Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

At age 15 and in a family where things are extremly tight money-wise, I was thinking of a good gift for my boyfriend that wouldn't be crappy because it was cheap.

So here's what I thought of- I'd get a nice basket, fill it with a bunch of little inexpensive things ((ideas are welcomed to what I should put in it)), print out some pictures of me and him and decorate the basket with them, and then tie a valentines day balloon on it. Does that sound good, or would you be disappointed with a gift like that???

2007-02-04 03:18:23 · 19 answers · asked by Aya 1 in Friends

I found a personal ad that my boyfriend made. It said, "male seeking male". I hate to think that he is bisexual. Is there a possibility that he could just be looking for friends. he is very lonely where he lives, cause he just moved. He always complain that the guys at work are married and are on a leash and cant' go out. There is one guy that is single at his job that he can hang out with, along with a few female co-workers. should I be worried? This is the first time I've ever seen anything like this on his email. He hasn't set up the profile yet, but he did start it. the description says, that he is looking for some friends. What should I do?

2007-02-04 03:16:23 · 15 answers · asked by YaYa 2 in Singles & Dating

Why in the hell did they get married if you are going to betray them. There is NO EXCUSE to cheat. NONE! You are a complete loser no matter what if you cheat on your spouse......

2007-02-04 03:16:04 · 15 answers · asked by Dick Richards 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 27, he is 38. There is 11 years difference. Do you think age is a problem?

2007-02-04 03:15:12 · 21 answers · asked by hougie21 2 in Singles & Dating

i have NO idea what to get my boyfriend for VDAY.=( i was going to do the motocross boots....but i dont have the money anymore! a sweatshirt, teddy bear, and a card ok? HELP ME! WHAT IF HE SPENDS MORE ON ME?? PS-we've been together for 2yrs PSS-im 18 he is 19.

2007-02-04 03:14:15 · 6 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Singles & Dating

should I forgive this guy, yes I dont know him persoanl. I chatted with this guy for a couple days and I was excited we were going to meet on friday night in my hometown bar I thought he would at least im me even now and say why he didnt show up I just want to know why is this too much too ask!!!

2007-02-04 03:12:21 · 8 answers · asked by Renee B 5 in Singles & Dating

I am single. I have been for a bit and am the only one of my friends who is. There isn't anyone I'm even interested in, but I do wish I could be in a relationship. Since that isn't likely to happen anytime soon, how do I accept the fact that I'm going to be single for awhile?
I live in a small retirement community, meeting single guys my age (late 20s) isn't easy. All of my friends have family lives and aren't interested in going out or things like that. Besides that I have a small daughter so it's not like I can get out much anyway. So dating isn't really an option. So what do you do if you have to accept the fact that you are going to be single for the forseeable future? How do you get around valentine's day parties and other events where everyone brings a date? How do I stay the happy comfortable person my friends know while listening to them talk about how great their relationships are when I'm single?

2007-02-04 03:11:31 · 8 answers · asked by libra1079 2 in Singles & Dating

I like one of my friends and i dont want to ruin our friendship by asking her out. I like her and i think she likes me too. I dont want to ruin our friendship by asking her out. This has happened to me once before and I dated my best friend for a couple of months. We broke up and i lost my best friend. What should I do. I dont want a repeat of my past relationship. But i really like her.
Please give me some advise.

2007-02-04 03:09:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he never love her anyway

2007-02-04 03:07:38 · 69 answers · asked by alexis christian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems like all guys want these days is just to get in your pants. i mean i am waiting for till i am in college and i have another year. but it seems like where i am, whereever i i go, it ends in sex. i am not against it, but why is it something that everyone thinks about. even geeks no offence

2007-02-04 03:07:17 · 12 answers · asked by beach girl 1 in Singles & Dating

when we had the first sex..she was very enoscent and i went to abroad for just six monts, astonishly wen i got back she's already expert,,, how was that?

2007-02-04 03:06:40 · 8 answers · asked by se7en 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married on July 20th of this year. I know you have to send out invitations 2 months before the wedding. What is the latest I should order them?

Second question, I am thinking of using fishbowls for my centerpieces at the reception. Any women who have gotten married use this idea? How did it go? How did the guests like it, did they end up taking the fish at the end of the night?

Only helpful answers need apply, thank you!

2007-02-04 03:05:56 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany 4 in Weddings

i heard that if u get married your credit doesnt combine does it combine with your spouse or is the credit separate for each person

2007-02-04 03:04:38 · 6 answers · asked by matt12882003 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy two months ago online dating. Things between me and him got very serious. Last time we had sex we didnt use pretection. He left new jersey to egypt to visit his mom last month. He suppose to be back from egypt this month 19th. Since, he left i havnt heard from him almost two weeks but last night he e-mailed me said that "his parents tries to force him to see a girl to marry." I was very upset to hear this news from him instead of good news about his vacation. I'm very affraid I might have his baby. What do i do from this point on? If he comes back to me should i bother with this relationship?

2007-02-04 03:04:20 · 6 answers · asked by 2006xx 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyone says 13 is too young to have a first kiss.. But I had one and its not really that bad.. But is it too young?
I feel real good bein the first one out of most of my friends though..

2007-02-04 03:04:01 · 28 answers · asked by Lucy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom has agreed to sign papers for me and my fience' to get married and i was wondering if it is hard if your still in school? me and my mom fight alot and i cant wait to move out i hope my married life goes better then the life ive had for 16 years

2007-02-04 03:03:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here it is. The knowledge that you have been missing all these years. Now use it, and take control!

Ego! That is the key to a man. women listen up.
Have you ever seen a great looking man with a nasty looking woman???
Just how you can tell a millionare, he is the dork with the hottie, You can also tell the woman who figured out the man's ego.

So how do you become the woman who has the key to any man's heart? that is really a very simple thing. first do not give men as much credit as you do. we are very simple animals. every man has his thing. some it is sports, others it is cars, still others it is music. you have to find that thing that he likes, and enjoy it with him. do not be afraid of talking to him. do not be shy. just start talking, once he thinks that you truly have something in common with him, the door is open.

back to the EGO.

compliments, compliments, compliments.
something as silly as telling him how good he looks, will have a lasting impression on him. those compliments should never end. Soon, he will be thinking he is king of the world while he is with you. And that will go much further than anything else. you will be the addiction he seeks.

for your knowledge...the men who are here saying how awful their relationships are, the men who cheat, the men who want to divorce their wives and leave their 5 children all have a woman who has traded his EGO! for her need to nag!....never forget his ego...he will do anything you want if you always stroke his EGO

so go out and start stroking the EGO!

2007-02-04 03:03:15 · 10 answers · asked by gibson_slayer 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy that I like a lot. Only two problems. First off, he lives in a different town so i don't get to hang out with him very often, but when we do we have so much fun. We still talk, even when we aren't hanging out, over the phone, aim, etc. Second off, I don't know if he likes me the same way. I think I see signs that he likes me, but I mite just see them b/c I want him to like me. When we do hang out, we usually hang out with other friends, too. We will go to the mall or the movies, etc. I have caught him looking at me, and then he would quickly look away. He would walk real close to me- bumping into me several times. If I go outside when we are waiting for a ride home from the movies (b/c I am hot, etc.), he would follow me outside, even though everyon else was staying in. When we talk it is either flirty-make-fun-of-eachother... or serious stuff, like stuff you don't tell just anyone. So am I seeing things that aren't there? Should i tell him I how I feel?

2007-02-04 03:03:13 · 10 answers · asked by yo. 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is a great guy love talking to him but he is married and I do not know his wife. He has had lunch with me and I enjoyed his company but I felt very guilty like I had done something wrong even all we did was eat, drink and talk. I like him but I dont think I will do that again can someone help me with this?

2007-02-04 03:02:47 · 10 answers · asked by postal_marg 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. There's this girl that I like. I see her a lot and I really want to ask her out. The only problem is that she is 15 and I'm 14. I'm pretty sure she likes me. How should I ask her out? Go through it step by step.

2007-02-04 03:02:13 · 4 answers · asked by Kenny F 2 in Friends

did you lose the person out of your life? how does it feel to lose the person you turned down suddenly?

2007-02-04 03:02:10 · 6 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont like kids and all girls like kids ? havent met any girl who does not like kids. what shud i do ?

2007-02-04 03:01:48 · 23 answers · asked by I am a Legend 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months and now he says he needs to 'take a break' to re-evaluate what he wants from life and our relationship.

He does have some commitment issues - which I know about - but now he says he needs time to work out if he can fully commit to me (he says he's never felt this way about anyone else).

Am I being a fool to let him have this time out? Am I looking at the world through rose-tinted glasses by hoping that he comes back to me?

2007-02-04 03:01:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a guy has liked me for over a year. We went bowling at school Friday. He admit he likes me. I went over to the guy I like and the guy that likes me came with. I said I like him not you. He whisperd something in the guy I like's ear. He went back to his lane and so did I. Then, shortlly before we leave he started crying. I asked his friend why he was crying and he said because of me. At first I'm like wow I made a boy cry, but now I feel guilty and bad for him. He is not cute, is smart, somewhat nice, and somewhat funny. I think that is really sweet that he likes me, but I'm not the right girl for him. Or am I? Do I like him? I don't want to. What should I do? What should I say? Help!!??

2007-02-04 03:01:33 · 12 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 03:01:16 · 27 answers · asked by bevalou 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Here it is, my wife love the wwe, and she gets turned on by picking me up and pile driving me through the funture, the glass coffee tables, the dining room table etc, i have had 35 stiches in the past two months alone, i love her but i cant deal with this no more should i leave her. oh and she once broke both her legs leaping from our roof which is about ten feet high into the swiming pool as i was on a aqua lounger also breaking four of my ribs. my mom says leave please help?

2007-02-04 03:01:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the other day my madam asked me to help her,i jokingly said i dnt want to help her,she got angry with me.Iam feeling guilty

2007-02-04 03:00:40 · 10 answers · asked by amogh datar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy in the military online 3 or 4 months ago. He is deployed overseas. We started chatting everyday either viia email or IMs. Things started out friendly, but quickly started getting romantic in nature. I had asked him the first time we chatted if he was married and he said no. I ended up doing a little research online a few weeks ago and found out he is married. After a few days of knowing this info, I asked him aboout it. He called and apologized and said he never expected to really chat after the first time, so that is why he lied and then things just moved so quickly he didn't know what to do or how to tell me. I know the right thing to do is just cut off communication. I am not looking to ruin someone's marriage. But I have friends who are military and they told me to wait until he returns, that he doesn't need that kind of stress right now. What should I do? I have started to become less available with my time to chat with him.

2007-02-04 03:00:40 · 3 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-04 02:59:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy, he likes me an I like him, but the thing is he has a girlfriend. We get along fine, an he took me out an said if he didnt have a gf that we could date. But then he ask me do i wanna be his gf, an I told him no b/c he has a gf, an he acts if this bothers him. He ask me if he leaves his gf will i be with him, an i said yeah. I mean he is so confusing, I mean I dont mind being his friend you know, an I told him that. We did kiss once, an held hand when we went out, i shouldnt of though. And I told him that I was not having sex with him, an if he is about that then he better guess again b/c thats not me. he told me to stop sterotyping him as one of those guys, but i mean some guys are like that so. He tells me that his gf, text messages guys she used to have sex with, an that her an some girl are fighting over her ex an she lets guys takes pics of her. he says that he with her b/c she takes him to work, but yet when he gets off the phone with her he says"love you.

2007-02-04 02:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2 in Singles & Dating