I was in a long term relationship when i was dumped, and i have alot of bad days. Do you think that my ex will have bad days too even though he did the dumping? Surely you can't spend years with someone and not feel anything?
2007-02-04 03:32:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think so. Im pretty sure being in a relationship for so long, your bound to have lil secret words,jokes and stuff like that. And im pretty sure on those days where he is reminded of you, hes wishes he wouldnt have made that decison. Also guys think there is always something better, which could be true, but they expect for it to just JUMP out at them. Great relationships take time. So yes im pretty sure he has pretty crummy days...so good for him!!!j/k!!
Move on, its hard, but your better off.
2007-02-04 03:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by blasone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys can be like that sweetie,just think of themselves all the time,if his in a new relationship id say he dosnt have bad days and is getting on with his life,alot of guys just carry on and it can seem quite selfish,but if his still single id say he does have bad days and think of the good times you had together,but for you id say the best bet is to forget about him,i know its hard,go out and have fun and enjoy life let him know that there is life after youuve bin so called dumped,you will be very happy again in the future with that someone special and you will look back at this will just be a distant memory,chin up,and good luck for the future!
2007-02-04 03:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the person that does the dumping has bad days...days where you just can not get out of bed. Days where you question the choices you have made but if the reasons are good ones they do not out weigh the bad days!!
2007-02-04 03:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad days? What does it have to do with dumping? Bad relationship is what does it.
You can be ran over by a car, and hit on the head with a falling rock from outerspace and still have a good day..........if your love one, ( the one you love) , is by your side and loving you, holding on to you, hoping and praying that you will get through the bad days.
2007-02-04 03:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was long term, chances are your ex dumped you for reasons that he/she thought were necessary. If he/she really loved you and really enjoyed their time with you, then yes, they will have bad days. Don't worry yourself so much on what they are feeling...get yourself together and go find something better....something that was meant to be. Good Luck!!
2007-02-04 03:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly doubt it. So please do not give it a 2nd thought. The one who does the dumping, no longer chooses to be with the other. Whether the reason is valid or not, doesnt matter. It's over, do yourself a favor and consider it to be the first happy day of the rest of your new life........Do NOT look back for any reason. ENJOY your independence. All good things happen for a reason! You will see that reason in time, and you'll wonder why you didnt see it sooner...........REJOICE!
2007-02-04 03:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, of course he feels bad! I think it's the hardest thing to let go of someone you love or loved!
Sometimes, you just realize how hard it is to be with someone you love and you fight all the time! So somebody has to decide to break up and I think it's the hardest thing ever!
I've broken up with my three-year relationship and I hated it, I felt so bad, I cried and I wanted to go back with him, but it would have been the same **** all over again...
You're not the only one who suffer! It's gonna fade away though...
2007-02-04 03:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they do. .
In fact, sometimes it's harder to dump than be dumped - because you have the guilt to deal with, and the wondering if you did the right thing.
You'll feel better with time, I promise :)
2007-02-04 03:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dumped my boyfriend and i have bad days ALL the time. For guys... im not sure they are so confusing!
2007-02-04 03:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋