my boyfriend broke up with me and he wont tell me why. All he said was that I lied and everytime I ask what i lied about he says I know and that he doesnt have to tell me. I loved him with all my heart and I would do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING to have him back. we were engaged to get married this summer and I was planning on moving out after Highschool. I just dont know what to do I wanna get over him but I cant. any suggestions...?
2007-02-04 03:25:04 · 13 answers · asked by NC_baby_gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's all I think about 24/7 and I want him so bad. we were together for 4 years. I gave him everything
2007-02-04 03:30:26 · update #1
he said we could be "friends" and that he still cares about me he just doesnt wanna love me. like wth I dont wanna cry anymore I wanna be happy and get over him but its so hard. he also just told me he never wants to talk to me again and maybe I should kill myself.
2007-02-04 03:34:36 · update #2
Who needs that coward bastard anyway. There is plenty of boys out there will do anything to be your boyfriend. Don't hate yout life.
2007-02-04 07:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please sweetie... dont hate your life!!!!
NO guy is worth saying that!
I realise your heart is broken, and honestly, a similar thing happened to me... I was totally devastated, and didn't eat for 2 weeks!
But, sweetie, think about it... whats the use? Where will it get me? NOWHERE... because he's made up his mind... I know it sounds harsh... But its for the best.
You might not think so now, but you'll see...
Why is he being so stubborn and childish? You dont need these silly little childish games in your life!!!!
If this is how he treats you, then its good it happend now, before a potential wedding!!!
Any guy who runs away from a situation without talking about it, is obviously a COWARD, and quite frankly, he doesn't deserve you... your heart, your feelings... Some other true gentleman out there does... and believe me, you'll find him...
God has a plan for you... remember, everything happens for a reason. I believe you'll be happier at the end of all this.
Time heals all wounds... be patient!
God bless!
2007-02-04 03:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anfieldgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, you poor thing. I can say that if he has trouble communicating with you now your marriage would have been doomed any way. You're better off with out this guy. You at least deserved an explanation. He'll want you back when he sees you've moved on and found someone better. Good luck! You're young still and will have something good to follow this I'm sure.
2007-02-04 03:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy listened to the wrong person, maybe THEY lied about YOU and he trusts them or something. Got a mutual friend who can pick his brain about what you "lied" about? But anyway, if he's that ready to dump you without talking to you about the problem, maybe you're better off without him - even though it tears you up right now.
2007-02-04 03:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it's a sad fact that sometimes people lie themselves and turn the tables on you to avoid taking blame. If he truly loved you he would have discussed this with you AND trusted you when you said you didn't lie.
He is playing you false.
2007-02-04 03:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask one of his very good friends to ask him why he broke up with you or you could think that he could of been scared of being married because it was such a young age or he could be dating other people and then you could ask him nicely to talk to you from a minute and ask him to just answer you and you will leave him alone that always worked on me and then he will pro-ply start to like you again because you act like your going to leave him alone and you ignore him then he will say to one of his buddy's did you see that she just ignored me and then they all will say go ask her out.
2007-02-04 03:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by cassandra b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happen to me before, and i didn't know what i did or said to him to make him break up with me but eventually i found out that he was listening to somebody who had told him something about me that wasn't true. I really hated the fact that he didn't believe but, i realize that i didn't need to be with somebody who didn't trust me. everybody was telling me to get over him and move on, but they didn't understand how much i loved him. i tryed to move on but i couldn't. i believe its hard to get over somebody especially the 1 u loved. i don't think u ever get over them u just have no choice but to move on in life and realize that there is somebody out there that better and greater for you.
just remember to Never Give Up in all that you do, and to love your life with all your heart, soul, and mind. It may be hard but i believe you can do it.
2007-02-04 03:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by Shanice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if this guy did this to you, why do you want him back? It sounds like he treated you like absolute garbage. You are young, and you have a lot to look forward to. Enjoy college, start a career, travel, form meaningful relationships, but don't go back to this guy. Enjoy your life. This guy doesn't deserve you.
2007-02-04 03:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a spastic so dnt worry hes makin up excuses cos he finks u look like an alien zombie. just get loadsa bottles and smash em round his head, thtll make him fink twice bout leavin u
2007-02-04 03:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should leave him alone. If it was meant to be then it Will be. it will hurt for a while trying to be without him but eventually you will get over him.
2007-02-04 03:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋