I have a friend who is a great guy love talking to him but he is married and I do not know his wife. He has had lunch with me and I enjoyed his company but I felt very guilty like I had done something wrong even all we did was eat, drink and talk. I like him but I dont think I will do that again can someone help me with this?
2007-02-04 03:02:47 · 10 answers · asked by postal_marg 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think if you feel a little guilt than you have reason to.
you have to ask yourself how you would feel if it was happening to you.... even though it was innocent.
2007-02-04 03:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
walk away. This will not end with you two being "friends". I'm sure if he wants to cheat on his wife he'll do it regardless but do you want to be the one? Do you want that on your conscience? Just think about it. You already know the answer or you wouldn't have felt guilty.
2007-02-04 11:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very right in what you are feeling... Steer clear of this guy and move on with your life without him in it... Try finding guys who are single and available to hang out with and be friends with..You will be better off for it. get on a local dateline or somthing like that too. Hope this helps some.
2007-02-04 11:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from the married friend, even if yous are "just friends". we all know what being "just friends" leads to. even if you don't feel that way now, it can and does happen. just break off all contact with him. he should be telling his wife all the things he's telling you. tell him to work on his communication skills with his wife.
2007-02-04 11:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are right to NOT do it again. If you don't know his wife then back off. She will find out and hunt you down eventually. WIVES have a way of finding out what is going on whether or not the husband knows about it. WARNING: DO NOT MEET WITH HIM.....watch your back lady.
2007-02-04 11:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing you have feelings for him
Maybe you should cool it awhile, you can still be friends with him, but dont go to lunch and stuff like that with him anymore
2007-02-04 11:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by mary L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think of how would you feel if you were his wife. Then you know how she feels, and if you want to continue or not.
2007-02-04 11:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be with a married man i hope his wife beats your ***
2007-02-07 23:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A LOT OF MEN DO THE SAME THING
THEY ARE PLAYERS
2007-02-04 11:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah...what rene and hope said.
2007-02-04 11:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋