he never love her anyway
2007-02-04 03:07:38 · 69 answers · asked by alexis christian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thank you for those who give sincere advise. I've already told her. She asked why. I said i'm not planning to justify what i've done but i'm really sorry. She said that since the affair is not sexual in nature, she forgive me. We are still best friend. Adios. Sayonara.
2007-02-05 23:13:17 · update #1
i noted that most of the people who answer jump into conclusion that the affair is sexual in nature. Maybe they're mentally slow or retarded. So judgmental. I'm so glad it turn out that everything is okey. Best wishes.
2007-02-05 23:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having been in a similar situation a while ago,I can only suggest caution as you will have been viewed to be co^mplicit in the affair as most people when confronted with the truth do not want to believe it and then the go through the phases of anger,denial,anger and then finally after much time has passed id acceptance. Since the perosn is a good friend of yours it speaks volumes of your charcther or lack of it. Best to let sleeping dogs lie and put some disctance in that relationship. Hurting your firend is not not right and is mean and spiteful.
2007-02-04 03:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Alex H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT ARE YOU THINKING????? You can't even be trusted to not hurt your best friend. And the jerk you're having an affair with is MARRIED and cheating on his wife. Don't try to excuse what you're doing by saying he never loved his wife. THAT'S LAME!!
And now you're considering telling his wife you're having an affair with her husband. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? You need someone to jerk a knot in your tail to keep the rest of your brain from falling out.
Even if her husband left her for you (which he won't) look what you would have...A CHEATER. How long would it be before he was having an affair with someone else? He did it to her; he would do it to you.
STOP what you are doing. You have run your life and the life of your best friend off into the ditch. This is a sad story.
2007-02-04 03:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women have the overwhelming urge to get involved with married men and then decide to "....tell the wife". Other than inflating your ego, what good will it do? She'll hate you, he'll get in serious trouble or divorce, and you'll get to be called, "...the other woman". Plus, you best friend won't be.
Stop the affair, keep you mouth shut, and find a single guy to fool around with.
Men will say almost anything to get you pants off. What makes you think he loves you? Do you trust him and can he trust you?
Get out of this mess as quickly as you can and hope you never have to admit to your poor judgment.
2007-02-04 03:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty hard on you , isn't it?
Does it have something to do with love or lust?
In a way, you will all be loosers.
You already know the answers even before you asked it. You only need affirmation from another uninvolved person.
You are into a life which is now full of lies and deception. Only a greater love can make you live with the truth. All else are in your hands.
2007-02-04 03:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by jbernz16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend are you? You crossed the line there. You should stop the affair and tell your friend. He never loved her? Is that what he told you? Why would you want to be with someone that is cheating with you? He'll probably turn around and do the same to you if he isn't already.
2007-02-04 14:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Joan G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trashy to have an affair with someone's husband. You are also a jerk to do that to your best friend by breaking the trust between you and her. But most important of all, you are also a FOOL to have the affair. I can tell you, he doesn't really love you. When he had enough of you, you will be jettisoned. If he loved you, he would already have gone after you and proposed to you.
Don't be a fool.
2007-02-04 03:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Forward 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should rephrase your question it should say I am having an affair with my best friends husband. You will pay for your deceit believe me you will come out of it the biggest loser of all cause that man will never love you the way you may think he does. Best friends true friends are hard to come by and you have ruin it
2007-02-04 03:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by jaci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you CRAZY? She may be a best friend to you and you took advantage of that by using it to sleep with her husband! Even if he doesnt love her, that is not up to you to decide if he has an affair. You obviously have no morals whatsoever! You need to tell her and if she knocks you down to the ground you need to take it because you deserve it!
2007-02-04 03:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...If this is a real question, U are a serious B****!!!
Why tell her best friend? To rub more salt into the wound. Let me guess he told U he didn't love her? Just to get into your sorry pants..U 2 deserve each other, he needs to let her out of the sham of a marriage he created,then u both need to take a flying leap, while she goes on to live happily ever after( She deserves it)
2007-02-04 03:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by mean evil woman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋