There is this guy, he likes me an I like him, but the thing is he has a girlfriend. We get along fine, an he took me out an said if he didnt have a gf that we could date. But then he ask me do i wanna be his gf, an I told him no b/c he has a gf, an he acts if this bothers him. He ask me if he leaves his gf will i be with him, an i said yeah. I mean he is so confusing, I mean I dont mind being his friend you know, an I told him that. We did kiss once, an held hand when we went out, i shouldnt of though. And I told him that I was not having sex with him, an if he is about that then he better guess again b/c thats not me. he told me to stop sterotyping him as one of those guys, but i mean some guys are like that so. He tells me that his gf, text messages guys she used to have sex with, an that her an some girl are fighting over her ex an she lets guys takes pics of her. he says that he with her b/c she takes him to work, but yet when he gets off the phone with her he says"love you.
2007-02-04 02:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him I thought he was running a line of Bull ****, I told him that I was not dumb, so if he is playing a game Isee through it.
2007-02-04 04:58:03 · update #1
Oh jeez. Girl, think this one through. If you did become his girlfriend would you trust him? when he left the house would you be suspicious? If he had a female friend, would you be jealous? If you drove him anywhere or did anything for him, would you feel used? Even though you two haven't had sex, he's a liar, a user, and a cheater!!!! Look at how he acts behind the back of someone he says " I love you " to. Why would you be different? Why do you think he gets defensive about "stereotyping" him? These are all games chicky. Take a step back and look at the big picture. Walk away from this dude.
good job! Being that he's a user, he probably won't fight hard to keep you or leave his girlfriend. If he honestly liked and cared about you he would. If a guy has a girlfriend and still tries to talk to you, It's a red flag. RUN! even if he ever left his girl, you'd always have trust issues and rightfully so. Relationships need to start off right to be right. It's good you felt something wasn't right and asked about it. The best advice I could ever give you is - Always listen to your intuition! It's right more times than not.
2007-02-04 03:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Shellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy wants to use you. By telling you about his problems with his current girlfriend, it sounds like he wants you to have pity for him. That is sad! If he is so bothered by the actions of his current girlfriend, he should be man enough to end the relationship. He also needs to be man enough to realize that he can not enter a relationship with you before ending the relationship that he is already in. He is confused on what he wants and is trying to manipulate you. Stay away from the loser.
2007-02-04 03:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Randy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you. Just don't be with him anymore. A decent guy would not have a gf for taking him to work. That's a lame excuse! especially if he has someone she likes and that is you. If he is using his gf he might do the same thing to you ain't it? He loves the girl but uses you to avenge himself about his girls behavior if that's true.
2007-02-04 03:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Shai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he wants to date you while he has a different girlfriend, who's to say he won't do that with another girl while he's dating you. This guy is obviously a liar and if the only reason he's dating his current girlfriend is to get a ride to work he's also pretty shallow and self-centered. I wouldn't go anywhere near him if I were you.
2007-02-04 03:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by petroelb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
respectable men do. we anticipate of about all of it the time, we experience shame, and we cover it with delight after we see those females. except . . . i could not shake my accountable thoughts in the route of an noticeably sweet lady I ****** over for sex after intense college. i ultimately approached her to appoligize and did not comprehend the thanks to commence. Then, i did not comprehend the thanks to end. Then she huge-spread the appoligy, announcing I could grab a lager and unfasten up, and that i did not experience carried out showing i'm extra perfect than the sleazeball she knew. Now, we've been together some months and that i have not been happier.
2016-11-25 00:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And did you tell him he is full of crap. But all he wants is sex from you. If he was sincere he would have left his gf and would be with you and wouldn't be taking about it. But all he wants is one thing so tell him if you want him as a friend. That you wnat him as a friend and that's all.
2007-02-04 03:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the exact same position but he wont leave his GF coz there parents know each other!!!
me and him have kissed and stuff and i just hope he decides what he wants coz i feel like a spare tyre!!
he told me he likes me and everything but i dont understand him his so confusing!!
good(*)luck
2007-02-04 03:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the road to becoming Britney and Kevin and we saw how that turned out.
2007-02-04 03:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Noree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get outta there! only headed for problems
2007-02-04 03:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋