it seems like all guys want these days is just to get in your pants. i mean i am waiting for till i am in college and i have another year. but it seems like where i am, whereever i i go, it ends in sex. i am not against it, but why is it something that everyone thinks about. even geeks no offence
2007-02-04 03:07:17 · 12 answers · asked by beach girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not need to have sex to be in a relationship. Keep this for the right moment when you feel you should go for it. It is not a blob on your character but a part of life
Do want your heart says and for matter of sex you do not need advice from others.
2007-02-04 03:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is so important because of this big gap in immaturity and no morals to live by. These offenders have no thought of tomorrow.
In marriage sex is beautiful and important but it is not everything. There is so much more and as you mature and look around, you will see just what direction you want your life to take.
Seek out guys that seem to be going somewhere in life. You won't find them in bars looking for a pickup.
They will be volunteering somewhere, helping a good cause, taking extra courses, they have other more productive things on their minds.
Good luck to you, sounds like you have your head screwed on properly with this question, and you will be able to hold your head up and make the decisions necessary for a better tomorrow, for yourself at least. You may even be an example to others, in a positive way.
Keep smiling, its contagious you know~~~ Jill
2007-02-04 11:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big thing today. People sleeps with other people at a drop of a hat. I use to date a guy and he pushed me into sleeping with him. I was aitng til I was married.
I am now dating this guy for 8 months now and we JUST started to have sex. He was very patient with me. Didnt push or anything. He said whenever I was ready. He was married once before. He is 37 and Im 36. I dont take sex lightly and he knows that. Stick to your guns and dont do anything til you are ready. A guy will understand and respect your decision if he really cares for you.
Good luck.
2007-02-04 11:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are at their sexual peek around this age. You are right in wanting to wait until you are in college. If a guy can't wait for you, he's not worth your trouble. Keep up with your education so when you graduate you will go off to a good career and make good money, while those guys will be working the night shift at Dunkin Donuts to make money to pay their baby's momma.
2007-02-04 11:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by stacia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it has become a status symbol. Guys can look good, girls will look like whores. Don't do it just because others say you should. You will not lose repect from others or in yourself.
If you want to wait until college, do it. Besides, if (and when) you do, guys will come knowcking down your door because guys want to marry a respectable woman, not one that has had sex with 10 other guys.
2007-02-04 11:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jax 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it's biological--it is how we survive as a people. It the reason your body went threw changes. Testosterone is a very strong hormone which causes men to seek out sex--it's their natural drive. Eat, have sex, protect my mate and offspring from others.
There is no biological force driving men to study Yeats. Most everything we do has to do with having a mate. We go to school to better ourselves--wrong. We do it so that we can get a good job and earn a good wage--so we are a good provider and women see us as a good match. You don't see women in their car looking for homeless men "hey, he's cute--I'll have have sex with him"
It's his Biological drive to find sex, and yours to say NO!!!!!!!!. Men don't need a reason to have sex--they need a location. Women control the With whom, where, and why.
2007-02-04 11:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by redrepair 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex with the right person, sex at the right time, sex with safety measures and sex will be a wonderful and blissful moment for u. And, sex is important for couples if you follow the above measures.
2007-02-04 11:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sex is important, its healthy. For both the man and women. I know im not a health expert...but sex just is important. it does become a problem if you do it with the wrong person, and you laer find the right one...trust me.
2007-02-04 11:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Love that baby butt xD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Kristin, it's human nature. It is after all how you got here too. People express their closiness with each other through sex. Furthermore, it feels great!
2007-02-04 11:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,it depends the persons personality.I think all guys are not the same & if you are sexy some times its true!!dont take it too harshely!!
2007-02-04 11:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Havel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋