home early because of my own suspictions to find him in the bed we had shared with another girl, so i left him. It has been over a year since and im slowly recovering.He is still best friends with my brother so I feel that may be why it has taken so long,because I still hear about him/see him periodically. He still tries for me back and I will never take him. Is infidelity like this a big deal? I feel like no one else I know understands what a scar this has left on me.

2007-02-04 03:37:22 · 6 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:37:02 · 3 answers · asked by johnny w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need to impress my guy friend

2007-02-04 03:36:35 · 3 answers · asked by GuNthEr'S_girl►♦♠ 2 in Singles & Dating

i was just curious b/c my friends are worried that the guys they are dating will dump them if there vagina smells a bit. Is it true guys be honest

2007-02-04 03:35:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:34:02 · 11 answers · asked by morena_presiosa_82 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a 25 yo guy at a bar/club 3 weeks ago. I look like 27-28, but I am 35 and he told me that age is just a number. We went on 4th date last Sunday and we cooked together. I had a great time. We didn't sleep together, but I stayed over his place. I'm out of a long-term relationship 4 mo ago, and I wanted to take it slow. In fact I became to like him a lot and I was scared to get involved with someone who could hurt me. When he asked me what I was looking for, I told him that I want to get married in 3-4 years and start family, then he told me he is not looking get married over the next 10 years. Do you think my comment pushed him away? I called him twice on Tuesday but he hasn't return my calls. I feel like I should have just told him that I am just looking for fun, since I don't even know how long I stay in this country. We are supporsed to go to this event together on this Tuesday. Shall I text him to ask if he is still up for it? Or shall I wait until he calls? What do you think?

2007-02-04 03:33:28 · 25 answers · asked by summercat 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in a long term relationship when i was dumped, and i have alot of bad days. Do you think that my ex will have bad days too even though he did the dumping? Surely you can't spend years with someone and not feel anything?

2007-02-04 03:32:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:32:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:31:22 · 12 answers · asked by ditz mama 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up last November.. She wasn't completely happy with me so she went with another guy. She gained love for him, and basically cut me off completely! I was very hurt and depressed during the first 2 months but I had to reach for closure.. But finding interest in other females seemed impossible.. I wanted ONLY her!

Just recently she started feeling unfulfilled with him and basically half of her still wanted me.. Now, I don't wanna share anybody love and she thought by me feeling like that, that I didn't love her and I do but its just that I want her to MYSELF!

So, lately I started talking to this other girl who's nice, good personality etc. But I'm not ready to start another relationship.. My ex and her boyfriend just broke up 2 weeks ago and she wants me back, I don't know if it took the guy breaking up with her to help her realize the love she still has for me but she wants me back and is jealous about the girl I'm talking to now.... Should I give is another try?

2007-02-04 03:29:02 · 15 answers · asked by Kenneth W 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex girlfriend of four years, just broke it off for good, she ripped my heart out.. but its a long story, i was just wondering what should i do with all her pics, and the birthday cards etc.. that i have gottn over the years? do i keep them so i can remember the good times, or do i throw them in the fire place and get rid of every memory of her i possibly can?

2007-02-04 03:28:57 · 12 answers · asked by xtremecrakhed 1 in Singles & Dating

My answer is cheating. I would NEVER give a woman a second chance...don't care if kids are involved or whatever the case. She could beg and plead all the way to the court house and it wouldn't change my mind. What say you?

2007-02-04 03:28:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, here goes....i am 35 and have been seeing this guy thats 36, for almost 2 yrs. and things were so great at 1st...arent they always.....anyhow, from the beginning he had a problem keeping track of time, he would always be with his pals and inevitably someting would come up and we would end up with very little time together, i work 13 days straight and then get a day off, recently we picked out a gorgeous ring, and have talked about him spending time with his friends so much, but after a week or "being good" he starts to slip up again, i told him i am tired of only having him around as a pillow in bed, he comes over at 10 pm and we leave for work at 7am, am i being jealous or unreasonable or is this relationship just not right? i want a guy who likes to be with me, and can bring me around his friends, i love sports, am pretty smart and too old for this.....WHAT WOULD YOU DO??? seriously...i care for him but his late night habits are getting old and he wont change, is it time to quit

2007-02-04 03:27:20 · 4 answers · asked by Sandie L 3 in Singles & Dating

Guys only, What do you think about a girl that is 20 and 4'11'' with 34B breasts? Would you go out with her? What's your opnion on that sze?

2007-02-04 03:26:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands ex has always been in control even going against court orders.he just wants to bring the kids to couseling. They have been brain washed by the mom. She controls them in vistations and doesnt share holidays with us. He pays child support and more. Hes a good dad. But cause of the ex putting things in there head they never considered there dad there dad only for hand outs and money. He use to give them more just to get there attention. But in the last few years he has held back the extras cause he wants a true relationship with them. But they dont come over they dont call cause they dont get what they use to (a money sorce) they dont want anything to do with him. Unless he gives to them. Thats the way there mom is. always materilistic. and teaches them that. She cheated on him a few times. and with her guilt fills there heads with lies. How do you go and take her to court is it possible he can and request court ordered couseling? How do you do it with out a laywer?

2007-02-04 03:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by shelby8687 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a great relationship w/ a good man for over a year. We have never "played games" & I made it clear from the start that I don't do that & that I find it a waste of time (i.e. if you want to call someone, just call them, don't wait 3 days).

For whatever reason, he has been ignoring me since last night. I did't do anything to upset him. I spent the night at my place for the first time in months. He ignored me all night. He ignored a text & gave me attitude when I called at 10am just to say good morning.

He has been going through some things (i.e. lost his job, stress of school for masters degree), & through it all he has been grumpy (which I understand) but has NEVER ignored me.

I do feel that these life changes are causing him to rethink our relationship & that he is on the verge of making a decision.

That said, I'm afraid to put my foot down about his "game playing" because I honestly feel that it will either annoy him or be enough to cause him to decide to break

2007-02-04 03:26:25 · 10 answers · asked by :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend mentioned to me the other day that I have acne and if my hair was real. He also pointed out that my right eye was bigger than the left. When he asked of his flaws and said I did not see any. I don't think he was trying to be mean but I dont know. I told him that my last boyfriend said he cheated on me be the other woman did not have skin like mine. Does he not like me because of my flaws, I thought that when you love someone you dont see any... what do you think of this?

2007-02-04 03:25:36 · 14 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend broke up with me and he wont tell me why. All he said was that I lied and everytime I ask what i lied about he says I know and that he doesnt have to tell me. I loved him with all my heart and I would do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING to have him back. we were engaged to get married this summer and I was planning on moving out after Highschool. I just dont know what to do I wanna get over him but I cant. any suggestions...?

2007-02-04 03:25:04 · 13 answers · asked by NC_baby_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

i m good looking still single ? good natured, simple down to earth...i mean i m a normal guy still i cant understand why am i single..........i have tried getting into relationships....still coudnt help ? can anybody answer.........

2007-02-04 03:24:20 · 13 answers · asked by I am a Legend 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so the guy i like, likes me too (his sister told me). Should i believe his sister, she's 8 by the way? I am constantly giving him hints that i like him, but he just won't ask me out. Why?? He had told me he liked his ex, but told his ex he likes me aloung with like 5 other people(to make me jealous). If i do ask him out and he says no, why would he do that? Also should i ask him out in person or should i have a friend do it for me or should i on the phone?? My one friend asked him out for me in September (he didn't like me than) and he said no. So what should i do?? Just play it cool or......?? I keep thinking he's just playing it cool, so he doesn't ruin the friendship, or to make sure he likes me first. It's so obvious he does though. Is he waiting for me to make the first move??

2007-02-04 03:23:41 · 4 answers · asked by loverforever150 2 in Singles & Dating

I get mad cuz everyone stays at bed till noon... and... I DONT... and im along all day... so i get bored... !

2007-02-04 03:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by D2 2 in Friends

ok my " best friend" always acts different around guys and if my guy friends joke around and say some thing about me she says it too just to fit in and she will make fun of me and she will tell me to shut up and she is a realpain to b around when guys are around shes not her self , but when we are with girls she is soo nice to me ..every one sees that she acts diff and i tell her and she doesnt believe me so what should i do??????????

2007-02-04 03:23:10 · 11 answers · asked by lvn the rodeo... 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:22:30 · 10 answers · asked by vijay j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:20:28 · 6 answers · asked by Jo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He won't look at me or talk to me. We have a few mutual friends and when I'm hanging out with them and he's around he's really quite. The only time he will talk to me is if I say somthing directly to him. He is very important to me and I want him to be happy. We had a mutual break up mostly because he just didn't want to be with me anymore. He said he would be my friend but now he acts so distant from me. Why won't he just be my friend?

2007-02-04 03:19:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:19:39 · 21 answers · asked by candies girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:19:11 · 3 answers · asked by loadsaluv2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my sister more than my life or anyone else of my family and husband. Idon't have kids, just my mother and 4 sisters. The point is that I would rather be suffering myself than seeing her go through it.

Her husband is a looser, he just lost his job and she is on maternity leave. She has a baby 14 months and another one for 2 weeks. He drinks, party all night sometimes for 2 days and doesn't come home, he is all about his frinds (they really come first all the time.) Imagine that for his 1st and only baby's birthday last year he knew my sister was making a party and did not help in anything but rather me and my boyfriend helped to shop and clean and setup. He made a BarBQ for his friends somewhere else to celebrate the birthday and drank all night with them only came around for about 5 minutes.
He tells her she is fat, lazzy(with 2 kids all day and then she had 1 and pregnant plus she cooked, washed, cleaned, babysitted the baby and worked a full time job) she isn't lazzy

2007-02-04 03:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce